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He Promised Me Commitment Then Married Another Woman

Recently, I've been going through a very difficult time in my love life, and I was cheated on in a really painful way. About one and a half years ago, I connected with a guy through social media. In the beginning, he used to message me a lot. I wasn't very active on Facebook Messenger, so I couldn't reply to him regularly. Later, I found out that he worked in the same company as me. We talked occasionally, then exchanged our WhatsApp numbers. One day, we decided to meet. At that time, both of us were working in Bangalore, and he lived very close to my flat. Since we were colleagues in the same company, I agreed to meet him. Our first meeting went really well, and we had a great conversation. During that meeting, he told me that he was attracted to me. The very next day, he insisted that I come to his flat. I went there, and we spent the night together. After that, he proposed to me. Then, during the Durga Puja holidays, we both went back to our respective hometowns. After returning, we met again and spent some time together. During that time, he told me that he liked me, but he couldn't give me any commitment at that moment. Hearing that, I decided to step back. For the next five to seven months, we didn't meet at all. I started avoiding him, although he continued texting me occasionally. We would have small conversations from time to time. Eventually, I moved on and got into a relationship with someone else. I also noticed that he had become involved with another girl, and that was completely fine with me. We were both busy with our own lives. The real problem started when he realized that I was already in a relationship. He began posting heartbreaking and emotional statuses on social media. Then, in June last year, around 12:30 at night, he messaged me while he was drunk. He said that he missed me and wanted to meet me. I told him very clearly that I wasn't interested in anything casual. If he could give me commitment, then we could move forward. Otherwise, we could just remain good friends. Despite that, he kept insisting that we meet. Eventually, I agreed. When we met, he asked about my boyfriend at that time and tried to convince me that my boyfriend wasn't the right person for me. My boyfriend belonged to a different caste, and his family wasn't willing to accept me. Because of those issues, we had several fights and eventually broke up. After that, he again insisted that I come to his flat. He told me that his family wanted him to get married within the next six months. I asked him if he liked someone. He didn't answer directly. Instead, he said that his family really liked one of his female friends and wanted him to marry her, but according to him, he had always seen her only as a friend. I told him that if he didn't have feelings for me, then he should marry the girl he actually wanted to be with. He then convinced me that he wanted to marry me and that he was finally going to be serious about our relationship. After that, we spent two or three more nights together. However, whenever I asked him about the future of our relationship, he never gave me a clear answer. So I told him that I would no longer come to his flat. If he wanted to meet me, we could meet in a public place instead. We continued talking until December. Then, after a few weeks, in January this year, I found out that he had gotten married to another girl