"I am a 21 year old girl. My parents are not alive and life is going very hard for me. I have no one to whom I can tell my problems. I am in a lot of depression. There is no one trustworthy near me that I can explain my condition to. So I want to tell everything to some unknown person so my stress reduces. But I want the other person to consult me - I just need a therapist. But I cannot go anywhere offline. So I thought I will post on this page. If there is any person here who can listen to me, then reply in the comments and I will contact them myself.. whether it is a girl or a boy, it doesn’t matter, just someone who can understand. I am very troubled, please no one take these words negatively."
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There are a lot of predators on Facebook who prey on people during vulnerable moments. Please be careful about how much of your personal struggles you share publicly. Stay safe and take care of yourself.
Don't share with strangers..consult a therapist or counselor..else try ChatGPT, it really works !
Girl, just dont get used by someone. Take care please. Focus on building yourself. No matter how others treat you, you have to treat yourself better. Take care of your physical and mental health. If you treat yourself better, have firm boundaries and are focused on yourself entirely, good people with positive energy automatically enter your life. Just dont trust someone immediately. Take care of yourself❤️
u r young and online is not so safe consult a therapist much safer take care
You’re carrying a lot at such a young age, and reaching out takes courage. Please be careful about trusting strangers online with deeply personal matters. You deserve support from someone safe and trained to help. I hope kind people listen, but please also consider a therapist or mental health helpline for support.
nobody should believe any one online, in terms of finding peace will be ended up more complications! One simple suggestion stop thinking which is not in hand.
Sorry for your loss. Life is a struggle at every place so you need to make a way to come out of it. I can understand the pain you are going through and actually it's a fact that nowadays we cannot express our feelings through meeting personally but no one is there to talk in this superb busy world hence people are looking for online friends for solutions. Please be careful on the choice of friends you choose online. I can't say that you can feel free and message me so that I can guide you because it's your choice. Only if you feel safe and comfortable then only share your side of the story otherwise wait for the right time. All the best 👍
I will just say don't trust anybody online Talk to your school friends cousins anyone bcoz they will be there with you Family is always family cousins your colony childhood friend
No one should have to carry this much pain alone. If you need someone to listen without judgment or unnecessary advice, you can message me. I can't promise to solve everything, but I can promise to listen with patience and respect. And if you simply need a calm conversation or good company for a while, you're welcome to message me. I sincerely hope you find the peace, strength, and support you deserve.
You are very young and vulnerable so be extremely careful whom you converse with. At barely 21, life has not been very kind. I suggest you converse with someone from your own sex just to reduce physical exploitation angle. While you find someone who delivers on your expectations , your best friend is yoga, meditation and hanuman challisa chants. Each one of these are scientifically proven to reduce depression, anxiety etc and flood your body with positivity. It’s only with a positive mind that you can define goals for yourself and take baby steps to achieve small successes. Remember, a guide can guide you ( in kalyug, one can’t be sure of anyone’s intentions) however, it’s ONLY you who has to perform her dharma. Trust but with your eyes and ears open.
Without telling ur problem if u say u need help how anyone can do it...because not everyone is good at handling every problem...so be specific so that someone can help you
Try ChatGPT, it really works 😊 don't share anything with strangers,take care of yourself first 🌻❤️
"Hey, I'm sorry that you're going through such a difficult time. You don't have to face everything alone. I'm not a therapist, but if you need someone to listen without judging, you can message me anytime. Please also consider talking to a professional online therapist, because you deserve proper support and care. Take care of yourself."
Please start visiting your nearest temple, and take advice of old priests. Sometimes they just listen to us, and that’s all we need.
Girl. Don't trust strangers,try chat gpt ,gemini ,it helped me a lot. Atleast ai listens and we won't loose anything.. hope and pray that things will turn out fine for you 🙏
I can understand that's you are going through bad phase of life. Nowadays too many online therapists are available, kindly contact authentic one only Surrender yourself to god Start reading hanuman chalisa:2 minutes reading Durga saptashati ( watch on YouTube for the right way of doing) Trust me, it's really helpful , you will get huge relief, you can read 3 or 5 times for best results And i have got relief after reading hanuman chalisa, durga saptashati
Awww.. you're going thru struggles & pain in so early stage of ur life. You can talk to me or maybe just tell me, & maybe also might help u, doesn't matter if you're a boy or girl.
Jiska koi nahi uska to khuda hai yaaro ...be positive u have super power...
