36 F holed up in the misty hills of Manali, running my little therapy nook counselling and empowering women into finding their truth. Sounds like a great life, until it doesn't? Self-love 100% but, I'm writing this because the quiet nights here, with the pine winds whispering regrets, have finally cracked me open. I was married to the love of my life. God, he was my anchor simple, steady, the kind of man who made chai just the way I liked it after a brutal corporate day, who held me through my quarter-life crisis without a single "I told you so." We had that rare, messy-beautiful thing in a city where love apps churn out flings. But then... anger crept in. Tiny things: his "traditional" expectations, the way he didn't "get" my evolving self. Was it real? Or just the poison drip from my woke girl gang? IDK. My squad—urban, fierce, screaming kindness stubbornness and independence maybe just sugarcoating vengeance!" from their high-rise high expectations balconies in Mumbai and Bangalore. They'd say over video calls, and therapy sessions between avocado toast bites. "Divorce him, claim your power, get the alimony—live your best life!" Groupthink, yaar. It felt like revolution. I initiated it. Lawyers, court dates, the works. I bled him dry—financially finished him. Unfair? Understatement. He begged, I blinded myself with the promise of quick cash and freedom. Immediate money glittering like those Manali sunsets. Now? I've built this life. Therapy sessions for women "breaking chains," innerwork retreats, my own blissfully vegan cafe. All of us like to believe we are kind, cruelty free. No complaints on paper—Instagram loves it. But inside? This gaping hole in my chest, like I've lost my atma. my one chance for true love, let go for what? there was no reason behind my rage, somewhere i think it was manufactured, we were manipulated. The content we consumed, consumed us and there's no going back. it allll outside forces, My "woke" friends scripting my liberation? I threw away my only real shot at love—for Echoes of empowerment that ring hollow sometimes, not all the time. It's not a bad life, better than most for sure. And here's the kicker: Am I doing the same to them? In my sessions, do I nudge hurting girls towards independence without whispering about wreckage or accountability? Indirectly passing on the curse? I hope not, .. it's a mountain I can't climb. Rohan, if you're out there, I'm sorry. I don't have the face to face you again in this life but if there's an afterlife Truly I want to be your wife again.
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Don’t romanticize regret as enlightenment.
Rohan on reading the afterlife part.....
Absolutely confused .. if she wants to write a story bad story writting skills too ..
Don't worry. Karma will definitely get you and him a loving partner who will be with him for life. You can heal however you want, but you will realise it when someone will break you.
To err is human..and to admit that error in open is half battle won.U r back on the right track but after a detour ofcourse.Celebrate!!! As for the clientele part; they r all accountable for the life choices they make.. Make sure u meet Mr. Rohan and admit ur mistake in his eyes even if that asks u to travel seven seas across.. Proper closure never runs out of style🧡🧡🧡🧡
you can become hollywood story writer :P
Accept your self without any judgement, in your journey of evolution, try to become self aware, understand your ego without any judgement . . Break up is a common issue in this kind of soul journey to learn a lesson, and then correct our own self. Their is a strong possibility of your spiritual soul awakening.
i think people need to realize the essence of what you have bravely told here.... losing the sense of identity and self awareness..... isnt it ironical that in the garb of being independent and self love; you are manipulated into not thinking for yourself and letting social media, friends and peers make decision for you.... this is the case in 90% of the women out there - feminism is blind drawn over the eyes to make you feel empowered and think you are in control while its just another propoganda to control you..... i really hope people learn a lesson from your story - not to compare, contrast and learn to be content - in the age of social media and constant K drama nonsense, sometimes the simplest form of love is just having tea together, in silence and in each other's presence
Really well written, i am sorry for your pain, but life is a discovery.
So rohan is better chai wala now , I feel sad for mooodijeeee
wonderfully written.
Omg don’t spew the venom in the name of your guru Gyan. No life is perfect, ups and downs make life and a family. Don’t further break homes for freedom.
