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My name is Sima, and I belong to North East Tripura. My love story started in 2013 through Facebook. He was my first love, while I was not his first. For the first two years, our relationship was very good and smooth. Then, in 2015, he suddenly stopped calling me regularly. Sometimes he would call after two or three days, and sometimes even after a week. I started feeling that something was wrong. Whenever I tried to fix the relationship, it would only end in arguments. I couldn't understand what the real problem was. One morning, I received a call from a girl. She asked me, "Who are you to him?" I asked her who she was. She replied, "I am his girlfriend, and right now we are in the same room. If you want, you can even hear his voice." At that moment, I went completely blank. I couldn't even speak. I didn't know what to do or how to react. I felt like my world had collapsed. My best friend, Aparna, was a very funny person. I went to college with her, laughed at her jokes, and tried to stay happy, but I still couldn't forget him. Every night, I cried alone and prayed that he would come back. After one year, he actually came back. He apologized, cried, and kept trying to convince me for about a week. Eventually, I forgave him, and I became happy again. However, even though I forgave him, I always had doubts in my heart because he had already cheated on me once. Then, the same thing happened again. He cheated on me with another girl. Every time he came back, I forgave him. Even today, I don't know why I kept forgiving him. This happened seven times. After that, I stopped accepting him and decided to focus on my career. By then, the pain of the breakup had almost disappeared because I had already gone through the same betrayal so many times. For two years, we had no contact. During that time, I got a job and focused on my life. Then, unexpectedly, he came back again, and things moved so quickly that we ended up getting married before I even realized it. Three months after our marriage, he received two job offers, and now he is working in a government job. My in-laws consider me lucky, and many people say the same because he got those opportunities soon after our marriage. After that, we started living happily, but eventually we entered a long-distance marriage because our postings were in different places. Then his old habit returned—he started cheating again. Even after marriage, I caught him cheating three more times. Sometimes I wonder if I am an educated person or just a fool. How can I love and forgive the same person so many times? I even fell into depression, and during that entire year, he didn't even come to see me once. Now I don't know what to do. Please suggest what I should do.