29/ female doctor Not working correctly, preparing for pg exam,but somehow pregnant due to late ovulation cycle, approx 6 week pregnancy, my husband is very obsessed about me and my health,he can do anything for me , never spend single rupee on himself but if I get little health issue he spend all money on me ,he does everything for my happiness, problem is he never want child because I will get hurt during pregnancy time,he is happy because I'm happy for baby,he does everything what he can,but I don't like this we got married 1.5 year ago ,he is doing housework and job both now because I have weekness all time and I'm on bed , due to his so much effort I don't want to keep this baby sometimes but if I abord this don't know next pregnancy Will be easy for me or not. If any complication created I will never tolerate some one from family raise questions on him,in this 1.5 year I never did anything for him, I want to make him proud on me and do so much things for him, what should I do please suggest me,it's urgent
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baat yeh tumhe ghee raz nahi aaraha hai tum ghu khake hi manogi..
Hire house help n try to assist him. Do not think to abort, you will miss the beautiful phase of being in motherhood. Be happy
A happy woman is a myth.
Motherhood is an amazing journey not everyone gets this blessings because I do know family/friends who didnt have kids even after trying for long and some accepted the fate and some adopted kids. 1. Embrace your motherhood, feel happy you are getting support. 2. Everything your husband is doing for your happiness and his happiness. So you dont have to feel guilty. 3. Concentrate on your health, eat nutritional food, take rest if doctor has advised (let me give u an example of my cousin then u will know that u r in better state then what she was - my cousin (2nd pregnancy when she was nearing her 30s). was fine for the first 5 months of her pregnancy then suddenly her health detiroited, impacting baby immediately she was admitted to Ramaiah hospital (mathikere). she was in hospital everyday in pain. Everyday blood had to be transfused for her as she had severe bleeding, always on bed rest, all our family members would go to donate blood. So that the hospital can give exchange of blood that suits her. Once she completed 6 months and entered 7th month doctors performed c section, delivered the baby. The baby was in NICU (lot of complications for first 2 years) now he is so healthy and active. 4. If u think your husband is handling a lot of tasks then hire helper (who can wash vessels, sweeping house and mopping).
Great love, but you have to follow Nature(Qudrat) other wise
This is unnecessary thinking even when everything is fine.. Sister enjoy the journey of motherhood
If he is doing household chore then it’s ok na .. why always woman should do all housework??
Dotn abort... Carry and deliver the blessing od god.. Studied shall be persued any time... If baort future it may poaaible if you spent crore and crores. So many sould dont like that suffering now.... Hence, please god and heaven sake deliver the baby for everyones hapinees
And you are a doctor 😷
Doctor?
consult a psychiatrist first.
Seeing your thoughts and English, doesn't seems you are a Doctor at first.
Since you are home, work on your english skills, plz. The Lord knows we don't need another doctor whose prescriptions we cannot read!
Are u really doc ?? Questions seems like very immature
Nyaka naki?
Being a doctor you know that if you abort this baby it will be difficult for you to get pregnant again
Dentist?
God bestowed you such a blessing and you are thinking of aborting it. It's a sin. Fear Allah. Please Allah first then your husband. Think about so many couples who are struggling for a baby. Continue with your pregnancy. Act normal. No need for bedrest unless advised by doctor. If so hire a maid. You are lucky to have a caring and loving husband. The greatest gift you can give to your husband is fatherhood. He will be proud of this. Enjoy your pregnancy which is a gift from God.
Is it god blessings plz don't do you are lucky your husband is so caring and loving just trust on God everything will be good May God bless you both and upcoming baby
Dark fantasy
Blessings from God, Don't abbort
Doctor? Are you sure ? Which university? Just to be aware Let's come to the point , have you ever heard about made , house help , get a help Didi
Weekness?? Abord ?? Are you really a doctor??
To make your husband understand you better, first thing you should do is take a crash course in English.
Focus on your exam. Have the child. Get your family to help ur husband in taking care of it. Take maternity leave AFTER u clear PG if needed (It is allowed but be clear with College/Hospital regulations before applying). As for family, It can be your mother and sister and his mother (not sister) taking turns to visit and help with the Child if you're staying separately. Also, hire a Nanny, where the relative just needs to supervise them without themselves being burdened too much. Good marriages these days are very few. You deserve a child. But psychologically ur husband may need counseling because often if either/or parents see the baby as being hurtful to the mother instead of being a gift, they may become neglectful or hurtful or resentful ergo it not being good for the baby. This can get worse if and when mother suffers from Post-Partem. So - Counselling for Husband, Relatives + Nanny for the Baby, and a Whole Lot of Positivity and Good Wishes for you. All the Best! 😊
1st abortion may be your last pregnancy. Doctors don't advice. Convince your 1st child.
Aren't you a doctor? Will you be getting an abortion from some back alley quack that you will have complications later? Complications can come because of age later but if you are not mentally prepared to have a baby now, then this will also get complicated soon 🙆🤷 Motherhood is not for everyone, specially for someone who is so confused in life
Enjoy your motherhood sister and please stop overthinking
Enjoy pregnancy...it's a boon..
Well you are already carrying the thing he wants the most.
Overthinking issues , nothing else
Tune 1.5 month m hi bed pakad liye, weakness ho rhi upr se aaur proud feel krwana h ?? Bhaisaab 5 ,6 mahine tk to body kheech leti.. Bed p pde pde tu v lul ho jayegi and new born baby v lul.. Physical work kr ..wo khud proud feel kr lega
Are u bams? Is doctor ask this type of questions?hire a maid start teleconsulation on practo u will get some bucks for maid frm there
Trust me guys...this is an actual allopathy doctor.....doctors can type/speak like this and even believe "somehow pregnancy" happened....
anyone who doesn’t want kids should just hold one for sometime nd u will change ur decision so he will husband . child is most beautiful thing a couple can have . u being doctor should know that plus getting abord there are very good chances of getting permanent problems might have difficulties conceiving special not naturally
weekness ah apadina...nee doctor vera ithula sutham po...aparam enna abord :P nejama nee doctor ah...if u r doctor then u shud knw ur condition better and not polambify here right
doctor🤔 !!?? Am confused here.... Your thoughts your English 🤭... Stay put girl
Do not abort. You will feel the difference once the baby arrives
Are you a झोलाछाप Dr ?
Don't do abortion, it's one of the biggest sins.
you sure you are a doctor ?
Make him happy that is big big enough for him.. man always expected happiness from wife.. U r very lucky to have this kind of husband now days. Gbu
Don't Abort
Seeing your post I don't think you are a doctor. just fake post
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With the type of English you wrote, you’re definitely not a doctor and also seems you dont know anything about the pregnancy and delivery process. So stop faking and writing stupid posts