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A real man will move mountains to comfort his wife if he truly loves her. There are many signs your husband has spilled snd its very clear and obvious.

Your husband is definitely doing something suspicious. That prompt you saw isn't normal. “Full of love” isn't just poorly worded. He's manipulating you. You can save your marriage if both of you are willing, but you can't do it alone if he's eyeing someone else. Firing her won't stop him from eyeing her or someone else in the future. His behaviour needs to change. Attraction can happen, but if he's choosing to lie and manipulate you instead of changing his behaviour, is this marriage even worth saving? Ask yourself that.

Telling AI to write a prompt "full of love". There goes your answer 😀

So what if he fires her? A man has several ways to meet a girl if he really wants to. Every time he comes home late or goes to another city you will stillhave anxiety. Meet a marriage counsellor and sort your issues. He is definitely on to something, your intuition isn't misplaced.

I don't think either extreme is healthy here. Your feelings are understandable because the secrecy, the hotel stay, the personal AI prompt, and the unusually close work relationship have collectively damaged trust. At the same time, asking him to fire an employee may address the trigger without addressing the underlying problem. The bigger issue isn't you, it is the husband's transparency and the boundaries within the marriage. If there is genuinely nothing inappropriate, he should be willing to have an honest conversation about what happened, establish clear professional boundaries, and understand why his wife's trust has been shaken rather than simply telling you to trust me. But trust cannot be rebuilt through controlling who someone works with either. Firing an employee who may have done nothing wrong would be unfair to you and could create resentment between the couple. A better solution would be couples counselling, complete transparency for a reasonable period, mutually agreed boundaries around communication and travel, and consistent behaviour that rebuilds trust over time. If he is genuinely innocent, his actions should eventually provide reassurance. If there is something more going on, removing the employee won't solve that either. You aren't unreasonable for feeling hurt and anxious. But asking him to fire someone probably isn't the healthiest solution. The real question is whether both partners are willing to do the work required to restore trust.

You had a hunch and it's not wrong, wives understand best, what their husbands are up to. Give him an ultimatum, it's you or her.

i advise you to make irregular surprise visit to office and witness yourself firing her is literally useless and troublesome in two ways 1) If your husband really in some kind of relationship with her, then he going to continue it even after firing, so sending her out not going to do any good, in opps it might create new problems for you in home and mental peace 2) if he has some proof or kind of blackmailing your hubby, then its gonna mess up in big way if he fires her so best way make yourself present in company in irregular surprise visits to office give some constant feel to your hubby that you can be in office anytime Its quite sensitive matter so handle with care,

Gosh ... Much ado about probably nothing or if something , something you cannot control. Are you working yourself ? Because the answer to this may explain your reaction . See there are two plausible outcomes here 1. Your husband may be cheating or thinking about it - If that is true, question is why ? No 3rd person can enter if 2 ppl in a relationship are strong. And moreover if someone entered, what are you going to do ? Stay with him or leave him? No stranger can answer this for you 2. You are absolutely over reacting . If I were you I would invite all his colleagues at home esp the female colleague. I would cook and host them myself. I would have striked a v good friendship with the person, take interest and discuss about their work and professional challenges.[ If your husband can discuss work and share frustrations with you, frankly and get help he won't need another mental connection for the same . Vice versa for working women too. ] I would also have invited her esp some more times. Depending on the observations gathered from these meetings ( behavior, body language, understanding) I would have taken my next steps. In any case either I would have gained a good friend or lost a bad marriage. It's win win on both sides. - From a millenial who is 20 years in a single relationship.

Sorry to break your heart. You maybe late to the party. I believe whatever has to happen may have already happened. But you maybe also overthinking. Mens are typically opportunist. Now sad part is that during pregnancy, chances maybe his unmet desire fuelled something. Odds are hey may be still trying and being careful at the same time. We can only guess. For now, you should visit his office, take control of your marriage, spend more time with him. You may go after the female colleague as you are the wife of the founder and CEO right :) Solution: After you become familiar with the office setup, pls think of ways to convey that female colleague that she is walking on a thin rope and it may cost her the job !!! PS: You may be right among other things

You can invite her to dinner or go with him on next trip. You will know yourself. Sometimes it's just friendship. Some girls know their boundaries.

Listen to your guts, if you feel something fishy is happening, it is happening

Time to walk out and stand up for yourself and your children

Well à sane advice I will give,at this point dont much argue with him,my assuption there is something between them,the more you argue ,ask ,fight the more he will swing towards her.Ask yourself if your fear is true are you ready to forgive your husband and move on,then go for a marriage councellor together asap or start looking for divorce....there are many red flags in your story if true.

Hello likes her, may be more as an employee rather than something else, the AI prompt could be for genuine appreciation, but I can see you dilemma and its not unfounded, it's good you spoke to him but I personally think they should part ways but give him time

You are not unreasonable. Someone has to put more effort to save the marriage, high chances you will be successful in getting your husband out of this. #1. You takeover the responsibilities of what she is doing, reduce the interactions #2. Don’t fire her, change the reporting structure or bring somebody in the middle #3. Find what he is missing at home and fill that gap.

Your husband has been dishonest to you since the moment he deliberately lied to you about the hotel stay. Trust your instincts. If you decide to stay in the marriage it won’t be a peaceful relationship ever again. Be prepared.