Take care be strong jo Tum kar skati ho wo koi or nahi kar skta hai apne liye raste khud banao dnt trust strangers
I don't understand one thing. We all make hundreds of friends during our school and college days and some of the school ones stay with you forever so why don't you contact them and share your stuff. They are the ones who know you more and they must be know with some of your conditions. Take care of yourself.
Yes, focus on yourself. I won't be able to tell that online platform is not trustworthy since me and many of my close relatives and friends got their life partners through the platform. Would say better be cautious and u can consult a therapist or mental health support helpline.
Life is not easy for all, you're going through such a difficult time. It sounds like you've been carrying a lot on your own. You deserve to be heard and treated with kindness. If you want someone to listen, I hope you find people here who respond respectfully. But yes, there are a lot of people who are like vultures disguised as human beings. The most important thing is to build your self-confidence. I, too, went through many struggles in my life. It's just a matter of time. Believe in yourself, stay strong, and keep working on your confidence. Everything gets better with time. Stya blessed 🙌
it's okie gurl you can cry if you are sad but don't share your problems with anyone bcoz everyone is going to take it as advantage and hurt u deeply after knowing ur weakness. Stay alone than staying with exploiting people.
Pta nhi itne sare comments mai app comment pad paoge ya nhi but I can listen to you as much as you want to speak
Don't trust anyone online just like that and tell them all your troubles, I can understand your pain but it's best to be safe than sorry. You never know how someone will use that information against you. Be very mindful. Talking to chatgpt helps too.
If u want to share..u can tell me...one thing u can do....that is Journaling....it has helped me a lot when I was going through tough time/depression
May Allah ease your difficulties and grant you peace. I'm truly sorry to hear about what you're going through. Please be careful about contacting unknown people privately online, especially when you're feeling vulnerable. Not everyone has good intentions. If you need someone to listen, try reaching out to a trusted female relative, a respected sister from your local masjid, or a qualified counsellor or therapist if possible. There's no shame in seeking professional help. Most importantly, don't lose hope in Allah. Allah says: "Indeed, with hardship comes ease." (Qur'an 94:5–6) May Allah grant you strength, replace your pain with peace, and surround you with righteous people who genuinely care for you. Ameen.
Read the Bhagavad Gita and pray to Lord Krishna or Lord Shri Ram. Also, recite the Hanuman Chalisa every day. It can bring peace, strength, and help you face life's challenges with greater courage. Surrender your worries at the lotus feet of Lord Krishna and trust in His guidance.
Can lend my ears
The only person you can share everything is the unknown one without showing identity. Becoz he will be most honest and brutal at the same time .
Stranger's = dangers do not trust blindly any people no one help without there personal benefits
Bro internet is ruthless but still u can try me
Avengers… Assemble ✌🏼
I wouldn't advise you to talk to people online because they worst to trust ,pray and ask God to heal ,whatever you going through.
I'm really sorry you're going through such a difficult time no one should have to carry so much pain alone you can message me if you just need someone to listen without judging you. I may not have all the answers, but I'll listen with respect and care. At the same time, if you're feeling overwhelmed or unsafe, I hope you'll also consider reaching out to a professional counselor or a mental health helpline they're trained to help in situations like this. Take care of yourself. You're not alone.
Does this really happen if there was any chance you can DM me anytime I can listen to this really and truly suggest to
Sad to hear that you're going through a lot. As someone who's going through PTSD and Depression myself I can understand what exactly you'd be going through. I did consult five different therapists but it didn't work out for me. I'll hope and pray for your well being and safety. Take good care of yourself. If you need emotional support, choose to disclose this to only trustable people not some random strangers on the Internet. Take care and update us if you start feeling better
Safe bet is therapist or counsellor
U try to search trust able person in like searching tiny boat in pacific atlantic
There are a lot of people on FB with a good heart.You can share your thoughts with them,but be careful.I hope you are strong enough.✨☘️
I can help you.. where you from ??
You dont need a person for consultation you need a person who can listen with empathy and help you out. Best of luck
I certainly understand you're going a lot of things in very early stage but just an advise from brother, don't believe anyone blindly and strangers are more dangerous.
