I'm 31M. When I was working in IT, I was married to a girl in end of the 2023. she was also working in IT. I gave her all the freedom as she is left her family and staying with me after marriage. After marriage, she is started fighting with me by telling that I have an affairs with other girl. I kept myself calm and tried to make her understand that I don't have any affairs or any other girl in contact. Everyday she used to fight with me for silly silly reasons. In between 3 months time from the date of marriage she told that she want to do masters in abroad many times. I also thought that it's her dream and said Ok. In April 2026, I got to know that she's lover is in foreign, so she also wants to go to his place, doing masters is a reason. Starting of 2025, I lost my job, she keep on pressuring me to her money for her expenses. In these days I didn't even ask single rupee from her salary. I said, now you have a job, for sometime please take care of household expenses. She didn't agreed for this and had a big fight with me and left my home and settled in her father home. Me and my family went and tried to convince and bring her back to our home many times, but she rejected to come and said she want a divorce and she will go abroad. She filed a case against me and my family that we did a harrassament and we asked her dowry. I even didn't asked her single rupee. As we are well respected family, we thought to discuss and settle. This settlement involved MLA's and other elder people's. She and her family demanded 40-50L to take back this case and agree for mutual divorce. We gave the money as we don't want to loose our respect. ~☹️Man
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There are other ways of taking revenge other than killing some one. you have to think about that. Don't let her go like that You must punish her in other ways and you can set an example to girls like this.
Very sad
Another victim case single boys stay away frm IT girls they always moron bawa bno
Women have started misusing the laws and the best friend for today's generation is to stay unmarried.....
Why did you give money? It would have stopped her only from divorce and getting hooked by her lover. If you did nothing wrong, you would have won though I agree it would have taken some time
Very sad.
I don't understand how Indian judiciary works ? Can a woman just say any accusations without evidence and the court believes her ? Is that a neutral justice ??? R we living in stone age ??? Pls don't get married and destroy ur peace.
Bro my judge was good... He seen through the fake faces of my wife family.. At last we settled for 8 lakhs a settlement... Judge seen the greediness of my wife family.... Karma never leaves... Now her father is struggling due to illness and she is not able to get married..
this is the worst thing in mens life
Another reason not to get married
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Many bloodly prostitutes have started this extortion of money from husband. Before marriage they have multiple body count. Present day you need to hire detective before marriage
Unfortunately, the Indian judiciary system of full of innocent men like you falsely accused for dowry and domestic violence. Women like her are all around us, this is why the institution of marriage is dying in India and false divorce case rate is at all time high
why did u even give money if nothing is wrong from ur end...dont say family name/respect bla bla...u shud have fought if there is no real mistake from ur end and also u shud have proved she has affair with her bf after marriage u failed to do it
What a bumper offer to your wife...she happily goes abroad with that money and stay with her lover. The path was laid by you...ashamed of yourself
Some women are so evil minded that god has to drain their evil blood once in every month