Check his testosterone,if it's high then lol

I think if you have time you should also join the office atleast for sometime, if there is no time then you can be friend to the girl so that you will get to know the situation better

Men don't usually go overboard with wishes we keep it simple and professional for a female colleague But "full of love" is what gives me an impression that he's doing something sus

Aap ka sikha kotta hai. U may get an employee fired. Then there will be another one soon. How many are you going to get terminated.geting someone out of office doesn't mean out of Life huny. ur husband is a dhila dhala character not the others.Today it's her, tomorrow it will be someone else. Instead of protecting an unfaithful man protect urself and walk out.

I would have fired any-one who would create slightest doubt in her mind. If you feel it in your gut, it is real. Block her.

Your husband is the problem.

Firing the employee will not serve the purpose. If you're husband is involved he could still be in relationship with her outside office. The problem is you have to clear your doubt firstly. Even if you visit office none will confess to you. You both need to reconcile if you're husband is genuine he must be transparent and share passwords of his social platforms. If not this doubt will play in your mind because you lost trust to a man you loved. If he was genuine he should have told you about hotel reservations and who is accompanying me. Am sorry to say it will never be the same even if he confess you lost your trust on him.

Accept and do threesomes

Behan duan utha hai toh yakeenan aag lagi hogi .... Better to stay alert and visit your office often

He is cheating on you.. : )

Your husband is having an affair. I don't know how you cannot see it. It's hitting you in the face. Leave this man

Overthinking ki dukaan

Location map on panni vai ma . Map appla first letter right corner varuma. Timeline kattum. Nadanthathu train ponathu ella addressum puttu puttu vaikum. Gps on la vachathan mudiyum. Apuram avaruku theriyuma rendu nal avar phone automatic record option podu. Evidence save panni vai. Apuram he will be obey ur words. Intha manushan unaku pwd koduthathan sathiyama. Call history pathalae one hr thanditha daily confirm. Nee busy ah iru kandukatha. Innoru option antha pilai ivara torcher panna ivaru back adichuruvaru. Suthanama iruma

Balanced advice Honestly, I think the answer is somewhere in what you’ve already explained. There are things your husband did that understandably made you uncomfortable, especially hiding the trip and the AI prompt. At the same time, none of us reading this can know for sure whether there was actually something inappropriate between them. Maybe try looking at the situation from a completely neutral third person’s point of view, rather than only from the perspective of fear or suspicion. Trust your gut, but also give yourself a chance to separate your intuition from the anxiety that has built up over the last 8–9 months. I personally don’t think firing the employee should be the only solution. If he removes her today but the trust between you two remains broken, another situation could create the same anxiety tomorrow. What really needs to be addressed is transparency, boundaries, reassurance and rebuilding trust between the two of you. You’re not wrong for feeling hurt or uncomfortable, but neither of you will find peace by constantly arguing about her. Have a calm conversation with your husband about what boundaries would make both of you comfortable, and consider couples counselling if you feel you’re unable to resolve this on your own. And yes, trust your gut — but also look at the facts before making a decision that could affect someone’s career and your marriage.

You are together for 12 years. And you NEVER doubted your husband. STILL he felt NEED to hide info that "he and 2 female colleagues are going to another city. They will stay in one double room and your husband will stay in another separate room." This info would have been sufficient if you and him had good trusting relationship. Since he hid this info, now you have doubts that he is having affair with one of those female colleagues. Was that AI prompt also about her? If yes, then instead of fighting frequently why don't you calmly ask your husband once and for all? Say something like "We are together since 12 years. We have two children. If any of that ever mattered to you (still matters to you) just tell me the truth." He might tell you the truth or you might be able to catch a lie through body language (of you are good at it). Decide your own future course of action after this. FIRING anyone won't help. Because they can continue affair outside office. Or he can find another female to have affair....

Go to office with kids and make that woman as Bua of your kids 😂

Don't worry. She is just a friend 😉

He is cheating. So you make him feel you are seeing someone. That also younger to you. Try it.

If you think you're overthinking, then you're making a fool of yourself! There's definitely something going on between them. While removing that employee would be a temporary solution, the longterm solution will lie with your husband. Unless he changes himself, continuing this kind of flirt while upsetting his wife - is it really worth it? BTW this is the first time I've learned people are using Chatgpt to express their feelings to another person!! Epic 😂

These days women are having fun, so men should also have some fun, you keep coping and seething

Hire a private detective or someone you trust in his office who can monitor their activities and collect proof of them crossing the lines(if it actually happens).

Of course he is cheating

Infidelity is wrong in marriage. He needs to stop right away

Trust your gut

He may bored homefood

You are absolutely right, husband should fire her from his company

how u even ask him to take his office decision as u wish...it is his office u can control him but not his office adminis things...u have no rights for it as it is his empire...if u r having problem with him find a solution for it not by playing in someone else life by firing for ur mistake or ur husband mistake

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What an insecure ladyy??? So a men cant even have a female friend now ???I can only wonder how hell his life must be .

Gut instinct never fail. It's never new for men to cheat on their wife during pregnancy they don't have to bear that child so they roam freely . Better hire a detective. Honestly I feel bad for you that you have two children with a cheater.

U are naive thinking firing will stop .u should ask talk with calm mind what's issue u can't save marriage like this no way. Stop deludinh urself

I would have divorced him, he is not worthy to have a wife. Period.

Your husband must be a moron to leave so many clues regarding his possible unfaithfulness, on a lighter note. Anyways not sure you have the right to tell him to fire someone for whatever reason. Best to hire a PI if you can afford one, or perhaps take marriage counselling