Comments for Post #C27860

Its already ended ...it's just you living as Room partners in the same house ...she works to keep the house and kids ...you go out and work for expenses to be taken care .. so it's dead end for both you ...if you want , then go for marriage counselling or love just like room mates

You guys really balance each other . Please don’t give up on your spouse instead sit and talk about it . Go on a vacation and have genuine conversations . Sometimes just speaking your mind fix it all.

What exactly were these decisions? See, fact is you're married and decisions must be made as a couple rather than individual. Communication is critical and perhaps you need to be more open with your wife regards your feelings. Bottling up feelings makes matters worse

It's commendable that you have such insight and I'm very sorry to hear that you feel like you both are there just for the sake of kids. But believe me when I say this, it actually affects the kids, even if you are pretending to be happy in front of them... Having said that, it's not that late, things can be mended... Please seek marriage counseling or couple therapy. Even if you are ready to give up on your marriage... Why not give therapy a try and see where things move from there.

Are you talking about financial, investments decisions? Property, mutual fund, SIP types? If you both are earning then keep your investments separate. In only own name. You can discuss and ask other's opinions. But final decision and consequences are ONLY OWN. BTW if your "wife is very sharp, knowledgeable, always cautious, doesn’t trust ppl easily", then MOST OF THE TIMES her decisions should be good. But that doesnt mean you shouldn't investigate pros and cons on your own and discuss those doubts with wife, BEFORE acting on them. You can't always hide behind "I always do what she wants but 70% of the time with less interest." And then internally blame her "most of our decision costed us lot of money, stress and more work."

Family is a unit. Everyone takes decisions in the interest of this unit. Some decisions go wrong. So what. It happens. You are holding it against your spouse Some decisions having gone wrong. Either you get more involved in family decisions or let her handle. Many marriages do become routine existential exercise. Its up to the couple to reignite it. Talk it over, that's the only way in a relationship. Good luck.

Typical married story, what's news....... Make it Int'ing or continue like this, fate is in yr hands, destiny is what you make of life, not in some esoteric messiah somewhere in skies.

Everyone is in the same boat

Go for a vacation with family. Preferably a family trek.

It is very important to sort out ur difference of opinions . U cannot live like this without communicating with each other . Financial decision sometimes don't favour . If a husband does a mistake the wife stands by him most of the times so it is very important to stay by her and try sorting it out

Too much Herculean heaviness

Don’t find the sufficient logic or reason for giving up here