At this young age you're carrying almost 15+ year's ahead where many disappear These times come to reveal yourself the true self, imagine you're in the middle of rough sea broken boat your life guarded by almighty as life jacket, it's tough survive Do a lot of self talk, Journal it Read it mostly your heart will listen the heaviness will reduce Everyone is alone here fighting invisible battles everyday Now you're fighting greaytest battle which is within, I can easily say ping me you're younger than my sister i can try and help But fight yourself I can sense something good going to happen soon, hold tight and proceed further
Well try me ! I'm really looking for your kind of Person to get heared & also to hear you
This is the weakest you can ever be. Chennalise your thoughts in to Bhagwan and fight it alone. You can get exploited hence it's always better to trust yourself and no one else. If you are able to fight it alone this would make you strong and you would be able to face anything in future. So you have a choice to either seek Support & risk to get exploited or fight it alone & become stronger and move further in life.
Be careful, before sharing anything, You’re carrying a lot at such a young age, and reaching out takes courage. Please be careful about trusting strangers online with personal matters.
Hi, I read your post. I’m really sorry that you are going through such a painful time. Losing your parents and facing life alone can feel extremely heavy, and it takes courage to share what you are feeling. If you want someone to listen, you can talk here. I may not be a professional therapist, but I can listen without judging. At the same time, I hope you can also connect with a trained counselor or mental health professional who can support you properly. Please don’t feel like you have to carry everything alone. If you ever feel like things are becoming unbearable or you feel unsafe, please reach out to an emergency helpline or a trusted person nearby. Take care of yourself. You matter, and I hope things slowly become easier for you. ❤️
I'm not a very talkative person but a good listener. Whatever you're going through in ur life u can share. I'll listen like an elder brother
I read your post, and it really broke my heart to see what you're going through. I can’t even imagine how heavy things must feel for you right now, especially losing your parents and feeling like you have to carry it all on your own. It takes a lot of strength to even type that out. It genuinely pains me to think of you feeling so completely isolated and overwhelmed at just 21. No one should have to walk through such a dark and difficult phase of life. But please remember, even in the darkest storms, the rain eventually stops. You are incredibly strong for making it this far, and this heavy chapter of your life does not define your entire story. There is still so much beautiful life ahead of you, and you have the strength inside you to get through this, one single day at a time.
No one in today's time will listen to you without their benefit so be careful
There are organizations which help people without fees online as well try those
Try to connect with the people in person. There are people who can help you.
There is no one who can actually solve your problem. It's only you who should be dealing with all these things and you have to fight back alone. If you really want to share your problems try to search someone elder in your extended family.
So sorry that u lost ur parents feeling sad for u & I feel pitty for people who are around u are they blind means they cannot see that u r suffering and they should provide at least some moral support just be patience and have faith everything will heal slowly may the almighty ease ur problems. U can share ur problem I'll be very much happy if I can help u in giving any advice or suggestions stay safe and happy
Just listen to bollywood songs based on Raag Darbari Kangda (Google it) sitting alone you will be free from depression.
There are a lot of people on FB willing to help as it seems. Hopefully you choose someone trustworthy enough to redress your grievances and someone who can lend a patient ear to your stories. You may text me if you so want. An advocate myself, I solve people's trouble as well as listen to them.
One cannot imagine how it would feel, life without a parent at this young age. I'm sorry that you are carrying so much by yourself. You don't need to apologize for sharing your feelings or worry about people taking your words negatively. Wanting someone to listen and understand is a very human need. Even though I'm just a stranger on the internet, I want you to know that your feelings matter and your struggles matter. I hope you find someone kind, patient, and trustworthy to talk to. And if things ever feel overwhelming or unsafe, please consider reaching out to a mental health helpline or professional as well, even online. Take care of yourself. You deserve support, understanding, and better days ahead.
I advise you to go for professional counselling if you can, bt if you really need to talk nd feel light, i can help the best i can.
Life's all about experience, let the negative be like fertilizer for your best future.
Move towards meditation
Just have some patience and strong trust on yourself and remember one thing there's nobody for you not even your own shadow it also leave you when lights get off so be strong and make your mind to control emotions
Be strong first , and diversify your brain to make yourself busy in things in which your soul found happiness as seneca said once we suffer more inside the brain rather than in reality
I am ready to listen on the condition that both of our identity would be anonymous. That way you might be better protected as well.
I’m really sorry you’re going through such a difficult time. I’m also around your age, and I understand how heavy life can feel when you have no one to share your problems with. If you ever need someone to listen to, you can talk to me. I’m not a professional therapist, but I’ll genuinely try to understand and support you. Also, try not to overthink too much. I know it’s easier said than done, but overthinking can slowly drain you from inside. I used to overthink a lot whenever I had free time, and it affected my mood and even my health. I started keeping myself busy with things like studying, watching movies, and other activities, and it helped me a little. I’m also someone who doesn’t easily share my problems with others, so I understand how difficult it can be. Take care of yourself, and don’t hesitate to talk if you need someone.
