Hi, F29, i am in relationship with my bf for 8 years now but in strting of our relationship i had got attracted to another man because i received attention from while my bf was busy working on his job so we can get married which is my biggest regret though i was working on the same goal but still i got distracted and made a huge mistake it went on for 1 and half year and the. I broke up because i don’t know i love my bf and i always wanted to marry him we anow in a good place worked hard and getting marrrief in coming few months . I was always conscious and knew what i was doing still went ahead with it that’s my biggest mistake and worst decision. I consciously cheated and made my life worst because since then i have never lived with peace i don’t know what do next. If i should tell this i know my bf will never except this, he has loved me always never expected anything in retur, he helped me get out of one toxic relationship as well . I hate myself for doing such thing to my bf. But i love him and i can never do suxh thing ever again but again at the same time i can’t eease my past.
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Never ever tell this to your BF or to anyone about. Seek forgiveness from god and move on and never ever repeat it. Once you do this, don’t feel guilty anymore coz you’ll forever be stuck in that. Forget everything and live happily with him, make him happy, love him like crazy and never hurt him. IGNORE EVERYONE’S ADVISE AND LISTEN TO MY ADVISE. You both will forever be happy. Once you tell him, first thing that’s gonna happen is he will lose trust in you, second he might divorce you, third scenario even if he forgives you he’ll never forget it, that’s human nature. You guys will have troubled marriage. He will never ever trust you again. Chances are he might every now and then fight with you on this topic. Even on a small argument; he might take up this topic and make it a huge argument. So seek forgiveness, repent and forget. What happened has happened, never ever think of cheating again.
Sun behen zyada emotional hokar koi bhi baat mat batana, jaise chal raha hai chalne de,waqt ke sath guilt bhi chali jayegi.. lots of people feel guilty for something or the other in life but that doesn't mean we all should carry it within ourselves for lifetime.. just make sure now you stay loyal with him
The problems with girls.... They need earning man... When man busy in earning, they complain of that their man are busy, un romantic, don't spare time etc etc... and when they get attracted to another man, they start accusing their man of those issues mentioned above.
Ek zindgi mili bhog lo
You don't love him, you just find him secure enough to be with him.
Never ever tell him, your life will become hell. Take therapy to get over guilt and move forward happily with your bf and never cheat again or just stop all relationships. Focus on yourself and for a couple of years stay single and figure out what you want.
If you are sure you won't cheat on him again....then only marry him and start afresh. Leave the past in the past.
Always be honest and accept the reality, don't listen to people telling you to hide it. Later if he finds out it will destroy both of your lives even your childrens. This type of things cannot be hidden for lifetime you will lose respect if he suspects or finds out even a single hint about your cheating.
Guilt is a poison, too much of it not good, pray/meditate/do yoga & lessen your guilt by being more useful loving to him & his family...thts the penance, one day it wil make you guilt free, no matter takes a decade
Deepika Padukone in parallel world 🌎
Haridwar ja k sab paap dhul jate bt ye ni dhulega
Sometime peace remains in silence and not repeating the mistake again! Just stay loyal from now onwards and say sorry to God and bf everyday without any reasons
Is it a real confession? 🙄
100 chuhe kha ke billi haj vo chali. par you are a Jungli Billi.... mujhe jungli billian pasand h...
So no true love & affection. You are cheating the guy also losing your peace. Be honest always else you will lose your peace lifelong
Jiski jiski gf hai 8 saal se bhai.. dekh lo apna apna...
Come clean with your bf about your affair and take it from there. Pls don’t make it dirty..
Please leave him in peace. Cheating is always a choice. Its never ending process. feel bad for ur bf. Please carry the guilt.
Ok move on no one perfect .u realised then correct move ahead .that's life once done is done what can u do now .all human are fragile that's way it is
Love? What is that! 😂😂
He worked hard to build a better life for me, I couldn’t leave—yet still, I cheated on him. He earned the future; I betrayed the trust. Now regret sits heavy where love should be light.Can’t walk away—he built a home in my name, But I’m the one who burned the roof while he laid the bricks.
Confess your BF the same story and for God sake leave him. Let him live his life
First of cut off your illegal relationship. Expand more time with your bf.Never tell your bf about your illegal relationship. May it trigger more worst of your relationship.
Well u were doing that shit with smartly as your bf was struggling and was unstable i guess so u just kept another option open it's impossible to keep doing a mistake for 1.5 year without even realizing. You should be ashamed of urself and must suffer this regret you richly deserve this guilt
Bc yha pyar ke name log jabardasti chutiyapa karte hai hai, aur fir bad me regret karte hai and 99% is done by women alone,agar pyar hoga real me to kabhi v kisi dusre ke bare me soch ja hi nhi sakti hai , ha se***al desire pura karne ko kuchh log pyar se alag bolte hai , to fir waise chaman ch**** ke bare me kya bola jaye And u break the loyalty and trust which was built from day 1 to till 8 years of span, and u just broke it with ur own fantasy, which is absolutely absurd
Comment section full of cuck simps. Namard Indians.
U belong to streets..
Go ahead, be more insufferable, do that again and ruin his life more
Females like U proved tht U r Such a Gold Digger