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I (28M) come from an affluent Business Family, our Family earns more than 50 Lakh per annum & we have also have a lot of Familial Wealth. Recently, I got engaged to a Woman (25F) who also comes from a Business Family like ours, but based in a different City. She isn't much Educated & just wants to be a Simple Housewife (just what our Family wanted). Before committing for the Marriage, I asked her about her Past. She told me that she had been in a Relationship in the Past, which didn't work out for several reasons & had broken up more than a year ago & moved on completely. I assumed that it must have been a Normal Relationship, like most people these days & even I had a Relationship in my Past. She also said that she was wholeheartedly ready to get Married, when I asked her if she was under any Pressure from Family. Their Family was also quite well reputed, so we went ahead with the Engagement, which also involved exchanging some Gifts, between both Families. When I posted our...
Read Full confession →Hi everyone, 29M I'm in a very complicated situation so I really would appreciate some genuine advice. About 5 months ago I got a match on sh**di.com from a very pretty girl (25) belonging to a decent family. She is currently WFH. Her father works in a PSU. Our parents met twice and eventually we met at cafes a few times. We discussed our likes, dislikes, food preferences future plans and also a little about our pasts. I had a gf in school but it was kind of platonic. My now fiance told me she has 2 past relationships, one is school and another in college. Both of them didn't work out and that she has moved on from those relationships. I didn't query further as I didn't want the conversation to become interrogative. But since our vibe matched and we both had started liking each other, we got engaged 2 months ago. This is about what happened last week, when she asked me to meet urgently. When we met she hugged me and started crying. After I consoled her and asked what had...
Read Full confession →I need to get this off my chest because the sheer hypocrisy of the modern matrimonial market is starting to drive me insane. For context: I am a 30-year-old South Indian Tamil Brahmin, currently settled abroad and earning the equivalent of ₹50 LPA. I have worked my tail off to build a solid life. I carry zero debt, own assets, have a secure career, and tick every single box on the typical matrimonial wishlist that families demand these days. Then comes a proposal from our neighborhood back home. The woman in question is 28, from our same caste. Three years ago, she took out a massive ₹50-lakh education loan and went to the US for her Master’s. Owing to the market downturn and tech layoffs, she couldn't secure a job and was forced to return to India last year. She has now been sitting at home, completely unemployed, for an entire year. Her family recently approached my mother with an alliance. Their non-negotiable criteria? The groom must be settled abroad, must be able to hel...
Read Full confession →I (28M), working in fintech with a salary of ₹30 LPA, met a girl (23F) on Hinge toward the end of last year. She works at a consultancy firm, earning ₹6 LPA. We initially started exchanging memes and casual messages. She wasn’t very responsive at first, which was completely fine by me; I just sent a post every couple of days. Eventually, our interactions grew, leading to our first phone call. During that call, she spoke at length about her dreams, ambitions, and communication skills, while I mostly listened respectfully. About a week later, we had a second call. I mentioned that I would be moving abroad in six months for a role paying the equivalent of ₹50 LPA. She noted that moving abroad was a dream of hers too. Given the upcoming relocation and the fact that we lived in different cities, we explicitly agreed that dating didn't make sense. We decided to keep things strictly casual. As we continued talking, she learned more about me: that I come from a financially comfortable family,...
Read Full confession →Please Help me choose between 2 Women, in case of an Arranged Marriage scenario... Before describing them, I'd like to introduce myself... I'm 30M... Talk, decent looking, Healthy, having a good personality... I'm an Officer in a Central Govt Dept... Prestigious Job, ₹12LPA Salary along with many more Allowances & Perquisites, to lead a Comfortable Life. But my Job is highly transferable, almost once in every 3 years... So I prefer a Partner who would be a Housewife or someone who has a very flexible remote Job with high mobility, so that we both can stay together. I got Arranged Marriage Proposals from many Families & I've also met many Women... But there's 2 Women, I have Shortlisted, as I like both of them, more than all the others. 1. Prashanti (25F)... B.Com Graduate but not working a Full-time Job, comes from a Decent Middle Class Family, Cooks well & does all Household Chores, has Creative Hobbies like Classical Music & Art, Earns a Modest amount by taking Tuitions...
