Gender: FemaleSubmitted on 7 June 2026 at 9:40 am
Hello, pls post this! F29, I had been into relationship with my ex bf, he promised that we will get married but his mother did not approve the marriage however she always knew about our relationship. Now he is happily married to another girl. During our relationship, I met his friend who became my friend too, he knew about us everything and we always been good friends. Now after years since I broke up with my ex, but his friend now interested to marry me, despite knowing everything about my past with his friend. My friend seems to be a genuine guy, but I am not able to think about him in certain way so that I can marry him, considering he knows everything about me. Somehow I am not comfortable with this fact, I always consider him as my good friend. Due to the betrayal of my ex, it’s hard for me to trust a man and I am not ready for marriage, neither with my friend nor anyone else. I am girl who is independent and doing everything absolutely fine with everything like taking care of family, finances, job, having business, secured my future and mostly will take financial retirement in few years, except the personal life which doesn’t make sense to me that I should get married. Please advise genuinely!
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Anonymous18 June 2026 at 3:52 am
Simpel anwesr is no bcoz he know everything about you and your ex so in future you have to face so many taunts and your past talk if you are independent just take your time heal yourself when you ready then take a desicion
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 11:26 am
If you are not comfortable, don't marry him. You need to heal first. Take care of yourself. Live your life.
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Anonymous18 June 2026 at 7:01 am
Just be an independent girl as why to face te consequences of family and others in India many women with children lives independent and live a happy life
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 10:15 am
First of heal fully. As you are financially set and independent give a life to a man of your choice and flaunt about it and spread the same to other women like you.. Best of luck 🤝
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Anonymous18 June 2026 at 3:51 am
Have some love making sessions with that friend of yours . Either you will end up marrying or end up enjoying 😭😭😭😂😂🤣🤣🤣😜😜😜
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 10:19 am
Not comfortable...Don't marry. As simple as that. Do not overthink and complicate.
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 2:31 pm
Marriage is not an achievement,so u can go for it
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 10:34 am
I would advise you to take some time and heal.. Enjoy your life.. the friend seems to be fishy, probability that his behaviour changes after marriage is very high.. Think well before taking any decision concerning the friend..
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 3:43 pm
It’s completely okay to feel this way. Trust takes time to rebuild after betrayal, and marriage should never be rushed or forced. If you only see him as a friend, don’t pressure yourself into changing that. You’re already independent, secure, and doing well — marriage is a choice, not a necessity. Focus on your peace and healing, and only consider marriage when your heart truly feels ready. 🌸
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 3:00 pm
Don't take decision wrongly. Bf cheated but his friend ready. Don't marry him but u will get a new good person. For that don't take decisof not to marry anyone
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 10:21 am
Since you are discussing here, means you are somewhat interested or want to explore. So try a fling, where does mariage come in; without commitment or go for a live in. In a year or two you will know enough to distance naturally, if it turns out otherwise it'll be a pleasant surprise to you
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Anonymous17 June 2026 at 9:24 pm
Be happy don't get married have good frind in life enjoy ur life
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 3:19 pm
एक समय के बाद लड़की और लड़का सोचते है, शादी कर लेनी चाहिए थी, मेरे भी आज बच्चे होते, ओरो कि तरह थोड़ा सुख थोड़ा दुख लगा रहता। हम भी सांसारिक जिम्मेदारी निभा जाते। जीवन मे सही समय कभी नही आता, कुछ ना कुछ लगा ही रहता है, सही जीवन साथी मिले तो निपट लेना चाहिए।
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 11:03 am
That's a good decision...... Please don't get married and ruin a man's life......
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 11:51 am
Why do girls always fall f boys?
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 10:07 am
It's up to you
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Anonymous17 June 2026 at 10:50 am
so u r going to marry someone and cheat him by hiding ur past...how comfortable u r to cheat someone chi...stay single or marry that frnd...dont spoil some other guy's life
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 10:09 am
U decided already then why U ask in public... The comments will confuse U.. so move forward with Ur decisions and enjoy the life as U like.. but be safe and secure.. good luck.
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Anonymous17 June 2026 at 10:10 am
Dont maryy the FRIend
Anonymous17 June 2026 at 10:05 am
your life , your choice ... why you asking to world ?
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Anonymous17 June 2026 at 10:30 am
Your ex-bf friend is looking for an opp. to bang you🤣
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