M26 single 16lpa(doesn't matter) I'm very alone in this world. I have no friends, no girlfriend, and no wife. Whenever I go outside, I see people enjoying time with their loved ones. I can't even celebrate festivals or special days with anyone. With whom should I play Holi? With whom should I celebrate Friendship Day? Most weekends, I just sleep, play games, and watch movies. I'm a foodie and a movie lover, but I always go to theaters and restaurants alone. It's painful to see everyone else enjoying these moments with their friends, partners, or families. I tried dating apps. I got 10+ matches, but I never met any of them in real life because they eventually ghosted me the girls whom I loved got married (never been relationship with them). The friends I had only call me when they need money. They go on trips without telling me. Some only invite me on trips so they can make fun of me for being single, and making my fun to impress girls on the trip or because having me there helps reduce the cost when splitting expenses. Some of them even make fun of my caste,calling everyone in wedding/birthday expect my family. In the office same thing happened they made my work-life worse making fun of me and gave me a funny name to troll me in the office then i compliant to hr and from that day they left me alone no one is talking in office and In parties i have to seat alone (felt cry many times), no one invite me to come lunch with us completely boycotted me My parents are the only people who have stayed with me in this cruel world. But even then, there are some things I can't share with them, and I have no one else to talk to and my physical needs to . Every day, my mom and dad tell me to go outside because it's not good to stay at home all the time. They say I'm young and should be enjoying the outside world. But how can I explain this to them? Life feels like hell when you're alone. Still, I'm grateful for my parents. At least they are with me. All I want to say is if you have someone please be grateful you don't know what I'm missing. go movie,dinner, trips with them I always helped and kind to the people neverby me but never got anything in return i got betrayal i stopped being kind to the people I remember those tesla last words to his mother Nikola Tesla :- "I wish I could be beside you now, mother, to bring you a glass of water. All these years I have spent in the service of mankind have brought me nothing but insults and humiliation." I felt that
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Bhai 100% story match kr rhi hai mere se...., bas muze koi tease nhi krta..., mai jageh pr le leta hu....
Try to find genuine friends who value you. If not, there’s peace in your own company too; watch a movie alone, hit the gym, sit by the riverside and enjoy the sunset. Life’s too short for so-called friends who mock you. Cut those ties.
Jump from 16th Floor 👍
Start doing mirror work for self worth issues. You can search in youtube how to do mirror work and Practice daily. You seem to underestimate yourself a lot, that's what you are getting it in return. Try joining some personality improvement course or self image coaching, rebuild yourself. Practice gratitude daily for your health, money, body parts, food etc.
Hey, I read your confession. I’m sorry you’ve been going through this. Being mocked, used, ignored… that’s genuinely painful and no one should face it alone. You’re not unlovable or worthless. The people around you right now sound cruel, not you. 26 is still young - your real friends plus person exist, you just haven’t met them yet. Please talk to someone if it gets too much: KIRAN 1800-599-0019 is 24x7 free. Your parents love you - lean on them. You deserve Holi, movies, dinners with people who value you. Don’t let those bullies kill your kindness. Stay safe ❤️
Don't worry you are not the only one who is alone the so called friends are like chameleons they change their colours each time I never believe either in friendship or love I love to stay single watch more dramas I deliberately avoid people because snakes are better than some people get a loyal wife she can be your friend,lover a true companion India is already turning to Japan so don't worry you are not alone atleast you are healthy enjoy your company there are many apps enjoy movies dramas
Please start doing what you are interested in, be it sports, social service, you get to know more people, new people, start making new friends. Start a new hobby that your are passion about. Life will start becoming interesting when you do what you are interested in. Don't drain yourself or loose your energy for those so called friends.
They are making fun of because you provide the objects of fun. Instead of blaming the world, look inward and fix the issues you have. Study books of Robert Green. Learn how to improve yourself. They are not making fun of you. They are pointing out your vulnerabilities that you are blind to.
Asli id se aa Debtanu Ghosh
जरूर तेरी कुछ अकड रही होगी स्कूल कॉलेज लाईफ में, तभी तो तेरा एक भी दोस्त नही।
Sometimes being alone is better than being with the wrong set of people. I know it’s painful and lonely. But this is the time u can work on urself. Do well and outshine everyone around you. All those who disowned you will come running behind you. Take care and hope you find true friends soon.
You're going through a typical 25-30s life but you are'nt perceiving it in the healthiest way. Feel free to reach out bro ✨
You r not alone in this world there are hundreds of thousands of working men and women like u.
First learn ur enjoy your own company... The day u do, u will have satisfactory look on ur face which will make others uneasy.... Stop taking jokes on ur heart... Jitna chidoge utna log chidhayege... Committed people hate single and vice versa... Those who dont ask u for trips but only money aren't really ur frnds... So drop them and find new frnds... Its not necessary to hv love before marriage, u can hv arrange marriage then fall in love with your wife... Lastly being alone is so much better than having fake people in life... Learn to love urself and ur time...
I would suggest you to start a business and creat your own world of everything.
If u r in chennai ping me come home as a younger brother
Go to ISKCON MANDIR and participate in their events we will find happiness
Repeat post hai ye. I have already read n replied to this earlier.
Same same brother 🥲
Try to join cult group classes, you will find as per your mindset
Bhai same halat meri hai bas fark itna hai paise wala nhi hu , life feels boring
Being kind in this selfish world is exhausting and makes you numb. I don't know from which city you are. Still ping me if you want to connect. :)
I will be your friend
Say Ur parents to seek proposal for u and get Married
You can't force friendship. Start blogging. Share something unique. You will find like-minded people over time.
Buy a car and travel. Start with smaller trips and by the time you get to your 30s, you would be taking solo trips around the country. Traveling is the only remedy to tackle loneliness.
Hi lets connect.
Bhai lets connect insta
I am also feeling same let be friends
Hi bro
Bhai If u need someone to talk feel free to dm me , i will be more than happy to be your friend
You definitely not simple, but clever, trying to be smarter, missing the point of living. What you are missing is being a little more foolish and innocent, don't care about the world, just let go and live life becoming a bigger fool.......and you have no idea what HELL those others married or with GF's are going thru ....so stop the self condemnations. The power of innocence and aloneness is wondrous and take you to self knowledge, but you don't have to miss the world, for that, point is you can have both; but you seem to be missing both, just bcoz you think others are right ...
Bhai 😂 tu bht Lucky h bc paisa h tumhara pss or kiya chahiye match mai satta lgao trading kro akele raho best raho... Bc mard h aapn kisse ke jarurat nhi hote aapn ko 👍
As because u have very less CTC 16LPA. It must be 65LPA. Btw how dare to post here with such low CTC??