π Confession I am a 29 women living with my husband after getting married around a year ago. My husband and we are happily most of the time with ourselves but the remaining time makes me feel like getting out of this marriage. We fight only one thing all the time is his mother. He's extremely responsible and committed to his parents and trust me I don't have any problems with that. He is the only child and his parents are wholly responsible on his for everything financially. He happily does everything for his patents. Now here comes about me, I try my best to support him both financially and by doing everything I can do to help him . What always triggers me is he never admits anything wrong for his mother, his mother is extremely arrogant and self proud kind of reason out of no reason, absolutely no reason, she keeps saying she is extremely valuable, extremely respected I don't know what have she done with her life that makes her so over proud and arrogant. If anyone including his son doesn't give little bit less attention she makes a scene and my husband rather than taking it a concern takes it as a matter of happiness, he says that his s Mother has been extremely pampered since the beginning and it's something he can't change, I have to accept it. Even if there's something wrong his mother does, says he'll always defend her. He always has one excuse that they are aged now(actually she is around 45 year old). I can't, I repeat I can't tolerate this that my man always disagreeing with me and never accepts that yes this his mother's fault. Even I didn't ask him to admit it with his mother, at least in front of me. He always keeps defending his mother... He doesn't do absolutely any responsibility for my family, both financially and other ways, I don't like this fact that I'm trying my best to do everything for his family, have been supporting his parents financially and other ways but he doesn't do anything. He always keeps his presents' responsibility at the first place over mine . He says that he will do anything and everything for his parents to be happy and for me I barely find something in this marriage. I have ruined my mental health and life goal, my everything for this thing. We do not ever fight on anything else expect his parents, absolutely nothing. I have understood one thing that he'll not change, I want to change myself. I don't want to end this marriage, can anyone please help me how can I get out of this mental trauma and his thoughts completely, I want to be totally unbothered about whatever hell is happening with his and his mother. Please help #Inlaws #Finance #Anxiety #marriedlife #AnonymousConfession #TheCorporateConfessions #CorporateConfessions #Confessions #Corporatelife
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Stop over-thinking! See the positive things in your marriage, see the glass half-filled, NOT half-empty. Don't stress your husband over useless things like this! Trust me there r many serious problems in this universe. If u continue making fuss over triffle issues like this no wonder he will soon try to find peace outside home, outside marriage... u know what I mean! Then you will write another confession asking for help... how to defeat that "other woman" in ur husband's life! I think it's better to hv that in-house "other woman" in the form of MIL. Sometimes elder people behave like kids, as they grow older they start losing their maturity & intelligence & that's absolutely natural. Think seriously which rival you really want in life! π€£
Very easy. Don't bother. Concentrate on other things so u will forget
Wait a m8nute, a man's mind always triggers when anyone says wrong/unhealthy abt his mother, same goes for woman with their father too... another qus, you're 29 & your MIL is around 45. How? What's ur husband's age? When did your MIL married? 15 yrs old ? π€
You seem to calculative Allow things to pass and enjoy life
Chal jhuti π€£π€£ you are 29 and you MIL is around 45 π€£ why you got married to a kid? Phir to ye hona hi tha π
Same as #C27837
Take a divorce if you are so unbothered about the man and his mother.. you donot consider him as your husband , you said the Man ...so what's keeping you married to him ...File a case and take a divorce .. Na rahega bans na bajegi bansuri π
why u r bringing imaginary story into ur real story...how come u r 29 and she is 45? so is ur husband less than 25? say real things not just to create a story or blame her dont create false scene
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