M26 Hi All, I’m from Bihar and currently studying and residing in USA. I feel I am an extrovert but I chose to be seen as introvert just to escape the situation and get rejected by people and try to get seen as not a worthy guy. I am around 5’6” with decent body structure and brown-skin and I would say with good-looks too but still sometimes I try to appear as not-good looking thinking other person is not worthy. So I appear in a way to get rejected by people. This was about my looks. I had almost like more than 50 situationships and I would say there was more attraction from the other side in almost all cases. But I had almost 0 official relationships where there was any kind of proposal from any side. Two weeks back, I connected with a girl from Andhra Pradesh, who also happens to be in the same state in US but in a nearby city. On the first day itself, after sending my photo I was asked out for coffee and we started video calling on first day itself. We kept talking for entire week and she told me for meeting almost 6 times within a week. As I feel, she is a very decent and matured girl girl and same age as me. Earlier it was planned only for coffee. But later plans changed to dinner and movie. She told that I can stay at her house at night as it would be late for me to return to my home. I made a small mistake and everything was still going good even after Returning to my home until I sent a text to her 2 days later which I shouldn’t have sent although it was a joke. She’s now not picking my calls, but replying my texts but not with same energy which was there 2 weeks back. I am now so much into her that I don’t want to lose her. I have tried saying sorry in all possible ways and trying to make things normal like before. What can I do to convince her to talk back to me like before?. But I don’t want to lose her.
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50 situationshpis and 1 small mistake....after that small mistake, she stopped messaging you!!!! And you people give it a name "love"....
What was that small mistake? 🧐 Vimal ka packet nikal kar chabane laga tha kya bro?
You assumed her inviting you home was a "green signal". Slow down next time and see things for what they are. What was the rush? Stop messaging her for now. Give her space. If she comes back, she comes back. If she doesn’t, move on.
It’s not about the text. It was simply a one night stand for her. Raat gayi baat gayi types!
Bolo juban Kesri🙊 Atleast Century to banao situationships ki ye kya half century mein confuse ho rhe ho🤷♀️cnfsn ka main part (mistake?)bhi kha gye kheni-gutkhe k sath chuna laga k🙄
She didn't like you after meeting in person 🤷 Btw we all would like to know 1. what was 'small mistake' and 2. what was 'the joke which shouldn't have been sent after 2 days'?
Girls hardly settle for a 5'6 guy. So know your strength. Enjoy Situationship or whatever ship you get easily. Focus on studies and career and keep serious relationship for post settling in your career.
You loat at 5'6". Come out of those dreama, day dreams are not good for health
Are you guys using some special social media than fb and insta, that getting so much people into situation ship?
You got to be kidding bro lol 😂😭😂😂....I think you got to be a joker coze 50 situationships are definitely not a joke. Try being a human first and understand a girl's feelings and I hope when you do that you might end up getting a partner.
Maybe those situationships just use and throw you and she did the same. Move on to a new one. Let some one enjoy you, gb road is not in the US after all.
Ye launde ne pakka kaand kiya rahega
Did you charge your mobile at her place?
Rethink all the things you've done in your past 50+ situationships. You'd get your answer.