Secret Confessions

Ending a secret relationship with my son's best friend

I am a 42-year-old divorced woman, and I have been living alone with my two children for the last six years after my divorce. I have a 20-year-old son and a 17-year-old daughter. I work for the Delhi Government and have always tried to take care of my children and maintain a stable life for them. Around 18 months ago, my son’s best friend, who was 22 at that time, came to our house for the first time. Initially, there was nothing unusual. We started talking casually, and over time, our conversations became more frequent. After a few months, we were talking almost every day through messages and phone calls. Somewhere along the way, the relationship crossed a boundary. One thing led to another, and we became physically involved. What started as something I never expected gradually turned into a physical relationship that continued for almost a year. Looking back now, I deeply regret allowing this relationship to develop. He is my son’s best friend, and the age difference between...

31M, it’s not a confession but just a general question. I’m in IT as a functional consultant. When I joined my recent company I used to sit with a guy who was a developer with 7-10 years of experience and he told me that he hasn’t written a single line of code in the last 3 years and as per their client demand all he does is get requirement from client and pass it onto gemi*I and just paste’s whatever it gives and tests and give it back. Is it how it’s being done in all service-based companies these days ?

Hiding my extensive college past from the man I plan to marry

I am from Arunachal Pradesh. I went to college in Gujarat and my parents were not financially sound. I came in contact with some friends who went to parties every weekend. I joined them . Some guys from outside also used to join. Eat, drink, sing and dance. Then made random couples and go to sleep together. Every weekend was different partner. This was new to me and awkward at first but I started enjoying as I got help from friends. So I had many s*x partners without emotional attachment. In my third year of college, I senior student pursued me and we became lovers. He lived in a rent house. I moved in with him. We were in love. I even took him to my town in Arunachal Pradesh during my vacation. He stayed in another room but we used to have s*x whenever we were alone. He wanted to marry me but his parents would not allow as they are Gujarati. So I had to return home after college. Now I am in a relationship with a decent guy who is in government service. He had one gf while in college....

Should I tell the boy who proposed to me about my past

I want to share dark secret of my life. When I was in class 8 my father passed away due to kidney failure. We were three siblings and I was the eldest. My mother send me to my tauji house in Delhi to study as he expressed desire to take care of my education. My tauji son was in engineering first year. He had crush on him. Once my tauji and taiji was out of station he came to my room and forcefully established physically intimacy wid me. Initially i opposed him but I was afraid then my tauji came to know abt it instead of blaming their son they blamed me and sent me back to my home. My tauji promised my mother to pay our household expenses and to stay quiet now years hv passed my tauji son has married and moved to Australia. Recently one boy in my office proposed me. I also like him should I tell him abt my past.

My past as an online sugar daddy is giving me daily anxiety

I’m 30 M, I never wanted to to get married in my life time but lately it seems like anyway I would marry someone after love or arranged setup In my past I was a sugar daddy to one or two, not physically but online only, not met or no one knows me or I know them in any way, (But I know because I got their info like real name and their online presence, for my safety) I’m not doing that any more and not interested in doing it, But Im afraid in future someone if a problem due to this, would that my girl would accept it as it was just a past or it would affect her, I genuinely wanted to know, please comment, Women perspective Admin please post this is really gives me anxiety and pressure everyday.

Someone is threatening to tell my husband about my teenage past

F28, I am married, and recently I started receiving unwanted Whatsapp messages from an unknown person. They claim they know about my past relationships and are threatening to tell my husband everything. The scariest part is that they know personal details that only a few people could know. I had relationships before marriage, and I am terrified that my past will destroy my marriage because i had s*x with some boys on teenage time. I got some money also. I ready to give the amount. Finally, I found out who was behind those messages. I had received some money from him earlier, and now I’m ready to return the entire amount. I know I cannot change my past, but I am scared of losing my husband because of it.

I suspect my brother's new wife is hiding secret afternoon calls

My brother recently got married 1 month ago. Arrange marriage setup. Now we are in a city our house is not that big so we have a connecting room in 1st floor where in one room I do work (WFH). So I can here some fussy voice of my bhabhi. I am very much confused. I have a doubt that she is talking to someonem. When she talks with her family members she talks loudly but everyday in the afternoon she talks to someone. I am scared I don't know what do. I can't even tell to anyone please give any suggestions. I tried to check her phone but it is locked. I want to collect evidence. I want to confirm. I wish I am wrong. Please help me out

My fiancée just revealed a devastating secret about her past

Hi everyone, 29M I'm in a very complicated situation so I really would appreciate some genuine advice. About 5 months ago I got a match on sh**di.com from a very pretty girl (25) belonging to a decent family. She is currently WFH. Her father works in a PSU. Our parents met twice and eventually we met at cafes a few times. We discussed our likes, dislikes, food preferences future plans and also a little about our pasts. I had a gf in school but it was kind of platonic. My now fiance told me she has 2 past relationships, one is school and another in college. Both of them didn't work out and that she has moved on from those relationships. I didn't query further as I didn't want the conversation to become interrogative. But since our vibe matched and we both had started liking each other, we got engaged 2 months ago. This is about what happened last week, when she asked me to meet urgently. When we met she hugged me and started crying. After I consoled her and asked what had...

I kept my neighbor's affair a secret to help her escape

For many years, I have been carrying such a secret. I got married in 2004. I became very close friends with the neighbour's wife next door. She got married through an arranged marriage in 1999 at the young age of just 21. For nearly a decade, she spent her life without any joy; she was trapped in a marital relationship that brought her no fulfillment, and they had no children either. Her husband remained emotionally detached from her a few years after the marriage, probably getting bored with the same woman. Everything changed in 2007. I came to know that she had gotten involved in a relationship with another man, a man who was two years younger than her. Initially, my reaction was intense anger and dissatisfaction. A sense of betrayal towards the neighbour's family was disturbing me. But after the initial shock wore off, I thought about her deeply unhappy state and understood how many years she had been going through a painful situation. Instead of exposing her in front of everyon...

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