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That dot is a signal to ask whether they can talk. Whether you are around. Maje le rahi hai tumhari.

I think you are in a toxic and suspicious relationship...once a dot can be a mistake but not every single time...

U can be ignorant. But not this much! I feel pity for u! A Snake doesnt have to bite to show or prove its power, but atleast it should hiss.. so that, others wont think its just a big Worm and treat it like one.

Why she doesn't block him if he is bothering her with continuous messaging. And how he got her new number? Definitely she gave him.

That's a code language between these two partners.. It's you to decide what to do with it.. it's not really worth it to stick with a cheating partner. She obviously deletes all the messages after the chat. You, being a husband should know better especially in bed. If you guys are good at bed then it may not be serious but if you know that you are not good at it then she finds something better

Hire a detective, get proofs. U will.know the truth

It is a code texting maybe but this is definitely cheating

That dot can be a signal to know if u are around and whether they can chat or not

Not sure why she is talking with somone whom you are not uncomfortable.. dot message clearly shows that to check she is alone .. free to talk witn him .. .. get his no .. call him or messsgr him and say that I don’t feel comfortable talking to my wife

Obviously she is cheating..and having the best of both of the men in her life With u.she gets stability and a place to come back to if things go south.. And with him..the adrenaline rush..and the excitement. Just walk out bro..and save urself

. Is nothing it is a code word between them

Red flag for u. She doing whatever she wants and waiting for you to escalate and finally brake with you citing the reason you were toxic, doubt her dignity, etc. Be smart enough to do the check mate from your side

At the end of the day its all upto to the trust between you. As a third person, I can give you supporting sentences for both supporting your wife and even against you. If you trust her, leave it. Otherwise drag it and get divorce. Period.

Its some code..and they are in affair

It can be code word to come online , call him or smthing like tht so no1 can suspect even if anyone sees it..

It must have been a genuine friendship in beginning but it has become either flirty one or more than that. Hire a PI they will give you the evidence in case you need . Trust your intuition … Everyone deserves clarity. If her friendship with that guy is causing you mental stress then you need to convey her that she be transparent with her texts and chats with him.

Apki wife ka whatsapp ap hack kar lo or sare Msgs u can check if there is smthing between them u can take another step

Donot worry. Aap bekaar shak ker rahe hai koi kisi se baat kare to isme koi burai nhi. Itna possessive ho ker aap uska trust kho denge. Voh apni happiness us person me khojegi. Wife hone ka matlab yeh nhi ki aap uski privacy khatam ker de. Life me kitne hi logo se baat hoti hai per unse love thodi hota hai.

If you have any kids, get a paternity test done.

jaldi se property side kar, aur belt nikal.

Bro you know the answer , thats a code word kind of thing school kids uses to get a green signal for talking and all , she is cheating on you , no doubt in that .

Try sending $ this symbol from her phone to his.

Toxic ho tum bhai 😂!! Sadi kyu ki jab trust hi nhi..

No need to worry until your wife asks you to bring her a blue drum or she makes a plan for a picnic at a hill station.

Can't you realise the dot is just a code. Leave her and move on. She is surely cheating on you

Just prepare to save your assets, in secret. It won't be long.

What’s the problem if she’s talking to someone? Can’t they just be friends? Maybe because of your suspicious nature, she is using dot as a code. Without solid proof, don’t ruin your peace by overthinking. Don’t spoil your married life for doubts that aren’t confirmed.

Get these and more proofs and evidences. And file it.

You are a genius man.. Keep going back again and again with her

It means is it safe or even if they caught. They would say by mistake I have sent. Cause I do the same 😜

Hmm it's a dotted situation, before it becomes a ribbed situation, please take care..Aaj kal kuch bhi, kabhi bhi, Kisike sath bhi ho sakta hai

Message to a new number means, it was given by the person who have the new number, now proof needed

That dot is a cheat code to check whether you are around her, whether she is free to talk so that if you caught his text you can't do anything because it is just a dot and your wife is saying same to you that it is just a dot

She is not cheating. Just teasing.

Down load chat history and keep it as evidence u will require it in near future. If she is really liking u and wants to continue the marriage she should delete his number and stop talking to her. She should not do anything that brings suspicious things in her husband mind. If she is refusing move on brother u have entered hell.

She's an item it seems

Even if you were not in any relationships before marriage to understand these signals, such patterns should be a wake-up call for you.

you went to her place to confirm?? Does not she reside with you ? if no, why bothering her in continuing sth that will stir up the hornet nest?

Both are bluffing you

He might just be a friend to her, sort of an emotional affair. But if he was just a friend then she wouldn't hide it from you. It might be an emotional affair with him.

Clearly your wife is cheating on you. Cheating doesn't always need to be sleeping with someone. Allowing someone to invade your space knowing that her partner is not comfortable with it is itself another form of cheating. Sharing her new number, using code signals ,even after knowing that you won't like it clearly shows she is allowing the person to cross the line. You went abroad to meet her still instead of being with you, she is blaming you. I am sorry to say but you are already replaced.

She wants some timepass that's it. That otherside man also wants some timepass Both are blind. Y does she need to chat when husband is there? Please don't doubt yourself. You are 100% correct. They are having a emotional affair. She will not change. Divorce her.

