Comments for Post #C27962

Do you go to a mall and just pay Rs. 1000 and leave without taking anything? A business deal has equal terms on both sides and so is arranged marriage unfortunately. U are expecting too much 😂

If you have generational wealth, then yes. But mostly the first question they ask when you go to thier house is, Kitna kamate ho

no bro romance is privalage of rich. Why to get married remain single enjoy life

only if, your gf sees potential in you. or she is too young to see the real you. but parents, they would not approve unless you have a surety to get huge inheritance benefits.

😅I think point in arranged marriages is that you have to be rich. Doesn't matter whether you are employed or unemployed.

Yes, it’s possible. Being temporarily unemployed doesn’t make a man unworthy of marriage. Families may look at his career history, skills, financial responsibility, and future plan more than just his current job status. If he is genuinely working toward a stable career and communicates honestly, the right family can understand. ❤️

If he was once employed and he lost job in the mid of arrange marriage discussion it is up to men and women to have a decision because he is not going to stay jobless and she also cannot decide based on job. But if job is important nothing else she can pause the process in same way he too can stop the process in future if he find flaw. SO MARRIAGE IS MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING AND LONG TERM DECISION MAKING SO THINK WISELY

Yes, you can absolutely get married, but in an arranged marriage setup, the family's concerns about financial stability are understandable. Being between jobs is very different from being unwilling to work. If you have a good work history, relevant skills, savings, a realistic career plan and is actively interviewing, that should be communicated honestly to the prospective family. Your previous experience and future potential matter more than simply having a job on the exact day the proposal is discussed. At the same time, nobody should be pressured to say yes purely because you "used to have a good job." Marriage involves financial responsibilities, so the woman and her family are entitled to ask about employment, income, savings, debts and career plans. The best approach is transparency. Don't hide the unemployment, but don't define the person by it either. If both people are comfortable with the current situation and have a realistic plan for the future, employment status alone shouldn't decide the marriage. And if you're is actively looking for a job, this may simply be a temporary phase, not a reflection of your worth as a potential husband.

Since marriage has nothing to do with spiritual dimension and plainly its a transactional deal so it cost money - a center of materialism ! Nobody care whether you have job or not, right question is whether you have money or not ?

No ,You should stay single and try to work and enjoy alone.

Why would anyone want an unemployed man? Get yourself a job then think about a partner.

Do you have any inheritance? Will your parents give dowry? Will they spend on lavish wedding? What else you are bringing to table? Beauty? Virginity? Monogamy? Are you expert in sex? That too ONLY when she asks for it? Will you do all the chores+child rearing single handedly(you will have to handle newborn on your own, she will only provide breast milk)? Are you ready to stay with her parents and follow her mother's/father's instructions to the t? Will you be their caretaker when they get old and sick? Will you leave your job and follow her around the world for her career? Etc

What will you do by marrying? How will you take care of your family you idiot.