Read Full confession →Hi, I am a 34-year-old woman, and I have been suffering a lot mentally. My father passed away 11 years ago. After that, I stayed with my mother and took care of her. I was rejected in many marriage proposals, and my mother also had serious health issues. Five months ago, she passed away. Since then, I have been struggling to live without her. I feel extremely lonely. I have siblings, but they are married and busy with their own families. They are not very emotionally supportive. I am a kind, soft-hearted, emotional, and trusting person. Unfortunately, some people have cheated me financially. I am also an introvert. I don't talk much at first, but once I become close to someone, I open up. Because of my caring nature, some people misunderstand my kindness and develop other feelings instead of being genuine friends. Although I am well educated, I have only been able to get low-paying jobs, which has been very disappointing. How can I overcome my loneliness? How can I find a genu...
Read Full confession →26 M, I got arranged marriage to 21 old Girl. We got just 5 years difference but we from different Era, I am 90's Guy, she is 2K Girl. I just going to write Big story, please have a patience, because I am really in dilemma to continue this marriage or end up. It's been 10 months I got married. Our misunderstanding started by Day-4 itself. As I was never been in relationship, I expected everything from her. But she was in relationship before the marriage later she told got broke up. Day-4 I asked her to apply soap for back when we only at home but she went to play with neighbour kids. Day-7 I told her, let we get baby first because within next 3 to 6 months, everyone will start ask about baby, she told let's plan for after 2 years. Day-10 After I keep insisting for baby, she told you don't have any savings in account, No house on ur name but ur bro has one, what u did all these years? ( I was never expected someone in her age would ask me this) What u do if child is born, u ha...
Read Full confession →M38, Singapore (From Kolkata). After B.tech from Kolkata i had completed CFA and FRM and currently Working as an executive director in one of the top banks of the world. Had been abroad for quite some years in different countries. Never married and don't want to get married too. Tried in online matrimony few years back but things never worked. Currently I am planning to retire in the next couple of years. I do have 10+CR in investment across many countries and I own 3 properties in Kolkata. I don't feel I need to work anymore. What to do with so much money if you don't have anyone to spend with after your parents?? I don't want to do donation or charity or so as I feel all those are corrupted things in india. I am a single child of my parents with no intentions to get married in future. Would like to see the world alone. Problem is my parents doesn't want to me to return from abroad neither they want me to get retired before 50 atleast. I am trying to convince them that i...
Read Full confession →"Good evening everyone.... I'm 23f married two years ago.Now i have a 15month old daughter and 3months old son. I was in happy marriage till the day i found out that my husband cheated me. He bought a girl to the house where we loved and lived. He thought me as a fool and hid that from me. But I found it and I was depressed from that. He convinced me and told that he'll not repeat it. I believed him and gave him second chance . After that we lived together but he is repeating his mistake again in point of view. He searched about other girls and asking their contact details in social media where I was also able to see his comments. After the incident everything between us became an argument and fight. He blocked me from all the social media. I have to support to take care of my daughter while I'm pregnant with my second baby. As it was a high risk pregnancy I needed someone to be with me always throughout my second pregnancy. So I came to my parents house. There was no communicat...
Read Full confession →Please Help. Your help/suggestion might lead to have a better life of my Daughter. and sorry for my bad english. Married for last 15 years and have a daughter of 7+ years. recently came to know about my wife's affair(wife is housewife). She met this man on facebook who is almost 42years, divorced and jobless. they are in relation for almost 4-5 months. i came to know about this and some how i caught them and had a fight with boy and in rush he tried to left the place but forgot the mobile. i grabbed the mobile and tried the password . luckily password was 1234 and i was able to enter into the mobile where i saw intimate photos with my wife(clear visible face) and stored recording of phone-screen during there whatsapp video call where they are having phone -s*X. Later i confront my wife and said that whatever happened , lets forgot it and never talk about this anymore as we have a daughter so better we think about it and have the integrity for each other. she stays with me for ano...
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