I am a 26-year-old man, and I moved to London two years ago for my higher studies. Before I moved, I really liked a girl who was also a close friend of mine. We used to talk a lot, and I genuinely wanted her to be part of my life. However, things gradually started to change, and we slowly lost touch. I never knew whether she felt the same way about me. Recently, we started talking again. I thought my feelings for her had faded over time, but I was wrong. I have started liking her again, and now I am not sure whether I should tell her how I feel. I am afraid that she might reject me and that, after telling her, our friendship may become awkward or we may stop talking altogether.
The best option is to tell her how you feel. Or, if you're that scared of rejection, casually tell her you had a crush on her two years ago. Based on how she responds, decide your next step.
Pl express your feeling ,if she rejects at least you will come to a decision.
Express your feelings for her in a light/casual way. Yes, she might reject you. But at least you’ll have clarity. Since you’re talking to her now, your feelings will only grow with time. How long will you pretend to be just a friend when you love her and want her to be part of your life? Holding it in will only hurt you more.
Express your feelings but without any expectations. Don't assume anything but mentally be ready if she doesn't have the same feelings..
You can't have two things simultaneously go express your feelings and be strong to hear whatever the ans is if she says yes congrats if no then be a man and move on its better to get rejected than being guilty
Well do introspect the London air
You need an Agony Aunt. This is neither a Corporate Story nor Confession . Stop wasting our valuable time. 😤
क्या सामने वाला भी वैसा महसूस करता है , जैसा हम करते हैं? यह एक दिन चिंता का रूप लेगा और चिंता चिता के समान होती है वत्स ! बेहतर यही रहेगा कि मौका निकाल के साफ साफ बोलदो। हां किया तो खुश रहोगे ना किया तो खुश रहोगे
So wht do you want, if you can't even express your thoughts even after londonomics....keep wasting her time & spare us atleast....
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