I am a 35-year-old woman, and my husband is 40. He is a successful makeup artist, earns well, and always makes sure our family is happy and cared for. Our children live and study with their grandparents. Since the COVID period, I have noticed that sometimes my husband enjoys doing feminine makeovers on himself and wears my clothes at home. He has always treated me with love, respect, and care, and I do not personally have a problem with him wearing my dresses in private. However, as his wife, I sometimes wonder if this is simply a form of self-expression and comfort for him, or if there may be deeper feelings or interests that he has not shared with me yet. I want to approach this situation with understanding, maturity, and honesty rather than judgment. I would appreciate guidance on how to have an open and respectful conversation with him, so we can better understand each other while maintaining trust and emotional closeness in our marriage.
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Your husband’s behavior alone doesn’t automatically indicate a hidden sexuality or a problem. Many people explore clothing, makeup, or gender expression without wanting to change their identity or their relationship. The key is not to assume, but to have a calm, non-judgmental conversation. Ask him what it means to him, listen without fear, and focus on honesty rather than labels. Trust is built through openness, not assumptions. If your marriage is loving and respectful, this can become an opportunity for deeper understanding rather than a source of anxiety.
He is enjoying his bisexual side
Well my dance teacher is a male, and he enjoys dressing up and doing his own makeup as part of his profession. He has a nice family with a son of 26 years old.It’s something he takes pride in, and I see it as a positive expression of his identity and art. I don’t judge him—I believe we as a student and our family and friends never had a bad thought (I believe)everyone deserves respect for who they are."
Girl he is just testing it out as he can't test on others.. don't overthink enjoy your life
Don’t assume just ask with love and listen without judgment. Honest conversation will give you more clarity than worry.
Better to ask directly with your husband ...don't ask us😆😆😆
He enjoys feminine energy and must have a certain fetish. Talk to him, understand why he's doing it and if it's harmless, he's not obsessed with it then no need to panic. If he goes overboard then he needs treatment and therapy or acceptance that his sexual orientation is changing.
See it not completely the same as you are thinking, as you mentioned he Is a makeup artist. May be is exploring his art and his artistic skills. Like how does it feel to have makeup. But definitely talk to him but don’t conclude it before anything confirm.
He needs Psychiatric consult.. if he is doing it regularly then he really needs to go Dr .
Well he is a makeup artist so obviously he comes in contact with ladies again and again. So it is natural to get affected by feminine energy. We men since childhood are taught to be muscular and curb our feminine traits. Though men women both have both traits as muscular and feminine traits. Your husband just got a little freedom to explore both sides. And it is a healthy sign that he is not afraid to follow his heart. Hats off to you for giving him space. Sometimes if you can, if you are okay, make love to him as if you are doing it with a lady, means more polite and more sophisticated way. He will worship you ❤️
Women wear shirt trousers and jeans that initially was made for men only. We men don't judge them. Sometimes if a man wants to know how it feels in females clothes then we should consider it a normal human curiosity and nothing else
It's not normal! If you dnt ask,stop or talk about it in its initial state then later he may have different fantasies like cuckolding, liking man and also thinking of you with other mans.
Talk with him ask him frankly why he does those things .
Just make one candle light dinner with redwine be enjoy pravite moments with each other
You are wonderful. Seek therapy with him.
Get him into therapy asap
Arey unko Acting ka shauq hai ...aap bhi thoda help karo na! Do roleplays like You are the Zaalim Thakur and he is the Gaaon Ki Gareeb Ladki types
हो सकता है आपके पति एक्सपेरिमेंट करते हो कि इस तरीके के कपड़ों पर कौन सा मेकअप जाएगा शायद वह आपको बोल नहीं पाते होंगे क्योंकि आप बिजी रहती होगी
🤣tumhara pati gy bn rha h
It is good to identify personality traits or his orientation before you have the Open discussion with him..Just don't get into hot water..
Yes he's an artist U told So his judgement to wear is his part of business he does.. Nothing to worry darling sis...
Mam , this kind of activities it's may be going to leads to 3 sum.. sorry to say this Now is he almost changed to 9 activity...
Divorce ASAP, or cheat on him
Transgender hai. bacche bechare maa baap ke sath nahi rah rahe hai aur baap transgender batao
Don't worry, apke husband ka jo profession hai usme mardo k andar ki aurat jaag jaati hai, fashion makeup dance coach me mostly gay hote h
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