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A Journey Through Betrayal, Loss, and Renewed Hope

35/F Hi All, I got married at the age of 27 and it was a arrange marriage. I was working in Chennai and my husband was working in bangalore. After the engagement as usual we used to talk in phone for hour. After marriage i had some health issue so resigned my job. Life was going good and after few months i started seeing changes in my husband. After two years of treatment and mental pressure i became pregnant. Then things started to change small fights and it turned out to be big fights. Because of which i got aborted. I was completely shattered and not able to digest. My husband didnt feel guilty for that. He was very normal. Then i understood he likes another girl and want to marry her. She is also divorced and he started to stay in her house. He never understood about the struggle i had to go. After lot of fights we got divorced and i came to my parents home. I want completely into mental depression so i never though of starting my career again. My parents are staying with my brother after 6 months i started seeing change in my brother behaviour as well. I completely understood in today scenario he has to take care of my expenses as well. I started to search job and got selected in a company. I moved to chennai and started to feel different. I got chance to meet my school friend we started talking in few months he purposed me and he knows my entire things happened in my life. But i was not ready to accept bcs of the first marriage. My mother forced me to get married after lot of thinking i accepted and married. It has been three years by god grace i am so happy and husband take cares of me very well. Very loving and i am my pregnant now its twins baby. Some times we need to hear our mothers suggestions as well. Just want to share one thing. Men - if your loving anyone better talk in your home and get married to that girl dont spoil another women life. Bcs women has to face lot of struggle if they are divorced. Women - always have second option if first one fails never hesitate for second option. I pray every women second option will be good one. Women's also dont take this as advantage and do whatever we want. If we are good same will happen to us.