Hello I am a 27 year old woman. Last year my marriage was arranged by my parents with a 34 year old man. He had a government job , lives in the same city as I do, so everything was fine .I agreed for the marriage. On 3 rd Feb 2026 we got married and on 5 th Feb was our reception. On that day both of us were very tired so we slept. In marriage it's common to have physical relation but in our case we are not having it. 1 week passed 1 month passed but no physical relation. Earlier I thought that he was tired so not able to do, but later I came to know that he has some problem due to which not able to do S*X. When I came to know I cried a lot but there was no one whom I can tell . After two months I told my mother. Which my mother in law and my husband came to know and they scolded me a lot ,that I should not have told my parents. After two months he went to doctor.He is taking medicines but still no improvement.its been 4 months. I am really very stressed and depressed.i don't know what to do please tell me what should I do should I live with my husband without being physical or should I leave him and go to my parents home?
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I thought women don’t have cravings for sex
It’s not one day job to cure You can wait for year or 2 years Go to doctor with him and discuss, be polite with him Help to overcome his fear. Don’t be over smart
I think he was aware of his problem, still he got married, this situation can be avoided,my suggestion wait for some months if no improvement then u can leave and start new life
Pehle Baki nature ko bhi analyse kariye, like caring understanding, verbally and by action. Agar disrespect with toxicity ye sab dikhe to then fir nikalne ka sochiye. Agar health issue bas ho recoverable ho, aur support karne k liye mind prepared ho then support him .
Thats why I find no harm to go to bed before marriage… you should check your stuff before buying it!
If u have the same kind of problem then... First U need to understand him... Usually girls are taking time... If the boy took what's harm...
This clearly signs of immaturity once your married life is concentrated bettwen husband and wife. You should have made the move in bed and when he didnt respond you had the right to politely ask him his problem and addressed it accordingly keeping it strictly between Husband and Wife. Don't get parents or in laws involved this will also give them space to interfere in your marriage. Your husband not interested in sex probably his too timid or has an arousal problem. You on your own can evaluate the situation by seducing him or making him get aroused am sure you must be aware of what am talking, try oral and other seductive methods if not consult a doctor and seek medical assistance in mean time you both can engage in other way to gain your own self satisfaction. Don't think sex and intimacy is everything in marriage. Its about partnership and companionship. Don't ever discuss your personal matter with anyone even friends you try to keep it discreet give him time and if medically it cannot be solved go for counseling try all options. Then you have sufficient evidence and proof in case you wish to dissolve this marriage. I do hope everything works well for you both and wish you both abundance blessing and bright prosperity. God Bless Imraz Aniff
Get a complete physical test / analysis of his sexual health report .Take a call after seeing the results..If it's irreversible or if the chances are unlikely the reports can be used for your Divorce proceedings.Dont waste any precious time.
Dear sister. You better leave him if he really has health issues realted to sex. because if not today tomorrow also it can occur. Difficult to sustain with medicines. Also This can lead issues for conceiving. that will be more depressing. Better watch for some time and then leave him for ur own good. this can save u from extra martial affairs, depression etc
When your husband visit a doctor , you go with him and ask with doctor about his condition. As you said, your husband and his mother are known with his problem. You can wait for few month to see improvement in him. If not, it will be better to marry with another man. You can leave him. It will be better.
Let the peanuts become granules then only, it can change. 👀
If Everything else is fine with him, so both of you adopt Bhahamcharya, start reading about it, complete sanity, deepest form of Yoga, Dhayana and meditation. That is, complete control of your mind, over your senses, desires, lust, greed, envy and anger. Start reading Bhagwad Geeta and other scriptures, get under the guidance of ISKON dovotees, start Mantra Meditation and focus completely on Bhagwan Shri Krishna (Your all activities should be oriented to serve KRISHNA). THAT FEELING is above everything ELSE.
Marriage means everything is part of it and should take place under one umbrella. Hiding the fact of importance is a cruel act. Consult an advocate and go for divorce with the facts .. the divorce petition and decree obtained will help u for next future aliance. Before resorting to legal input. Explain ur husband and move to ur parents home involve both sides elders.. try to reach a conclusion .. for divorce ... As there is no other gateway available be bold and go ahead. Good luck
Discuss with him. Before taking any decision.... How and what to be discussed shall be discussed priavtely
ummm u can help him to improving... and make that growth faster
Discuss with him openly about your situation and wait for 1 pr 2 month after complete physical test as whole life can spand with physical needs. In today's scenario physical needs is also come in basic necessities. So better to take any decision give some time to him or find someone else.
He is 34 not young
Divorce
Wait for result ...hope everything will be fine... don't take immediate and drastic decision....
Cheat him or Divorce him 😆
maybe you can ask your husband to try being cuckold and you can invite someone, i can assure both of you will enjoy!!
You can obtain a divorce on the grounds of impotence.
What doctor told about his medical condition..if he has ED , mostly it will be cured if not genetic..if genetic issues there are surgical options etc...so don't ruin the things because of this..there are other ways you can handle it
Chod de
Ask Dr to prescribe kamagra jelly
Kick him out so that he can exercise and mix that shilajit in his drink
Sujoy Sikder bhai er ghor ta bacha 😂bechari biye kore o pacche na
Ladka acha hona chaiye sarkari hona chaiye ..🤩 Khair u should leave him ..better n take alimony too bcoz he ruined Ur life
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I think he will not allow u to meet doc wid him, if he allow then take ur decision, hope u know what i mean, god bless u
Sorry to hear, you have to move on.
Rinku Kumar Keshav inka adress lekar medicine courier kar diya jaye kya ??
You stay with your parents. It is his mistake of not telling to you before marriage or hiding and going for marriage. You tell him when he is ready you will come or take divorce and concentrate on your life. Why should you be responsible for that? Gents here are telling take him to hospital, stay with him or understand him...for one day if women tell that they are not for sex will they be calm?
Leave him immediately if you can't make relationship with someone
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Please consider going back 🏡 home and having an open conversation with your husband. Physical intimacy is an important part of many relationships, but so are emotional connection. When these needs are not met, misunderstandings and distance can develop between partners. I hope both of you can discuss your concerns openly and work toward a solution that is best for your relationship and well-being. Ping me
Most probably it’s due to poor dietary intake. Consult with any Muslim HAKEEM, they will solve your problem.
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U r telling this or searching some one to have s*x..??
Get a side man
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Yes
Arranged marriage should be illegal
chordo bc 🤣
Inbox me to discuss this. i have solution
Try licking his Arse, like dogs do, it will work wonders.
Give me a bj first
Use di**do
Sex he sab kuch hota hai kia ? Bc Aadmi sex kre to pervert Na kare to hizda ?
You married a gay🫥
Kyaa bc ye yai, paas mei bibi pakdke chup baite hai...bahut log ..utti marke jindagi nikal rahehai