My brother recently got married 1 month ago. Arrange marriage setup. Now we are in a city our house is not that big so we have a connecting room in 1st floor where in one room I do work (WFH). So I can here some fussy voice of my bhabhi. I am very much confused. I have a doubt that she is talking to someonem. When she talks with her family members she talks loudly but everyday in the afternoon she talks to someone. I am scared I don't know what do. I can't even tell to anyone please give any suggestions. I tried to check her phone but it is locked. I want to collect evidence. I want to confirm. I wish I am wrong. Please help me out
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It's new place for her, let her settle down.. she might be sharing about new family, home & more with her family or friends.. Stop behaving typical Nanad.. Better start a good bond with her so she can find a good frnd in you..
Sab janna jaruri nai hota h. Don't be kekai 🤣🤣
Hide in her room one afternoon and clear your doubts.
Don’t you ever talk to someone in a hushed tone , like ever ? It’s a new environment for her , new family , she’s left her home and come and instead of making her feel at ease , you’re suspecting her ? It’s really shameful on your part . Har koi aise baat karta hai ,jahan duniya bhar ke log uske aas paas hon.
It could be a female friend too.. You shouldn't rush things and judge so early. You can keep observation but stop getting hyper
Maybe she is talking to your brother during his lunch time ?
Your doubt may be valid, or it may not be. Without proof you shouldn’t blame her or check her phone. She might just be talking to a friend. In the meantime, try to know her better. Ask her casually about her friends, school days, college, bestie etc. See how she is with your brother and the family. Just keep watch quietly. Please be careful — one wrong step can create big issues in the family, especially between your brother and bhabhi.
her close female friend ho sakti hai, jo ussse personal experience and private details puchh sakti hai. agar koi bada issue notice me nahi aaya hai to don't think too much of it. just ask your brother in a decent tone,"was everything good". that's it.
Yes she may be or not. But no one will be sure until you got proofs. Try to collect proofs like recordings or call recordings or call sheet. Dont point out to her directly give proofs to your brother so that he will confirm
Best suggestion is u shd get married asap..
Best suggestion is that u solutions move out of that their place and let them settle down on their own and u should focus on ur own life 💯
Your brother gets divorce and pays hefty amount of Alimony to his wife that I think would give you all the Happiness in Life .. You waiting to be house breaker and your brother goes to Court suffers and blames you .. 😂 .. manthara ki jarorat hain nahi
Just shut the front door
No need to snoop someone else phone. If she has having an affair there will be many signals that will eventually come out. Later in case your suspicion is true, you can capture evidence and give it to your brother Till then be calm and be patient. Cause it might be a lady friend or mother or sister whom she is speaking for advice or trying to understand this new life
Mic lgao kamre me
Get one android mobile with more storage don't put sim into the mobile turn off the notifications or put in silent keep the mobile somewhere close to the place where your brother wife will speak regularly, turn on the voice record and later check the mobile
Why r u suspicious? Allow her to settle. I don't understand ur mind
Wait for few days Keep an eye on your brother
Share it with ur brother first She is his problem
Keep a small microphone in her room secretly and hear the audio on your headphones in your room.
Bas yahi wajah hai ki wo aise dheemi voice me bat karti hogi qki shadi ke bad sasural me sab bahu ki ak ak chij ak ak harkat ke pichhe CID ki tarah lage hote hain... 2 min fursat ke time me bat bhi nhi kar sakte apne hi gharwalo se... Usme bhi chhup chhup ke sunte hain...
Would u like ppl overhearing you whenever u talk over phone? What kind of disease is this!? Why do u need to hear or even worry about her private conversations? She may speak to her parents or friends. How do u even expect every telephonic conversation to be aloud so that anybody nearby can hear it!! Wud u like such kind of "jasoosi" when u will be in your in-laws place? Be prepared for that first.
Please concentrate on your wfh and if possible start going to office 🤷♀️
Teri maa ki chugli jor se thode kregi
You have only one thing to do here “keep your nose out of other people's personal lives”. Brainless woman.
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