I am 42 year old married housewife. I have 16 year old daughter. My husband, in laws even my own daughter does not love me or respects me. They always find reason to insult me. Even my own parents does not support me. I am really depressed. I want to get out of all this. I am trying to search a job but nt getting any. I am postgraduate in commerce but of no use now . I want a job which offers me accomodation plus food and salary I am ready to work as cook or aya . I want to come out of this daily in sult and abuse. My husband abuses even in front of others.
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42 ki age me himmat karke bahar nikalna sochna hi sabse badi baat hai. Aapki padhai aur experience ki value hai, bas sahi jagah dhundhni hai. Apni beti ke liye bhi, aur sabse pehle khud ke liye khade ho jaiye. Professional help lena kamzori nahi hai. Hum aapke saath hain.
If everybody abuses you, the problem could be with yourself. Introspect and if u feel you are right, stand up for yourself confidently. If you are willing to work, spread your interest amongst your other family members, friends, local places where you frequently move like shopping or temple visits. Job is always there for people who really have the will to work.
If everyone is seeing your fault, then the way you are thinking is different to others. Just switch the roles of you and your daughter and see how you will feel if the same you did is done by your daughter. You should start seeing both sides of the coin.
Get any job/ some engagement in NGO / get involved in some activities.
If ONE person is not happy with you, and others r fine??? Then we can admit the fault is in that ONE person.. But if its the other way around?? Then u need to work in urself. Not others..
Looks like you grew up in a narcissistic family and married into one. Work on yourself, one day they may see your worth. If not, accept it. Don't look for external validation. Improve yourself and learn new hobbies. Build a new you from scratch. You should love and respect yourself first. Try meditation.
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I can't help you in any way but i will pray for you... 😔
Your location ?
U can apply for hostel warden jobs in colleges.
so sad if u r ready to move to hyd there is a job of cook in girls hostel u hv to cook for 100 girls 25k salary plus food and accomodation free of cost
I think you are going thru identity crisis ! Don’t worry ! If u think going to job can solve ur mental stress & if u are in Chennai, you can join my company for audit related works !
What you have thought is really good. I pray you get a job to feed yourself and live in peaceful atmosphere. But, before doing so, make it very clear to them, how they treated you because of which, you have come to this decision. All the best
Which city? If you know driving then may be work as delivery agent. You can also work using bicycle.
You can't live alone if you are financially not independent if you work in private offices there no job guarantee any time they remove you for no reason one should have permanent job to live independently
You must have done something really wrong to be disliked by your family so much
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