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You married a wife or a maid?

Does she have job and UK or USA shift timings? Are your mom and bhabhi housewives? How much chores you, bro or father do in house? If you 3 male members, don't do any chores but only bring money, why do you expect your wife to earn as well as do chores?

Married in November 2025.. so it’s not even a year since marriage.You need to give some time..atleast a year after marriage.Also you haven’t mentioned whether your wife is working or not. Give her time to adjust to your family ( since you said it’s a joint family).Tell your mother and bhabhi to be sweet with her instead of complaining(complaining will ruin your marriage in the long run as it creates a lot of trauma for a new bride) Tell the ladies of your house to involve in daily talks and give some small work while talking to her casually. this will make her feel part of the family and she will take up the household chores on her own.Meanwhile you help your mother and bhabhi.

Don’t make this about serving your mother and bhabhi. Sit with your wife privately and calmly discuss shared responsibilities, cleanliness, and expectations. Agree on a fair division of chores rather than simply telling her to help your family. If you still can’t resolve it, try couples counselling.

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Don't discuss directly, tell her she is capable of being efficient & hard working, has so much potential, she is underestimated....this version cannot change But side by side, discuss this with all elders including her f-i-l & m-i-l, & s-i-l / b-i-l; and ask yr bhabhi to counsel her, train her, mentor her gradually, no hurry, lazily exactly like wht she is And ask everyone in yr house to act lazy in front of her, soon she will get fed up with laziness, and would want to excel all the poor souls around her

most girls of today r like this. My mother used to get up at 5 am do cleaning of house and then take bath and then go to kitchen but now girls r sleeping till 10

Divorce.