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I am a mom of 2 kids working in a corporate and staying in my mothers home. My husband works in the office 3 to 4 days a week and comes here. I have a good understanding with my husband. But sometimes I feel he is not honest with me. He deletes his call log and WhatsApp messages before he comes home. I haven't confronted him about this yet. But somewhere in my heart it says he is not doing anything wrong. He thinks just speaking to his old colleague is not right and if I ask him why did you speak with them for so long and why it's needed, it might offend him and because of that he deletes those logs. Also he doesn't say anything from his heart. After 6 yrs of marriage the communication between us is not at all there. It's all about children's sometimes and about work or something else. If I speak to him emotionally or what bothers me, he doesn't seems to care at all and makes fun. So I stopped telling him anything. Also he is on his phone most or all of the time. If he spends 15mins with children even on the weekend is itself a big thing. I know he is shutting himself in a boundary and doesn't want to speak apart from that. It makes me emotionally weak sometimes. I don't know how to handle it or am I overthinking. Are all men just addicted to the phone and taking it everywhere they go and every time?