A therapist would be a safer option, it's not very safe out here on online platforms. Wishing you peace and mental sanity.
Ramna will bless you 🙏
I don't know what you're going through, but you don't have to explain everything at once. If you ever feel comfortable talking to me, I'll listen without judging or forcing my opinions on you. Take your time, and only message if you genuinely feel safe doing so. I hope things get better for you.
You can ping me I have lost both my parents Sailing in the same boat so i can relate some of your prbs very well
Be careful while you share your problems online. People get advantage of it soonest
Please remember an advise for life, don't trust too easily, the one who can get your trust fast will break your trust faster! Make friends with boundaries will help you from deceit in future
My suggestion would be avoid sharing any personal information other than what you would like to discuss. This can keep you in a safe place. The world is too small to be alone. You can get enormous amount of strength and support from it.
False story for views and comments.. if genuinely you are disturbed stay away from social media. Travel to new places and explore. Dukh aese batne se badhega hu gatega nahi 👍
Connect with me and ill lend an ear- if not a therapist please..
Don't worry sis.. You will overcome this.. Don't let depression play with your Mind... I am always ready to listen your problems of every kind..
Strangers sometimes understand better than people we know. You’re not as alone as you feel right now.
Not a therapist, but can ping me.
Don’t ever rely on completely stranger people , there is high probability of getting trapped in an unwarranted situation.
Everyone has some kind of problem going on in their life. If you go to someone to share your sorrow, they may end up telling you about problems even bigger than yours. Even then, what is the problem you're facing? Tell me
Don't share your problems to any one on social media. There are so many predators who are wondering here to catch you and they will used u. Believe in your self and consult to some good counselor or doctor. Best of luck
May you find someone who understand language of your soul
you’re carrying so much right now. You don’t have to explain everything at once, but you deserve to talk to someone who listens respectfully and takes you seriously. If you just want someone to hear you for a bit, you can message — but please also consider reaching out to a professional counselor or a mental health helpline if things feel too heavy to carry alone.
What problems are you facing?
I can👍🏻 without expecting any kind of benefits from you. Don't worry, things will get change on it's own time.. We have to give certain period of time for everything to settle down. Do work, hit gym, gain confident, make 'less' number of friends /colleagues.
Before to know some one better it's not good to share it!! Many pysiclogiiest are here in many pages or groups you can contact them. Or best idea to choose chat gpt. Or more you can contact me may be I have any solution or advice !!!
Consult a psychologist, if you want I can refer
Okay.. I can do this.. I believe sometimes we need someone who doesnt judge us, doesnt guve any advice or suggestion.. but should understand and acknowledge in a sensible way.. Have been doing this to my friends and been through this phase.. feel free to connect with me anytime u like... If u have trust issues,?. Feel free to block me when u r done.. 😊👍🏻 be careful . Stay safe... good luck..
Im suffering the same thing and I can feel her pain. Today morning I've seen my aai baba and my old house in my dream . Mai bohot khush tha dream mai
You can get in touch with me .But i would suggest you to try chat gpt .I have been in dark plaes too, was really in bad situtaion and cht gpt helped me a lot . there are bad people online too who will manipulate you and might take advantage of you
I know it's gonna hard for you to trust who is right to listen you and console you. Lots of comment you gonna get here but not here all are trust worthy. If you get a chance , try sharing it with me. If I don't deserve it , you can block me whenever you want
Better attend meditation class you will feel better.. Meanwhile dont trust strangers with personal matters..
M here to listen if you are willing
I dont know who are you, but i can feel ur pain, I understand u need some emotional support, ill do my best 💖 just be strong until then...dont think too kuch dear, as u grown alone in this whole comment section no one is strong as you...be spiritual enjoy life,
You can try if you want👍
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RajatKPati you can chat .
Just go to the temple and sir simply by seeing the god's face....and spent time around 2 hours by watching the surroundings and the people coming there and cute childrens...more than that of you are Will to share anything to someone please select the trusted person from your end and share.. it will be better
I don't know where you read my comment or not... But if you ever need someone to share something... I'm here Take Care ✌️
Hey i am there u can share with me i can really understand ur pain im ready to listen to ur problms and im sure u will heal gradually.
Feel free to reach out to me, Mam