Male 42 My wife disrespects me everywhere. In front of my parents her parents kid. She has been playing with my mental health. Only reason I stay back is no much courage to leave her. Till age 29 gf only focus on career. Felt after marriage things will change. But it became worst. From childhood my parents said respect ladies same thing I have followed in life till now. I m sure ladies will not react or respond to this confession. But with this experience I feel her parents should have aborted her inside womb. I m not marring my daughter anywhere or else this behavior will be moved over to next generation. This has to stop from spreading
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You can never mend narcissistic people.
People don't magically change for the better after marriage. If anything, their existing behavior only amplifies. I can literally feel your frustration through your words. If you don't have the courage to get a divorce, at least have an honest conversation with her. Tell her that if she's unhappy or unwilling to treat you with respect, she's free to file for divorce. Otherwise, she needs to change her behavior and start respecting you. Stand up for yourself.
How old is your wife? Did she get good support from you and your family?? Women need regular health checkups...plz look into it.... check what's bothering her...
You do not have a respect problem. You have a reaction problem. Disrespect is a transaction with a cost. Reactions are just noise. no matter how many times you try to make her understand it simply does not work because it is not noise that change behaviour Consequences change behavior.