Dot is just a way of asking....free now

Abay fielding set hai teri nikal ja wrna trekking ka plan bana rahi hogi biwi teri

. - I Miss You

I don’t think you are necessarily overthinking, but I also don’t think the available facts prove that your wife is having an affair. The repeated “.” messages, the fact that this person is not from her immediate team, and her apparent discomfort when you tried to look at the conversation would naturally make a spouse curious or uncomfortable. At the same time, WhatsApp online status is not reliable evidence that two people are communicating with each other, and a single dot by itself could have many innocent explanations. The bigger issue here seems to be trust and boundaries, rather than the dot. Secretly monitoring his online status, saving his number to track activity, and grabbing your wife's phone will only increase suspicion and resentment. Likewise, dismissing your concerns without having a calm and transparent conversation isn't going to resolve the underlying insecurity. Instead of trying to prove whether something is happening, have one honest conversation when both of you are calm. Explain that it isn't about controlling whom she talks to, you are uncomfortable because the communication feels unexplained and unusual to you. Ask her directly what this friendship means to her and agree together on boundaries that both of you would consider respectful within a marriage. Don't accuse her of cheating without evidence, but don't ignore your discomfort either. Trust doesn't mean blindly believing everything, and suspicion doesn't mean assuming the worst. A healthy marriage needs honest communication, mutual transparency and boundaries from both partners.

The curious case of a single dot.

This is a very old trick in the book, girls who want to hide stuff do it. I had a friend whose extramarital partner would ping her with grocery items name like salt, sugar, vegetable names etc. and if her husband around she would reply with a ? Then he would reply back with oh sorry wrongly messaged you. Because it was their understanding or code. If no one around then she would call him. So.... Here it's a dot doing the job! You are 38, please don't get fooled like this c'mon!

The moment they blame you, they actually messing with you. She will get into your head and make it all about you. Yes, she is cheating on you and for long and just keeping you for the fun of seeing your helpless, heartbroken, jealous, lonely. She is a sadist and a worldclass mind gamer. Leave her for your own sake and sanity or destruction is gonna follow

If government can have a double engine sarker than why can't see have a double engine partners!🤣

dot is code language

Kat gya bhai apka

She is sleeping with him charitrahina Nari

You are thinking in a right decision they are trying to make fool of you , especially your wife . Report it to police and ask their guidance

It means dotted this time and not ribbed

Dot signals, are you free to talk ??

Some random guy is not here for friendship

Your wife is cheating on you....this is the reason pls don't mind.....

Dot नहीं है वो फुल स्टॉप है, और वो दोनों तेरी लाइफ़ का लगा देंगे, भाग जा

Sending just a dot is such a teenager thing 😂 From personal experience, it’s usually when you’re obsessed with someone and use a “.” to initiate a conversation, or when you’re desperately waiting for a reply to something you already sent. In your case, the guy does seem immature and possibly a little obsessed with your wife. I’m not sure what to make of your wife’s side of it. I wouldn’t immediately jump to cheating, but if he’s showing unnecessary interest and you’ve already told her you’re uncomfortable with it, I do think she should set a clear boundary with him. Talk to her about it, but not in a confrontational way. Just genuinely tell her what’s bothering you and see how she responds. If it’s truly harmless, she should be able to have a meaningful conversation about it rather than immediately accusing you of being suspicious. From what you’ve written, you don’t come across as a jealous or suspicious husband. Your discomfort seems reasonable. But honestly, you know your wife, your relationship, and the context far better than anyone commenting here does. Take your time and make an informed decision. And don’t let people in the comments, who know neither of you, convince you with absolute certainty that she’s cheating. That’s your relationship, not their detective series.

If a couple doesn't have access to each others' phones, it's a screwed up marriage. Period.

DOT.. is the powerful secret code... 😁😁😂😂

Be aware and get all the necessary proofs and Just divorce her or be ready for blue drum

Kuch to locha hai 🤣

I pity your wife who is dealing with your ordeal. Pathetic mindset you have got. If the same is done a you, you would come up with much worse confession about your wife suspecting you. Once again proved, men are drama.

Everything is fine but one question is how can he see his status if he saved his number but the other person has to also save his number right.Something fishy here.

Trust n loyalty matters here ... probably trust the most !!!

Only 2 suggestions for you: ..

Whatsapp web kyu nhi use karte apne laptop pe

Bro u already know what's going on.... Just believe in your guts because no one knows better than yourself 😉 belt treatment needed

Don’t waste the rest of your life feeding a stray dog.

Tumhara L lagne wale hai …. Jaldi bhaago

She doesn't know enough to connect on telegram?

Download some monitoring app in her mobile simple

Tum khud socho vo usko MSG kyo krti h kuchh sbko chaiye but kuch kkuch ko chaiye

Brother insee a secret relationship is sprouting. he knows who it is and both know each other. they chat and talk..can end up in anything if left like that. talk to her properly.Linknher watsup with ur watsup number. so that u can see all messages that she gets. i clearly see she is slowly out of ur relationship. take care. handle it well. there is no doubt about this.

Its clear that due to him ur wife moved to other country to enjoy with him

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BTW, I don't know you and your wife, but I know the person sending your wife that dot message. He is my friend Radhey S. Suthar .

Bro..RUN!!!!

Confront her. If possible gather information about her and him

U got a dot in ur life bru..

Another Bang Bang Bengaluru story 😀😀

Time to end this relationship

Run 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️

Just deficiency of trust means, it's time to consider divorce, albeit safely! Do not confront any more. Rather maintain and ensure your own safety. Apparently I feel a bigger threat is brewing for you. So, save yourself, first. Libido is dangerous and was reason for many wars, even. So, stay clear. If you survive, you will get enough chances to mingle with other good hearted ladies! But, first of all, save yourself.

Link her whatsApp to your whatsApp... You will be able to read all her messages incoming and outgoing on your phone for few days... And she won't be able to know that... Search how to link whatsApp on YouTube to know more.

She's gettin banged by that guy. Leave her and visit hookers instead.

u are being cucked lil bro.