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Forget about ur complexion or grey hairs and things which are mostly not in ur control but why are you 110 kg?? You can work on things which are in ur control right? Appearance and smartness are two different things. Even if u blame ur skin color or other things for ur 'bad' appearance, there are multiple things u can work on to be smart. So work on that instead being a dormant person thinking what will happen, will happen.

First of all, respect yourself. If you don’t, people will take you for granted, pity you, and not respect you. You deserve better than this. You can’t change things like your complexion or eyesight. But what you CAN do is build a healthy lifestyle: 1. Start working out - Join a gym. Hire a trainer if you can. 2. See a dietitian - Dieting doesn’t mean eating less or starving. That’s a wrong idea. 3. Look for a job . All of this will boost your confidence. Right now it may feel like none of this is possible. But take one small step at a time. You WILL get there. And please — never let anyone treat you like an option. You’re just 31. You have a long, good life ahead. Stay positive and keep hoping for the best. Take care ❤️

There are so many suggestions here regarding improving appearance. Kindly follow that. My question to you is about this 1st and 2nd groom mindset. What difference does it make? Is 2nd groom less of a man? If a person is good, I feel, they are more mature and experienced. That’s how I see it. Same thing I suggest to men as well.

Yes, accept any proposal if goes right or else stay single forever

1. Before marriage fix your health first - that will be your only companion in life , with or without marriage. 2. Stop prioritising looks and no. Of marriages etc- these are too shallow criteria. Understand yourself first on the type of human you want. 3. Learn to earn. Self sustainability is must for any person. You are 31 but still in delulu of a 21 y o . Wish you good luck , you need it to grow up .

1st or 2nd or even 3rd marriage grooms- basically there has to be love and understanding between the couple and for Gawds sake please make sure the groom is wealthy because you r unemployed

See black or white colour doesn't matter... Just be fit and do some gym and lose weight by half and see results 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

Talk to a guy...if u like it go for it. Dont think first or second marriage

First off, start respecting yourself. Work on the things you can control, like your weight. Start eating healthy and working out, and when you lose fat, your complexion will get better too. Also, work on your skills. Secondly, there's no such thing as first-hand or second-hand. If the person is nice, go for it, but first work on yourself.

Get yourself a grooming makeover. Eat healthy. Walk daily. Meditate. Manifest. Build self confidence. Overcome low esteem. Build a matrimonial profile. Select the groom yourself from amidst online or offline proposals after discussion with your parents. Have faith in the Almighty

Assuming this is a genuine post and not a fake/troll. Your life's sole purpose is not to get married. The only goal in your life is not your hero husband. More than anyone commenting and judging your appearance, you have accepted that this is your fate and are justifying others who say things about your appearance instead of thinking in a different way. Firstly, learn to respect yourself. Respect comes from within, only then others will respect you. Don't be a victim. Secondly, who said 31 is "crossed marriage age"? You are deciding and that's why others are bringing 2nd marriage proposals. In today's world average marriage age for girls is 28-34. Thirdly, there are many things that you can change about yourself. You can definitely find a job. You can work out and reduce your weight. You can groom yourself and look the way you feel beautiful and attractive. Everything starts with a change in your mindset. Don't be a victim of your own story. Others are only a reflection of what you think about yourself. Dedicate 3-6 months to transform yourself. There are plenty of YouTube videos on self-confidence, self-esteem, affirmations, fitness, grooming etc which can help you. All the best.

lose your weight,colour your hair,do some facials,wear trendy clothes,shape your browser, whiten your teeth.31,is young.

First focus on yourself and get back into proper BMI..

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Girl start hitting gym start walking like mad maintain yourself and you have much better version of yourself

You fancy which hero/actor?

Teen mahine gym jao, wahi set ho jawogi....pehle kuch sahi karo toh sahi, yaha likhne ke bajaye, kuch kariyeh

Either it is a guy having perverted fun, Or someone with whom gods haven’t been too kind, And I am not talking about the rest, but common sense. Why should someone marry you? Other than because you think you have a good heart or that you think you are a good human being. Which again is subject to perceptions.

Do something seriously for your weight, everything else is not that much concerning

You just answered your question yourself,,plz maintain your weight,, everything will me alright

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Please reduce weight. Black is beautiful only

And sister....plz do gym n diet and keep yourself fit

No don’t accept 2nd marriage proposals. These elders who say ‘accept that option because they won’t look at looks / money’ are lying. They say this to pretty girls too. Accept the short / ugly guy. And you know what those guys do? They abuse. If you accept 2nd marriage because you think you can’t do better - he will also think so, abuse you, be violent, cheat and then say you should be grateful. Get a job and be on your own.

Reduce your weight, start strength training. Also at that weight, you may have developed PCOD/PCOS & be Prediabetic, you may have noticed the subtle indications. I was fit when I got married at 25, then gave into the corporate pressure, started developing prediabetes at 32, but now at 36 I am fitter than ever, as if my life gave me a second chance, my spouse loves me more now, earlier she used to hate & avoid me (I don't blame her, I was an asshole to deal with) The only way out of this doom that you are in is respecting your body & treating it like a temple.