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Why I immediately reject certain women in arranged marriage setups

I am a 27M, earn 35+ LPA, and live in Delhi-NCR. Navigating through AM has made me much better at handling and judging female interactions. Here are a few things that, in my experience, can help you figure out early on whether a match is likely to work or not: 1. No effort to initiate conversations from her side. 2. She keeps making excuses about being busy whenever you suggest a call or a meet-up. 3. Being overly religious or politically extreme. 4. Being excessively into astrology. 5. Not wanting to work after marriage. This one always cracks me up. It’s 2026; nobody wants a freeloader wife or a house help anymore. If you want freedom and equality, you should also be willing to work for it. I cook my own food and clean my flat anyway. 6. Insisting that the guy should already own his own flat. Like, bruh, you earn 6 LPA. Do you even know how many zeroes there are in ₹1.5 crore? My parents’ net worth is upwards of ₹15 crore, but I don’t mention that because I haven’t achieved that net worth myself, and I don’t want someone to marry me simply for the money. 7. Getting offended when you ask how much she earns. If I have already told you my in-hand salary, why should it be a problem if I ask about yours? 8. Having too many male friends and saying, “I just don’t get along with other girls.” Bro, seriously? 9. Wearing revealing clothes and calling it feminism. I have no problem with women wearing Western or casual outfits, but if you’re constantly showing half your a** and b**bs, then yeah, I’m out. 10. Clubbing and partying every weekend. Yeah, we all know where this is going. 11. Not involving her parents even after two weeks of talking. At least let your parents know about me. It gives me some assurance that you’re serious and not just playing around. 12. Taking more than a day to reply to a message. Yeah, girl, you’re basically the PM of India. You must be incredibly busy. After going through enough AM matches, I now just breeze through them. You can call it ego, self-respect, or whatever you want, but my peace of mind has improved drastically. All the best to my brothers out there. Don’t lower your standards. And to the guys out there: these are some of the behaviours I personally prefer to stay away from—someone who doesn’t want to work, doesn’t want to put in effort, has a high b*dy count, regularly goes clubbing with male friends, and then complains about relationship issues. Hopefully, every one of you finds a genuinely compatible partner.