Gender: FemaleSubmitted on 11 June 2026 at 8:02 am
Hello I am a 27 year old woman. Last year my marriage was arranged by my parents with a 34 year old man. He had a government job , lives in the same city as I do, so everything was fine .I agreed for the marriage. On 3 rd Feb 2026 we got married and on 5 th Feb was our reception. On that day both of us were very tired so we slept. In marriage it's common to have physical relation but in our case we are not having it. 1 week passed 1 month passed but no physical relation. Earlier I thought that he was tired so not able to do, but later I came to know that he has some problem due to which not able to do S*X. When I came to know I cried a lot but there was no one whom I can tell . After two months I told my mother. Which my mother in law and my husband came to know and they scolded me a lot ,that I should not have told my parents. After two months he went to doctor.He is taking medicines but still no improvement.its been 4 months. I am really very stressed and depressed.i don't know what to do please tell me what should I do should I live with my husband without being physical or should I leave him and go to my parents home?
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 9:27 pm
It’s not one day job to cure You can wait for year or 2 years Go to doctor with him and discuss, be polite with him Help to overcome his fear. Don’t be over smart
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Anonymous20 June 2026 at 12:54 am
I think he was aware of his problem, still he got married, this situation can be avoided,my suggestion wait for some months if no improvement then u can leave and start new life
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 10:17 pm
Pehle Baki nature ko bhi analyse kariye, like caring understanding, verbally and by action. Agar disrespect with toxicity ye sab dikhe to then fir nikalne ka sochiye. Agar health issue bas ho recoverable ho, aur support karne k liye mind prepared ho then support him .
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Anonymous20 June 2026 at 10:15 am
Thats why I find no harm to go to bed before marriage… you should check your stuff before buying it!
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 10:36 pm
If u have the same kind of problem then... First U need to understand him... Usually girls are taking time... If the boy took what's harm...
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 9:47 pm
Get a complete physical test / analysis of his sexual health report .Take a call after seeing the results..If it's irreversible or if the chances are unlikely the reports can be used for your Divorce proceedings.Dont waste any precious time.
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 9:57 pm
When your husband visit a doctor , you go with him and ask with doctor about his condition. As you said, your husband and his mother are known with his problem. You can wait for few month to see improvement in him. If not, it will be better to marry with another man. You can leave him. It will be better.
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 10:02 pm
Let the peanuts become granules then only, it can change. 👀
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 12:03 am
If Everything else is fine with him, so both of you adopt Bhahamcharya, start reading about it, complete sanity, deepest form of Yoga, Dhayana and meditation. That is, complete control of your mind, over your senses, desires, lust, greed, envy and anger. Start reading Bhagwad Geeta and other scriptures, get under the guidance of ISKON dovotees, start Mantra Meditation and focus completely on Bhagwan Shri Krishna (Your all activities should be oriented to serve KRISHNA). THAT FEELING is above everything ELSE.
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Anonymous20 June 2026 at 6:02 am
Discuss with him. Before taking any decision.... How and what to be discussed shall be discussed priavtely
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 9:36 pm
ummm u can help him to improving... and make that growth faster
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 7:53 am
Discuss with him openly about your situation and wait for 1 pr 2 month after complete physical test as whole life can spand with physical needs. In today's scenario physical needs is also come in basic necessities. So better to take any decision give some time to him or find someone else.
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 11:53 am
He is 34 not young
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 11:17 pm
Divorce
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Anonymous20 June 2026 at 11:51 am
Wait for result ...hope everything will be fine... don't take immediate and drastic decision....
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 11:54 pm
Cheat him or Divorce him 😆
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Anonymous20 June 2026 at 7:47 pm
maybe you can ask your husband to try being cuckold and you can invite someone, i can assure both of you will enjoy!!
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Anonymous22 June 2026 at 7:51 am
You can obtain a divorce on the grounds of impotence.
Anonymous21 June 2026 at 7:19 pm
What doctor told about his medical condition..if he has ED , mostly it will be cured if not genetic..if genetic issues there are surgical options etc...so don't ruin the things because of this..there are other ways you can handle it
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 6:52 am
Chod de
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 12:54 am
Ask Dr to prescribe kamagra jelly
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 7:35 pm
Kick him out so that he can exercise and mix that shilajit in his drink
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 10:54 pm
Sujoy Sikder bhai er ghor ta bacha 😂bechari biye kore o pacche na
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 2:42 am
Ladka acha hona chaiye sarkari hona chaiye ..🤩 Khair u should leave him ..better n take alimony too bcoz he ruined Ur life
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 9:32 pm
😊😊😂😂😂 thats really a funny story 😭
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 11:08 pm
I think he will not allow u to meet doc wid him, if he allow then take ur decision, hope u know what i mean, god bless u
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 10:21 pm
Rinku Kumar Keshav inka adress lekar medicine courier kar diya jaye kya ??
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 11:21 pm
Leave him immediately if you can't make relationship with someone
Anonymous23 June 2026 at 12:31 am
Hello medam i help you
Anonymous21 June 2026 at 9:21 pm
Go
Anonymous21 June 2026 at 6:52 am
Please consider going back 🏡 home and having an open conversation with your husband. Physical intimacy is an important part of many relationships, but so are emotional connection. When these needs are not met, misunderstandings and distance can develop between partners. I hope both of you can discuss your concerns openly and work toward a solution that is best for your relationship and well-being. Ping me
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 5:32 pm
Most probably it’s due to poor dietary intake. Consult with any Muslim HAKEEM, they will solve your problem.
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 4:05 pm
Dm😂
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 1:50 pm
U r telling this or searching some one to have s*x..??
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 11:54 am
Get a side man
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 10:30 pm
Yes
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 9:54 pm
Arranged marriage should be illegal
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Anonymous19 June 2026 at 9:42 pm
chordo bc 🤣
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Anonymous20 June 2026 at 12:49 am
Inbox me to discuss this. i have solution
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 9:44 pm
Try licking his Arse, like dogs do, it will work wonders.
Anonymous21 June 2026 at 12:08 am
Give me a bj first
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 10:47 pm
Use di**do
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 10:44 pm
Kyaa bc ye yai, paas mei bibi pakdke chup baite hai...bahut log ..utti marke jindagi nikal rahehai
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