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42 ki age me himmat karke bahar nikalna sochna hi sabse badi baat hai. Aapki padhai aur experience ki value hai, bas sahi jagah dhundhni hai. Apni beti ke liye bhi, aur sabse pehle khud ke liye khade ho jaiye. Professional help lena kamzori nahi hai. Hum aapke saath hain.

If everybody abuses you, the problem could be with yourself. Introspect and if u feel you are right, stand up for yourself confidently. If you are willing to work, spread your interest amongst your other family members, friends, local places where you frequently move like shopping or temple visits. Job is always there for people who really have the will to work.

If everyone is seeing your fault, then the way you are thinking is different to others. Just switch the roles of you and your daughter and see how you will feel if the same you did is done by your daughter. You should start seeing both sides of the coin.

Let them not like you, but you shouldn’t lose your confidence for that. Why do you need anyone’s support or affirmation, take your own decisions. Don’t be in a misconception that getting a job will get back your dignity, if something needs to be changed in you, you should acknowledge and change for good, but if the change is required from other side, sadly it’s not under your control. But your life is under your control, if husband is abusing infront of others, then just laugh on his face. Are if already you are bad named, then take advantage of it rather than being depressed. Give them back your depression and live your life freely.

What's your salary expectations mam .? It's not house but it's possible In girls hostel there are many opportunities in hyderabad

Get any job/ some engagement in NGO / get involved in some activities.

Go yoga or counciling and u can come out of this physcological issues.. no need of getting depressed..

Looks like you grew up in a narcissistic family and married into one. Work on yourself, one day they may see your worth. If not, accept it. Don't look for external validation. Improve yourself and learn new hobbies. Build a new you from scratch. You should love and respect yourself first. Try meditation.

If ONE person is not happy with you, and others r fine??? Then we can admit the fault is in that ONE person.. But if its the other way around?? Then u need to work in urself. Not others..

I am also 42 and going through similar situation- best option is to immigrate to Canada- you can live peacefully earning well in CAD

I can't help you in any way but i will pray for you... 😔

so sad if u r ready to move to hyd there is a job of cook in girls hostel u hv to cook for 100 girls 25k salary plus food and accomodation free of cost

Hi don't worry about it all. Please take care of your health and pray to God. One day you will definitely be appreciated by them.

Location?

In Bangalore Nelmangala if u r interested

Your location ?

U can apply for hostel warden jobs in colleges.

I think you are going thru identity crisis ! Don’t worry ! If u think going to job can solve ur mental stress & if u are in Chennai, you can join my company for audit related works !

Which city? If you know driving then may be work as delivery agent. You can also work using bicycle.

You can't live alone if you are financially not independent if you work in private offices there no job guarantee any time they remove you for no reason one should have permanent job to live independently

You must have done something really wrong to be disliked by your family so much