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Deal with one problem at a time. 1. Since you are suffering a lot, have you tried to solve the issues? 2. Do you wish to continue your marriage after trying for reconciliation? 3. You said the woman in your office behaves 'normally' with everyone, including you. So you should also take it normally. Don't overthink that she is interested in you. 4. It's okay that you have developed feelings for her, but you can't forget that you are someone's husband. So first, sort out your marriage issues. If nothing works out, consider separation. Only after that should you think about approaching her or getting into another relationship. And whether that woman will accept you or not, no one can predict by reading a short message .

Firstly you need to check what's yourboffice policy towards office romance some work place doesn't encourage these things and include a clause in work contract 🤔 If nothing like that exist in your office stage one cleared . Secondly how close you are to her not as office colleagues much more than that sharing day to day life general events etc. Thirdly what if her smile is for everyone and there is nothing special in her heart for you , there is always a risk of she taking in other sense and you loosing your job. Lastly if u genuinely like her try to spend more time with her outside office like movies coffee date chat more if she says no forget it. If she says yes go ahead try it out. Then in one such meeting you can say her what you feel for her. But as she is single mom and 5 years older If u like her u need to accept her child too like your child and take care of all the things . Are you mentally prepared for this ask yourself. Lastly there is a high possibility that may be in future she may try to dominate because she is elder to you so if such a situation arises how are you going to deal with this Are you OK to keep your male ego one level down to her and go with her because you fell in love with older women ? If all is ✅️ Then slowly steadily approach her . All the best. Lastly you said you are married so why are you even thinking of getting entangled with her only because you are in not so happy marriage??? That's not right naughty boy

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