Gender: FemaleSubmitted on 11 June 2026 at 5:33 pm
Hi all F30. I got married 4years ago through arranged marriage and recently I have baby. My husband said he didn't have previous relationship and he only chat with girls as friends and showed so much love for me and I believed that.After delivery one day I found out that he had relationship in past. He saved their chats and he secretly hidden their phots.He kept her belongings till now.When I asked about it he simply told that the chat was group chat of friends.But it clearly shows messages sent from him. There were dirty and romantic chats also.But he kept saying he didn't have previous relationships.And he forcefully deleted their chat and her contact no from his phone and kept in his mail.I don't know they were still in contact or not.After that my mind was not stable.And i am thinking like may be they should married but I came between them.I am crying like I have done mistake.Acutally I never had relationship.They both are enjoying their life but what I have done mistake to suffer this much.I can't bear this pain. Please somebody suggest me what to do for myself to stop thinking and live peacefully.
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 9:16 pm
Keep all the proofs and screenshots safely and keep an eye on him. If you find something unusual or an affair, move away. Hiding one's past is a grave offence. People who are asking you to adjust, and forget the past, I wonder if they would have said the same if the genders were reversed.
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 6:41 pm
Personally I suggest you to have a soft and healthy conversation and discuss that you both of you have a future ahead! Erase the past and accept the present life.If he is still contacting then it is surely a red flag and clearly ask either to choose past emotion or present situation! Hope you make a right choice and remain happy đĨ°đ
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 6:27 pm
Nothing ..take care of your baby and urself first.. you cannot do anything about ur husband past and if he is still in contact, you have no way out also .. if you are financially dependent upon him then you have to accept and move in life .. if financially independent choice is yours , apply for divorce if it suits you đ ...isse jaida aur kya hogga
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 6:33 pm
This is ur life, he has relationship r not matters here, don be a spy searching for truth, u should tackle this matured, its normal, he hide these things, but jus skip few things in life for ur mental peace. U don need to worry much, jus live ur life wit him
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 1:04 am
Leave past..see what he's doing now
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 6:49 pm
dont overthink and lose ur life...be happy with him hope he is not worrying about the past and living happy with u as per ur statement so u also do the same
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