Stories about married life, commitment, and relationship challenges.
Confession: The Fantasy I Can't Get Out of My Head My wife and I have been happily married for 16 years, and together we have two wonderful children. From the outside, we probably look like any other happily married couple, but there's something I've been carrying inside for years that I've never been able to shake. Before we got married, both of us had previous relationships. My wife had an ex-boyfriend who eventually turned out to be toxic, so she ended things and moved on. As far as I know, that relationship never became physical. My story was very different. Before marriage, I had several casual s*xual relationships. They were never about love or commitment—just s*x—and everyone involved understood that from the beginning. There were no broken hearts or false promises. I've struggled with pre*ature ej*culation for as long as I can remember. S*x would usually end very quickly for me the first time, and it was only during a second round that I could last longer. In my previous...
Read Full confession →Please ma there's a challenge I am facing now. There's this young girl I love and honestly I really love this girl and she loves me too and my parents and family love and welcome her but in the other hand, her parents including her siblings really h@te me for reason I don't even know. Since my family and parents love and accepted the girl and the girl and I are deeply inlove with each other, should I go ahead and marry her in court? Please don't just read and pass, you can help a brother with your suggestion and advice. Thank you❤️
Read Full confession →"Hi everyone..... I'm a girl who was married at a 21yrs through a arranged marriage setup.I barely knew him only for one and half months before my marriage. He was very good man in my point of view.I'm an introvert, I had no relationships during my school and college time. I had only 3 bestfriends throughout my school and college life. My parents are my world, I would do anything for them. For their happiness i got married to the person they said. At the beginning we both were happy couples.I trusted him the way I trust my parents.I have never asked him for anything and I have never questioned him. He took care of me well. I never have the need to ask for my necessities like food and clothes. Soon I got pregnant, I was taken care. He comes with me for every doctor appointment,scan,blood test. At end of the 8month my gynaecologist prescribed me to take FCM injection as my hb level was low. But husband doesn't like me taking FCM. After my baby shower I went to parents house and t...
Read Full confession →I'm morally conflicted between my close friend & my Fiancee... I'll give you a brief Back-story for context... My Father used to run a Business, along with his Friend... the Son of my Father's Business Partner had been my Best Friend I'm Childhood. Both of our Families were very close & we grew up together. But, later, my Father had Cheated his Business Partner, by taking a huge amount of loan, on his name. By the time, he had realised that he had been Cheated, it was too late & he had to sell away his Ancestral Property to repay the Loan Sharks, who were threatening him & his Family. He had gone into severe Depression & died of Heart Failure, within months. Then, my Friend's Widowed Mother, shifted to her Brother's Town, along with him & his Younger Sister. Thus, I lost my Best Friend & had nothing but Bitter-sweet memories. Even as a young boy, I realised that Injustice was happening right in front of my Eyes, but I was helpless to do anything. We grew up in Prosperity as my...
Read Full confession →Hello. I was married wen I was 30. Arranged marriage. Wife wasn't interested in s*x. Some childhood trauma. Took a long time to convince her. Had a daughter wen I was 33. Found out that daughter is mildly autistic wen she was 3 yrs old. Wife took her for therapy and put so much work and she s near normal now. She became very friendly with the therapist. I recently caught her chats with him all I love you and I miss you . She s not having a s*xual affair with him but an emotional one. He s unmarried n my age only. Now also she says she s still missing him. Wants to speak with him .she s feeling terrible to be kept here in my home. I Live with my parents in a Tier 3 city. Rich family. No other problems. I m d only child. I tried my best to bring her out of this. But the more I try the more she s being stubborn. Went for counseling also but dint help. Nobody is supporting her. Her brother or her parents. They ll disown her if she leaves me they say. But still she s so much caught up with...
Read Full confession →28, Male. I am a software engineer working in a good company. I have around 5 years of experience I am from Bihar. I am average looking, 5'6" tall, fit, and have a lean muscular body. The only issue is that I am balding. I have almost lost all my crown hair. I consulted doctors, but they said even a hair transplant may not cover the whole head. Also, hair transplant requires long-term medicines, which I want to avoid. My hair loss is genetic. Almost every male in my family becomes bald by the age of 30, but in my case it happened earlier. Maybe I should have taken better care of my hair, but because of work and travelling I never paid much attention to it. I worked hard in my career. In 2021 my salary was 2.8 LPA, and today it is around 38 LPA. Now my family has started looking for a bride, but I am worried that girls will reject me because I am bald. I don't want to fool or hide anything from anyone, that's why I never tried a hair patch. I want to be honest from...
Read Full confession →I am a 29 women living with my husband after getting married around a year ago. My husband and we are happily most of the time with ourselves but the remaining time makes me feel like getting out of this marriage. We fight only one thing all the time is his mother. He's extremely responsible and committed to his parents and trust me I don't have any problems with that. He is the only child and his parents are wholly responsible on his for everything financially. He happily does everything for his patents. Now here comes about me, I try my best to support him both financially and by doing everything I can do to help him . What always triggers me is he never admits anything wrong for his mother, his mother is extremely arrogant and self proud kind of reason out of no reason, absolutely no reason, she keeps saying she is extremely valuable, extremely respected I don't know what have she done with her life that makes her so over proud and arrogant. If anyone including his son doesn't...
Read Full confession →31 F, I need some honest perspective on my marriage and finances. Both my husband and I work in IT (he is currently on an onsite assignment and earns well). Lately, I’ve been feeling deeply hurt by the financial dynamic in our relationship. Here is what is happening: When we buy any gifts or anything for our families we buy it under 50-50 arrangement. However, whenever I bring up buying gifts for me, he gives me suggestion that buy this buy that but never gives me a single penny and I end up paying 100% myself.we got married for last 5 months as he is currently in onshore and I am in offshore due to my Job so I am staying in my father’s house as my office location is near from that and for these months he didn’t give me a single rupee, all my expenses I have spent only.I love shopping and always pay for my own things. If I mention something I like, he says "yes" simply because he knows my bill is mine to pay. I buy clothes for him out of love, but he has never bought a single dress f...
Read Full confession →**Need Genuine Advice – I Love My Fiancée, But Her Past Is Destroying My Peace of Mind** I'm 26, and my fiancée is 21. We got engaged about 2½ years ago through an arranged setup. Our families know each other, we belong to the same caste, and we live in the same society. Before getting engaged, I liked her because she seemed simple, family-oriented, and exactly the kind of person I wanted to marry. Over the last 2½ years, we've had our share of fights and misunderstandings, but we've always stayed together. We became emotionally attached, and recently, with both families' permission, we even spent a day together and became physically close with mutual consent. A few days ago, she had a serious fight with her cousin, who knows everything about her past. She became scared that her cousin might tell me first, so she decided to tell me herself. She confessed that before our engagement, while she was in 10th standard, she had an 8-month relationship with a boy from her school. S...
Read Full confession →Hello All, 28 Male, The issue is with my wife 27. We have a baby boy who is 9 months. Once she went to her parents house after the baby shower (been more than a year) she is refusing to come back to our house. She is saying that I should move near to her parents house as she doesn’t want to live in our home with our parents because she thinks that my parents are toxic. Her complaint is that my father drinks regularly. She is saying that she doesn’t want our baby to live in such household while the hypocrisy is her father also drinks but not as often as my father. If the issue was with just my parents then i can think of relocating somewhere else but she specifically wants the relocation to somewhere near her parents. Also every time we speak on call or in person she records everything irrespective of what we speak (right from being physical and our personal). When asked why she is saying that she doesn’t trust me. This issue has been going on for more than 6 months. Even if i relocate...
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