The reasons she is missing him are because all the money that she has sucked out of him is now spent and she has none of it. The reason she wants to meet him after life and not in this life is because he will ask for money in this life and nobody knows what happens after life
Wowww! some woke woman in the company of other woke independent liberated women eventually repenting
>> But then... anger crept in. Tiny things: his "traditional" expectations, the way he didn't "get" my evolving self. Was it real? Or just the poison drip from my woke girl gang? IDK. >> Why were you talking about your husband to your 'woke girl gang'? If he was so loving and caring you two would have talked with each other and found a midway. If the relationship you and your husband had was so good, then no 'other' person would have been successful in poisoning it.
Please spare him. You have ruined him enough. Abort your plans of connecting with him. Face what you have done and move on.
And I hope & so does he, I am pretty sure, he must be praying that never in life or afterlife and even in next birth he may never come across you or anyone like your mindset. He can live with regret but how can you live with a guilt? He may have done mistakes so you must have done, that makes us human. But that doesn't mean anyone can destroy other person completely. You got hyped by the people whereas most of them must be still holding on to their partner while having arguement & disagreement over things. Sadly, you destroyed your life accompanied by your lover's life as well. Basically You dug your own grave. I hope the people who encouraged you to take such a life turning decision, do check up on you. I hope someday you have the spine and own up to him for ur mistakes. And if he accepts you then you are fortunate enough.
Address: R@*ND Retreat, Manali
This is written by a man who got dumped by a woman recently
Bravo for this honest confession!!
Now don’t cry over split milk. Try to build your life again slowly
Well you are independent now, what the big deal. Freedom comes with a cost. And loneliness is your cost.
Midnight GPT session?
Feminism in a nutshell
Empowerment...going to be a funny word soon.
I think a man wrote this. Feminists are never this honest. The post will resonate with them, but they will never accept it; they will take this truth to their graves And that is how the circle continues until human society collapses
Very well expressed . One of the best
Just because you miss your ex, doesn't mean it wasn't toxic. If he didn't accept you and let you evolve then there's somebody out there who definitely will. It's natural to miss love. The hole will be filled once you find another love. Hope you find it soon.
Seems like woke gang was jealous .
I have respect for rohna
This is karma. But you have suffered nothing compared to what you did to him
And why would Rohan would want to marry you even in next life 😅
It's your karma. But also that the matrix is actively trying to juice young women in the name of empowerment. It's a big scam where they are cheated out of a well loving and settled life in the name of feminist empowerment and independence and ego bolstering. In the end women are told being submissive and surrendering is slavery. But this is why they lose touch to their feminine. Why you shouldn't be blamed totally cause the system/soul sisters and such exploit your insecurities. Hence by the time you realise your mistakes, it's too late. Also atleast now stop counselling other women in the same game. I see so many women just pushing other women in such solitude.
Is it MoonChild Cafe Manali?
Chai to tapri par mil jayegi Ye batao sax sux k liye kya kar rhi?
You always do this and then come back... ai am tired of you
So basically you have ruined multiple homes by feeding the same s#it to other people who came to you for advice, Bravo!! now do one thing spare him and live with the consequences.
How people praise her for confessing like she has done some favour after crushing someone's trust, life, beliefs. I wish God would just destroy these type of people in every possible way but not death.
Karma Hit u badly one day
Fake feminism is a cultural cancer which is forced upon the woke and fake liberal gang in India through leftshits colleges. It may work in Western nations but our culture had every member in the family protected and cared for regardless of gender and age from birth till death. Slowly it is fading for the worse and is beyond redemption. What to do? Unfortunately all woke so called liberals wake up after self damage done in the name of fake liberation.
You should be put behind bars
BASICALLY U FEEL UR FEMINIST..u ditched a good man for money and built ur career out of it.. Now u feel guilty. u also run a business giving similar services in Simla .. U R NOT FIT TO BE A WIFE is all I can say. advice ur cients to be better wife / daughter and help them to patch and build families
Marr ja kutti ..😒
You have a gaping hole in your heard and pelvis
But Rohan will not even in his dreams! May karma pay you back with interest
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