Gender: MaleSubmitted on 7 September 2026 at 9:14 am
My girlfriend admitted she only wanted me for money and physical needs
Male 30 - My girlfriend and I were in love. She is already divorced, and I knew about her divorce before we started the relationship. We both work in IT in Bangalore, so we took a room together and stayed there. On weekends, she would either go out with her friends or visit her hometown. We were very close and had a physical relationship around three times a week. But while she was in a relationship with me, she once told me she was going on a trip with her friends. Later, I found out that she had actually gone on a trip with some of her male coworkers and social media friends. It felt more like a paid date to me. I confronted her and we had a big argument. She then told me that she never really loved me and that she was only with me for physical needs and money. She said that if I was not okay with it, we could break up. The problem is that I genuinely loved her and was planning to marry her. Now I am completely confused and do not know what to do.
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Neelima19 September 2026 at 1:25 pm
Brother..God saved you from future complications!! What all this had happened after marriage? Would have had a solution for that? Move on from her and build new life.. Start a new hobby or learn a new skill to keep yourself busy. You are in Bangalore it’s a metro city you have enough opportunities to learn and keep yourself occupied
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Anonymous19 September 2026 at 2:00 pm
Since you genuinely loved her, learning the truth shattered you. What you went through is deeply painful. But look at the bright side—you didn't end up marrying her. Finding out after marriage would have completely ruined your life. Healing will take time. But make up your mind right now: no matter what, even if she comes back begging, you must not allow her into your life again.
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Anonymous19 September 2026 at 1:33 pm
When that girl already told u she doesnt love u n wen u already know the answer Y do u still want to marry her? Such people can never belong to just one person It hurts a little at first but u will have to move on
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Anonymous19 September 2026 at 2:38 pm
Your feelings will go away when your body understands she doesn't love you back
Anonymous19 September 2026 at 3:05 pm
Its a terrible time and feeling for you .. i think the best solution would be to completely delete her in your life… its not easy but u would be able to do it
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