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What is important in ur life? 1. Peace in mind and alone or other partner 2. Life full of tensions, drama, accuses, everyday scenerio and partner who lie u all time Choice is urs

Problem is you, not her. She is showing her true colours but you are choosing to be blind. If you love her so much and can tolerate her now, then why not later ? You must realize that no one can change others.

She knows you won't leave, no matter what she does. If you want her to change, there need to be consequences. Stop talking to her and avoid her when she lies, hurts you, or disrespects you. Either she'll change because she's afraid of losing you, or she'll dump you. Either way, it's a win-win.

Those who don't want to take risk in life, never marry.... So either be a typical married fool or if you can be wise, then just walk alone, but don't regret later the walking alone either 🫪....that will make a mockery of even those pompous fools If you are that stubborn type, belive in your stubbornness, never to look back or repent, then marriage is out of question.

Your need for self respect has to be greater than the need to have the girl. It's a difficult process but don't go down the path of Waiting till "the pain of staying is more than the pain of leaving" to do something. It'll break you worse then. You see the signs and behaviors and more importantly, the Lack of accountability and lack of desire to change. See what are the things you'll miss most about her if you were to walk away. If it's the fun side of you or if it's the excitement of romance or if it's intellectual stimulation, see in what other ways you can find these things for yourself in other aspects of life. After that, send a short strong message, cut contact and move on. You can have empathy for her but you can't fix anyone who doesn't want to change.

Look at it this way: You are tolerating all these now before marriage when you have time to recover from the damage she’s causing you. You marry her thinking that she’ll change for good, hoping that all these issues would disappear after marriage. Now after marriage she would continue doing so over and over again and once you resist it or try to take any action against it, she can easily file a fake domestic violence case against you, initiate a divorce, and would mostly take half your money and properties for alimony. You still have time to kick her out of your life. If you’re facing such problems now then I am almost 99% sure that it would continue after marriage and also would probably be worse. Just remember: once you marry her, then she has an enormous amount of power on her hands and your fate would eventually be decided by what she would decide afterward. Our Indian judiciary system supports women very heavily, so much so that even after killing their husbands, the wives are getting to walk away without any consequences. Don’t be a naive idiot. Sack up and decide the fate of your life yourself 🙂

>> She Also Talks To Her Male Friends Behind My Back And Meets Them Without Informing Me Or Even Taking My Permission. >> Informing is ok. But why she has to take your 'permission'? Are you two living together? Are you paying for her expenses (rent+food)? Are you also giving her pocketmoney which she is spending on outing with friends? I'm not sure who is narcissist here. I'm not even sure you two are girlfriend-boyfriend. I think - 1. she has dated two guys. Now she is DONE with dating and she is looking for marriage. You are just one of the prospective grooms for her because 'you claim to love her'. 2. you are looking for dating. And being lovey dovey and 'act like' committed. That's just waste of time for her. So if you are not planning to marry her within next 6 months, tell her clearly. And separate. If you are planning to marry her within next 6-8 months, then go for premarital counseling. See how it works. Counselor will be able to tell - is it just communication issue or one of you is real narcissist.

En da itha kuda handle panna mudiyama suggestion kekura unnaku ethuku kalyanam...sevulla adichu pathi vidu...ithulam velaike agathu muditu ozhunga veetla solra ponnu kalyanam paniko illa love than panuva na vera nalla ponna paru avalo than

How about changing you're number instead of her?

If she is showing narcissistic personality then you cannot change her .. so start creating boundaries with her .. for your own mental peace delete her from your life ..

"Get rid of a female narcissistic girl?" "I love her very much" When you know the problem and also the solution to it but still want to suffer, what's the point of even asking here? Keep suffering. As simple as that. And this is the exact reason why she falls back to u after her multiple failed relationships bcoz she knows u are ch#tiya who will handle all her nonsense while others won't.

Run away and never look back! That’s all

Bhau Chhod de usko , future ki waat laga dengi tere trust me Usko teri kadar nahi hai samaj ja zindgi bhar wo tuje torture karengi samne kon bItha hai ky hai uske samne bhi disrespect karengi And Jo tuje abhi aisa bolti future me kuch bhi galat hone pe tuje hi blame karengi Better break up kar le thode din gum me rahenga lekin zindgi bhar sukhi rahengA

This year Simp award goes to

Brooo Runnnnnn

Admit her in good Mental hospital

That's why she has 2 failed relationship..make it 3...

She will be a very big problem for you once you marry her