Gender: Prefer not to saySubmitted on 21 June 2026 at 10:22 pm
I am 27F who had an online friendship with a guy I met online back in July 2019. Everything was good between us at first, but then the friendship turned into s__ting. I tried to stop this several times and took several actions, but every time he was the one who initiated it and wanted to continue. Later, in December 2024, he got married and I thought, "Now this is the end of everything," so I decided to move on for good. But after 2 weeks of his marriage, he approached me again and asked for the same thing. I was shocked that he was asking for this after marriage. I tried to avoid it, and even today he is still asking. Even he is ready to meet me in The hotel room. I also got curious about why, after marriage, he was demanding this when he has physical access to it with his wife. Somehow, through his other account, I got to know about his wife’s ID. Now I know her name and with a fake account pretending to be a boy, I approached his wife. My only aim was to understand the circumstances from her perspective. I became friends with her and so far after talking for a week, she said she doesn’t like her husband but never explained the reason, nor did I insist or ask. Ironically, now they both are cheating on each other with the same person (me). But sometimes I feel bad for the wife, as she seems attached and sometimes texts me and wants to talk. So I need expert suggestions: Should I stop it, or let it explore further to find out what is missing in their marriage that makes them both look for others?
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:22 pm
How about the simple and straight forward approach of 'minding your own business'? Not your circus, Not your monkeys
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:45 pm
Waah! Kaise kaise log rehte hain humare desh mein 🤣
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Anonymous28 June 2026 at 2:59 am
Get both of them to meet you in a hotel room - Once they face each other - Excuse yourself and let them see each other's true colours
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 5:09 pm
Ironically the irony died here knowing that the girl and the guy has never met you and you have the best seat to both worlds and you are able to control both lol.
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:53 pm
no one can insist anyone if you dont want it too by yourself
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 7:53 pm
Arrey bahan jee Zindagi ek hi mili hai, kyun itne complicated kar rahe ho. Come out of these issues and Life Chill karo
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:31 pm
You’re an expert already who can access both 😃
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 6:06 pm
This is honestly one of the weirdest things I've read here and it almost sounds too easy and too good to be true. Anyway, it's none of your business digging into their stuff. You don't need to know their marriage dynamics. Block them both and leave them alone.
Anonymous28 June 2026 at 12:29 am
Uski wife ko muje recommend kar do. I will handle this case
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:50 pm
You be the therapist/third person and fix their issue and be grateful about it..
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 8:41 pm
You keep yourself aside. Make distance with both of them else you will ruin your peace.
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 7:28 pm
See this world is a mirror... You get what you give... Sometimes.. it might seem unjust but remember it's a lesson... In your case... Advise is Always Remember "Curiosity is what killed the cat 😺" Hope you understand what I mean to say. Please don't carry this on any more. The fundamental base of any relationship is Respect and is someone can't be respectful then it's on a rocky shore bound to fail. Be respectful towards yourself and your upbringing, it's not your duty to fix damaged goods nor pay for others doings.
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 5:21 pm
Yes go,on - YOLO Please explore, research , assess , find gaps , apply kanban then implement the right set of controls to run their marriage smoothly. Who knows you have the talent to become a private detective who is paid heavily these days. With your grand experience you can turn into a writer, OTT filmmaker.
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 10:15 pm
Help her understand about life. Counsel her and him. Make them be together
Anonymous30 June 2026 at 3:24 pm
Why do you want to know? Block both of them and live your life.
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 6:41 pm
Made up story
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:37 pm
Gangadhar hi Shaktiman hain...
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Anonymous28 June 2026 at 5:05 am
Omg Kitne Khali log h 😶
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:27 pm
Gh Ya expert advice plijj
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Anonymous28 June 2026 at 8:56 am
Seems you have so much free time in life 😉
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 5:51 pm
Ajeeb topibaaz ho yaar tum.
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 5:15 pm
Being a Muslim, we believe in Qur'an In Qur'an Allah says ... "Wicked women are for wicked men, and wicked men are for wicked women. And virtuous women are for virtuous men, and virtuous men are for virtuous women. The virtuous are innocent of what the wicked say. They will have forgiveness and an honourable provision" ... Qur'an (Surah Al Noor - Chapter 24 Verse 26) Your story is a perfect example and fits on this verse ...
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:55 pm
u will get into a web after sometimes
Anonymous29 June 2026 at 12:27 am
Open up and let them know. Otherwise it’s a spider web.
Anonymous29 June 2026 at 4:42 am
Yes keep posting updates here
Anonymous29 June 2026 at 12:01 pm
Wife ki id mujhe do please 🙏
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 5:45 pm
Go for 3sm
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 6:37 pm
🤣😀marriage is finished now a days it becomes cheat,intimacy and all
Anonymous28 June 2026 at 1:20 am
Author are you from Kolkata?
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:25 pm
That's not her wife account, actually it's his own account , she's playing on both sides, like you
Anonymous30 June 2026 at 5:31 am
It's funny
Anonymous30 June 2026 at 5:54 am
You are wrong and initially you allowed for sexting. Now u r doing another mistake. Better to call of both id so that both persons can move forward. No need of preaching both and u can escape
Anonymous29 June 2026 at 3:06 pm
Friendship any marriage group here please suggest me some marriage group I m Looking female friend for marriage or long term any alone female here who wants to be comfortable with benefits secret friendship full privacy dedicated ping me...
Anonymous28 June 2026 at 5:34 am
Stay away nothing good will come out of this triangle between block them and let them do what they want to
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 8:56 pm
Instead of looking into other stuffs they are married let them cheat do what ever they want u please focus on yourself and mental health block them from every wer and if guy approaching deny him and block him Live your life and focus on your career at end only that il remain
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 7:46 pm
Keeda sirf dimag me ho ye jaruri nahi hai.
Anonymous27 June 2026 at 5:06 pm
Seems you have a lot of time to waste for these nasty things.. Don't you have other priorities in life instead of digging into their life and relationship.. True is the saying An Empty Mind is a Devil's Workshop 🙃🙃
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:41 pm
Do 3 some 😂😂😂😂
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Anonymous27 June 2026 at 4:22 pm
Fake story
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Anonymous28 June 2026 at 7:00 pm
Stfu and mind ur own business
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