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I bought a house with her lucky number but she left me

#FirstLoveProposal #32M I have a wish to do arrange marriage initially even I like to do love marriage after hearing many break up stories. However , a girl from my company been impressed with my Character. It all started by seeing my name in awards and she is opposite team from coimbatore and I am from Chennai. She started sharing all her personal things and about her work team mates everything. We started knowing each other from October 2022 and November 2022 we exchanged the contacts . Later by December 2022, her father passed away as he was hospitalized for many years . I have tried to encourage her , she started loving me more and said she would like to marry me . However she likes to see me in Video call. Initially I doesn't do however after my mom said ok I have been on Video call. She started loving me a lot and everyday video call started . Her sister marriage been fixed on January 2023 and she shared all progress also asked me to ask her mother after her sister been married. One fine day , after her sister marriage she got to know her sister is pregnant . Soz she travelled with her mother from coimbatore to Chennai. By that time, her mother has got heart attack passed away before getting into a train in steps. She doesn't inform me instead she informed her team and her manager in Coimbatore everyone rushed . Her sister and everyone left after everything, later one guy stayed and dropped her. She started getting close to him before she used to say I never go in anyone's bike except me. This thing she hided me and said he is one of my friend . After her mom passed away she started getting close to him. I see some gaps . I like her because we both have same thoughts and Mutual understanding respect elders. One fine day, she has shared her matrimony profile and she asked me to inform my parents approach her mother sister who is taking care of alliance. However when my parents talked they said we are looking for telugu brahmin not tamil brahmin. Later she said me that, I ll reject everyone marry to me. Meanwhile I have talked to her sister, she said her family not agreed due to language. Knowing everything only she fall in love with me ,even she has asked me to check astrology everything was good. Even she said her parents accept brahmin even different language. She has even said after parents passed away whether my parents agree. I was stable but she was not stable. She doesn't convince her relatives at the end after saying her sister on July 2023 on August 2023 she said u ll get good partner compared to me. Moreover she said I have not shared my photo to anyone so whoever guys visit I will reject them so my relatives accept this has not happened. This is why, I hate love marriage. She is saying I have been known recently can't leave relatives. I have never said to leave relatives try to convince or my parents convince. I bought house on her lucky number whatever she asked i done too. But finally she left me ! That's why I asked her we both are same caste brahmin and we are from different location even different language even she knows tamil. Asked her whether it works. She said her Grandmother is tamil brahmin and her grandfather is telugu brahmin. At the end her grand mother itself doesn't agree stating tamil telugu. During her tough time when there was an issue she was on notice I search her different projects but that lead to HR escalation gave me a warning verbally we should not get other projects when she is in a project but she said she has politics In her team that made her to resign. She was not in bench she was on different project why u r getting her other project. I sacrifice everything for her. I have said HR and her manager she lost her parents it's a small help as she need job with different projects I helped we should be having some curtosy. Even she left company i search and share all jobs.. At last she got married to someone on Jan 2024. She doesn't understand and I respect anyways. This is why I hate love marriage. I am pretty happy if girls Agree to marry instead of being like this not convince even it's same caste. For me even girl is different caste my parents agree but Girls should be bold . All i request is girls to be bold if they are on love and if guys are really worthy please marry them. But she forget everything it's been 2 years doesn't think about my sacrifice as well.