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My husband eloped with another woman but refuses to return my jewels

Hey all, I am the confessor who posted about husband extra marital affair with another person wife who is married have 2 kids in teens... and I had mixed feedbacks..I appreciate all and especially like don't expect recognition from online strangers if you already decided what to do , and other saying even if u expect mediation do it meticulously without overdoing or underestimating.. thanks..it helps.. And one brother commented what's the use of marraige without kids?y u r posting and taking it to the world about extramarital affair when u could not give him kids...if u don't like it u would have taken a mutual discussion and settled..Bro just jy points for ppl who have same thought process as you.. Like if I could not bear kids what's the use of this relationship- y the lady who is married fine and have 2 sons in teens engaged with my so called husband then ?? ( kids r excuses ). And yes I too tried to take it with him via talks He want me to continue working and live with dignity and he will spare me my jewels only if I handover the shared property to his name that too will take time as he already pledged my jewels for financial circumstances. And later he added he will document a property in my name after setting all his financial hassles ( 4 to 5 yrs) appreciating my love. And standard reason for this is while he was busy taking care of another man family, he engaged himself in financial hassle expecting good returns bcs he want to live an so called elite life n society ( party , trips , vacations etc) .. so if a person has guts to do all this shit and lady of my age has guts to engage in illegal affair along wifg her family support and bear kid of another woman's husband , and if my so called MIL at late 50s has guts to glorify this act and called it as manliness?? And additionally even after all this ..he still has audacity to bribe every official process telling I have political , goons and higher officials support(As if they don't have no good job to do ) I am left with no option of legal battle bro... And after this battle for good time now I know the real truth of court and legal and just done with it..As I already told that I have good ways of revealing all truth in public and I can reach his office if I have to atleast disturb his day to day life ..but I choose not to..bcs he s already living his life..and there is one more side that woman has eloped with my so called husband.. and her husband s also having his side to deal with... the more am putting myself into am getting to know things which was very normalized in so called elite society that he claims to belong ...but it's more than horrifying to hear and digest..so my point s simple...this affair s called love..love betwn 2 whilo have been affected deeply by rheir partners...so i just left..and am saying to him...u don't need to settle , pay alimony etc bhai shab..stop using my clothes , vessels etc to my money and jewels , and if a woman s that much ugly, impotent , just useless so u chosed other women y u r holding hostage of her things ...n this scenario he should be the big person and very well right ?? Bcs he got pure love and child out of it ??then shouldn't he settle more than I am entitled to ... but He still sings same song **am begging am begging ** with earning of lakhs per month? I seriously don't know if doing all the mess still he feel taht as an honor as fanilies and how come I am revealing this out will suddenly be a activity that brings his dignity down??? Y should I bear his financial struggles should his lovely wife now should shoulder him ? Y she still calls herself as friend wife when she is already married to him? So am waiting for him to be the big person to throw what's mine and get rid of me once for good and I will take my leave...and a women give her all before she comes physically out a situation , and there s something called society I deal with daily which glories this extramarital affairs and push the one who stand still to corner by calling her names.. It's still costing me bro... While other hand he s enjoying bday parties n 5 star hotels, getting properties registered and living lavish... We are not asking for justice here ..it's just the roller coaster emotions we just vent to breathe out... Bearing child is not like stamping ur feminine or masculine aura...I again say **my so called husband s big shot multimillionaire dhan...adan avara yen chapter ku end card poda solren***