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My childhood friend wants us to marry if her husband divorces her

It all Started from the day we joined Computer Course between 2013 to 2014. Moreover she is my Childhood friend and she has initially said me I am the only friend for her in computer course. She is from Accounts and I am from Computer science background. When we were doing course i was about to complete my engineering and she was also about to complete her B.COM. It's just been an year over there later she came in car with her friend for my School friend reception and that's her college friend as well however we couldn't go to reception due to traffic. One fine day , we met in mall with her friend one girl one guy - her friend said she is committed hence I couldn't propose it's before 2016. By 2017, she came with an engagement news and marriage news. I have went for her engagement however due to different caste and parents health issue she couldn't marry the one she loved for 8 years. She is such a nice person by heart and she tried her best, the guy whom she loved accepted and moved on.. I have went for her engagement her husband seems to be very soft innocent so i thought everything will go well in her life. She doesn't invite me for her marriage and I felt there is some issues. Later on 2024 after 7 years of her marriage, i have called her for Golu function at my home. She expressed few things.. her marriage was about to stop just because she was adopted girl to her parents her parents fall down on his parents legs made the marriage successful on 2017. However, the Guy whom she married doesn't have drinking and smoking habits however he used to take one girl on bike often sends money get everything for that girl who was a friend at office .Moreover this guy after marriage treated his wife like a slave and put many loans used her money for EMI. His entire salary and her salary goes on EMI no savings at all. He used to ask her to clean the room and wash vessels at 2 am as well. One fine day when he travelled along with her parents, her father has health issue so she took luggage. He slapped her and moreover he doesn't allow in saying Good night to her parents also. Even if her father went outside only mother stays at her house. He doesn't allow to stay with her mother considering her health. He doesn't allow any of her friends to talk or enter the home. Moreover he stays on Wife parents home Up and her parents were down after his mother passed away. Now when I hear all the things and after seeing my Character she started liking me. I have said her I like her but couldn't propose as she was committed. Everyday while going office she used to call me and while leaving office she used to call me. She doesn't have boldness to divorce him and she has one daughter who is studying 1st standard. But she said she is praying God he himself give divorce so I can marry you. Things been known to her parents and my parents. My parents said if legally done we can proceed if my son not married. Even her parents doesn't need any issue if her husband leaves they can proceed. He doesn't even teach her daughter. Even doesn't pay school fees as well. Whenever I go temple i pray for her. Always i see her safety to make sure she reach office safely and also make sure she reach home back safely. Even I have said her not to attend multiple calls while driving. I have insisted her not to work in laptop while charging and even not to use mobile while Charging. I usually say everyone but I feel too much for her and she is my only close friend. I asked her to share location as well to ensure her safety. If she is with me, I never leave her alone always be with her. I feel good bonding and i used to keep 1 rupee for God when someone is sick either her or her parents or her daughter . Whenever I go temple i pray for her. When there is a birthday or anniversary for her or her parents i wish @12 am. I have even been on line with her 18 hours without talking ensuring her safety. Always i be true over caring and over affectionate for the one whom I love. Whatever she likes i get her even my most times she returns me. One day her daughter was sick i immediately helped her . One day she was coming back with her friends from reception but she don't have money her husband doesn't pay some fights immediately i helped her. One day her daughter likes something she doesn't have money as her salary amount is done, i felt her daughter should not feel i helped her. She returned me back too. Seems my affection is more on her and even she has due to marriage status she couldn't. Her husband takes girls on bike but she has never taken any guys on bike . Her husband doesn't like any of her friends to come home but he takes his girl or boy friends to home. Moreover it's her parents home. Her Character is sweet though and she can't change him sometimes he shout for small things. I bought bike and Car after she has insisted my life changed as well. We have never went anywhere except recent movie and small shoping. I knew I lover her a lot and I also know she loves me a lot. It's really unfortunate I said her when her marriage was about to stop for adopted issue, she could have called me i would have married to her as same caste. Her lover was different caste hence her parents doesn't accept but recently when i express everything to her parents they said if it's known earlier i could have married you to her. Every single day we talks and moreover i miss her a lot too much. People say there are many girls beautiful. According to me beauty lies in her Character that made me to fall for her. If she is my wife i will take care like a Queen even any Girl who is been part of my life as a Wife. That's why she fall for me as well. She likes me a lot and more interested to marry. She also wants her husband to marry someone which will be good enough, even his friend one girl whom he takes was unmarried. Moreover our friendship was like 12 Years. Please suggest , we both are praying God and however she said if I get any good proposal marry , I said ok as well.