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You should excuse him for his past mistakes and move forward with mutual understanding.You should also see the change in his behaviour when he behaves father and how loving he is now. So sit together and talk and make love and care

Hurt hone ka reason bhi share kar lijiye husband se. Agar relationship me understating hai to isko apne relation ko thik karne ke liye prayog karen. Bahut se couples me ye bhi nahi hai, aur jivan ke bich padaw me rishte tut jaate hai. Jab kabhi bhi wo memories recall ho jinme aap hurted feel kar rahi ho, usi samay pe apne self talk me kahiye, I forgive my husband and forgive my self. I release this memory from my mind. Aur turant ache moments ko yaad kr lijiye. Kuch din me aap ke rishte behtar ho jane hai. God bless u.

You are carrying unresolved emotional hurt from earlier years of marriage. Your husband seems to have changed, but trust and emotional safety inside you have not fully healed. Physical closeness often becomes difficult when past pain remains active. Open conversations, and if possible couples counseling, may help rebuild emotional connection without pressure.

he is not a rogue to hurt or talk bad about ur parents, tell first what u did and what u spoke about him and his parents without telling that why u blame him all the time...if u r keeping grudge for the words spit in anger and not forgiving him think what will happen if he does the same back to you? as per ur statement u say u both had fight and understanding issue then how come u blame him alone and taking revenge on him like this...if u continue to do this u r going to lose him for sure...so be ready for it

Madam, The family that comes from you is more important than the family you come from. The day your husband start feeling unappreciated and neglected and start affair you will realise the repercussions. Saying this I don’t justify whatever he had done on you, those were absolute condemnable. But you said he changed. You need to talk out and move ahead before you realise at what cost you are punishing him.

Look dear. Since you are saying that he changed a lot and becomes good father and husband then you should Forget those old memories. 10 yrs of marriage and still you are not allowing your husband for intimacy is wrong. It is upto you but according to me you should forgive him

seems like man changed nd matured alot so for sake of ur family u should let go of his past mistakes stop overthinking nd don’t take advice from people who have made many wrong decisions themselves think what’s best for u nd ur family

Madam, you are using physical intimacy as a weapon to punish your husband. You agree the fact that your husband has changed a lot now as compared to past. You need to ask yourself why you are not able to come out of the past and keeping the same vengeance within you after so long years. You are denying the fact that your vengeance will not only destroy you and your husband, the bigger hit will be on your children. Be matured. Live in present. Unless you are happy within yourself, you cannot spread real happiness to your children.

Forgive me but we are getting ready for another confession from you stating ,, you secretly saw your husband's phone and he is having affair with a woman:. You can cuss me but you are going down that path. Either go for a counseling or talk to it out with your husband or get ready for another confession

Almost 10 years of marriage, out of which you say he has changed since 6 years, or atleast 5 to say. Just remember if he is pretending it would have lasted for few months only, not years. May be your continued rejection leads to "one thing to another" with another, and you again feel yourself as pity girl out of your prity girl image 😌

You're a syco get treated see a good doctor

Pls change your behaviour