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Oh accha, 2 years baad yaad aya ki apki family Orthodox hai and caste ke bahar shaadi nahi kar sakte. Thik hai bhai samjh gaya 👍

1. Marry her in a registrar's office. Don't inform your parents. 2. Buy / rent a house in your names. 3. Shift to that house. Invite your parents to visit. After that, your parents can't do much even if they don't like your (future) wife. Also, your children will be healthier than their inbred cousins born from intra-caste marriages. This will not be obvious at first but will get clearer as they grow up

Just get married to her in a register office and temple. Don't worry about caste and family, because you have to live with her and they won't. Choose your partner who you trust and love. Make sure you stand for her and she does the same. A simple register and temple marriage saves money, invest in travel, FDS and a house instead of burning it on a lavish wedding.

If you truly love her, then convince your parents. Show some courage. You already knew they wouldn't accept a girl from a different caste, right? So why can't you stand your ground now?

How will you lead a happy life if you can’t convince your own parents ? There are so many bigger issues to face in life and hope you have the courage to face them. Good luck.

First If you can convince them regarding age then caste is not a big issue

The real issue here is not whether the girl belongs to a different caste or is two years older. The important questions are whether both of you genuinely understand each other, are compatible, and are prepared to take responsibility for the life you want to build together. You should not rush into marriage simply to prove a point to your family, but neither should you give up a healthy relationship solely because of caste prejudice. Try having a calm, patient conversation with your parents. Instead of arguing about caste, help them understand her character, values, education, family background, and how seriously both of you view marriage. Give them time to process it. At the same time, be honest with the girl. If you are asking her to wait while you convince your family, you need to have a realistic plan and a reasonable timeline. Her life cannot remain on hold indefinitely. Ultimately, your parents deserve respect, but your marriage is a lifelong decision that you and the girl will have to live with. If both of you are adults, financially and emotionally prepared, and genuinely committed, caste alone should not determine your future. Convince your family with maturity and patience, but don't let fear make the decision for you.

The courage in love lies is supporting the better half Cowards are after lust and not love

They will not be convinced, grow a spine, marry her and start living separately, do not marry someone else as per your family's wishes, you're gonna ruin several lives together in doing so!

Darr lag raha hoga, samajh sakta hu 💛 Par agar tum chhod doge toh dono zindagi bhar pachtaoge. Family ko convince karne ke liye 3 cheez chahiye: patience, proof, aur koi bada jisko wo maante hon. Kisi chacha/tau/bua jo liberal ho, unse help lo. Ladai nahi, baat se rasta niklega.

Abe maze kar liye ab apne caste me dekh, kyu bloodline impure karega

Please elope, if she is important

Listen to your father. girls will come and go. Else you will definitely repent and regret it. 100% See comments from girls asking you to go against parents. In future, ur wife will always hate ur parents. U will become alone. Women are like this nowadays. Only looking for self benefit… not family oriented.

If you had the guts to enter into an intercaste relationship in a village, then have the guts to also convince your family for marriage. You don't have to be rude or create fights, just be strong and adamant about it. Talk to them openly. If they're still not convinced, then go for a court marriage. But, don't marry someone else and ruin the lives of two women.