Gender: MaleSubmitted on 30 July 2026 at 2:31 pm
My family warned me about her but I wanted to marry her
I asked my family to go to her house for rishta proposal but everyone is refusing There's this girl who I Met in 2021 during a family occasion.At that time she was having a full scale relationship with a boy that her family's women also knew about him. Things didn't go well because the boy found to be a playboy.i was her friend at that time.i genuinely had feelings for her from the start but I didn't conveyed anything. A common friend of hers told me that I should not get emotionally attached to her as she was having a lot of relations that time but I didnt listen and thought that people can change .After some months I get to know that she is talking to different boys and would become friend of anyone who will get into her dms and would also ask money from them. That destroyed me and I took a step back. During this time she was also talking to my cousin and asking him for chocolates and stuff. I knew everything but I didn't tell her that I knew about her doings. After that she got her rishta done with someone. During this time we had a little fight and we were not even friends anymore. Unfortunately her rishta didn't go well and she was broken again. She came back to me and told everything about the last year. We started talking again. During this time I conveyed my feelings to her and told her that I love her and want to get married. She said okay she will marry but she is not live with me. I thought after marriage she would change. During this time she was working as a teacher in a school and she was then also talking friendly to other boy from the school. I was okay with that at that time. After that she end up school and took admission in English program in virtual university.i myself is doing mbbs. Days passed we talked. I myself didn't talked friendlier to any girl except her I was always keeping boundaries that I knew were necessary. During the last year she said that she loves me too but things went well. During one of our meetup in May this year she had mobile unlocked I was just checking casually and then I opened WhatsApp and get to know about some other guy. She was in relationship with her. He was saying jaan and things like that and she sent pictures of her to him she also told me about that guy a few months Back that she got a new phone on installments from some guy who she knew by a friend. I confronted her. She apologized and It was prayer's calling time she promised me and swore that she would change and leave all these things. I forgave her and talked about her in my family. My uncle knew a lot about her and told my mama that she is not good for her but I was reluctant that I want to get married to this specific girl only. At last mama said that they would marry me to her if I'm that serious about her. Things were going well but two days ago I met her and now she is talking to some fbr guy I also saw this guy when I checked her phone last time she said she would leave everyone and be loyal to me but after seeing her chatting to him freely like a old friend broke me up. I'm devasted now and when I confronted her that what is this. She simply said leave me and I left her. But I really love her badly and don't know what to do. Should I go back to her and ask that why she did that or should I leave her. I already talked about her in the family. I'm so confused right now Kindly give me your honest advice.
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 3:18 pm
Abhey howley, god gave you a chance to escape. Like meaning you like her body or attitude.. paagal.. Marriage means not one day or one month.. it is until you die. Marry someone who has values..
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 4:23 pm
Sometimes, who is he who is she? Is she is he or he is she? Too much confusion in last paragraphs 😉😆 you can change the habit but can't change anyone nature.. stay safe n happy.
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 10:55 pm
Found the biggest simp king in our world
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 3:30 pm
Yes plz, go back to her if you truly love her. Fight for what you want if u think ur love can change her. You deserve her and her blue drum treatment.
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 3:39 pm
Aa bail mujhe maar ye actually tumhre liye hi bni h 😂😂😂
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 10:23 pm
Leave her. You will get a better girl.
Anonymous4 August 2026 at 8:40 pm
Love is blind, deaf and dumb. You just proved it. 🫡
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 7:31 pm
Why do you love her? That's the main question. No doubt that she will shamelessly cheat on you over and over again. She doesn't love you, you know it too. Why are you doing this to yourself?
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 7:18 pm
You’re choosing to look away and ignore the red flags in the name of love. If you truly love yourself, don’t let this spoil your life.
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 5:37 pm
For the streets bro 😂
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 3:52 pm
agar koi apne peir pe khud hi kulhadi maar de tou koi kya kar sakta hai.
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 11:07 pm
Thapichom nu nenchiko. You have escaped from a gold digger and cheater. Think what happened if u knew this after ur marriage. Get married soon as ur parents wish and ask them to select then u will forget this vilayatu ponnu. If u go and ask then she will take advantage and if again u find the mistakes she will blame u. I asked u to leave but ur the one who came back. So better stay away. My sincere advice.
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Anonymous5 August 2026 at 11:00 am
It’s exciting for you now because you can’t have her you want to. And then you want to fix her. These are all symptoms of control and not healthy relationships. When she has clearly told you, she does not want. Please understand, no is no move forward with your life. Especially if you have trust issues, then there is no point in this
Anonymous4 August 2026 at 3:53 pm
We want to see her😅.. Who is she 😛
Anonymous4 August 2026 at 7:48 pm
Stay away from her, u'll surely get someone like you.. don't be so impatient. Good luck
Anonymous5 August 2026 at 1:04 am
yeah but u find other girls
Anonymous4 August 2026 at 9:09 pm
Are you a fool?
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 6:41 pm
We have a phrase in bengali..... "Nera bel tolae ekbar jai" But you are going again and again.....You are maintaining a strong rhythm..... stay focused 🙂🙂
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 8:43 pm
It's a red flag leave immediately
Anonymous4 August 2026 at 4:54 pm
Are you really a MBBS student bro? I bet if you ARE , you're from the reservation ki den.
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Anonymous5 August 2026 at 11:27 am
Ja je le apni zindagi aur kar le barbad, sath mein apne ma, baap ki bachi hui zindagi bhi barbad kar do . Isko bolte hain mand bhuddhi , who wants to get married to a characterless girl . She’ll do the same after marriage too , can’t you make out that one man doesn’t satisfy her and won’t be able to in the future too . Destroy everyone’s life in your family and marry her .
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Anonymous5 August 2026 at 9:21 am
All I read, was "I, She, He, They" Why don't U admit that you are only thinking from your walnuts instead of your brains.
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Anonymous5 August 2026 at 5:39 am
Only a fool can go after her
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 8:42 pm
दो लाइन में मेरी राय...... पहली बात तो तू बहुत बड़ा हुटिया है और दूसरी बात जितना हो सके उतना दबा के पेल और छोड़ दे...!!!!
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 8:40 pm
Bahut bde wale hutiye ho....ek redmi k pichhe pagal ho rhe ho.....redmi hai bhai vo bahut bde wali....agar by default shadi kar liya or uska behaviour nhi badla to bahut regret hoga tumko apne faisle par...... Pumssy k pichhe andha mat ban or future k bare me soch....jitna ho sakta utna daba k pel or chhod de.....!!!
Anonymous4 August 2026 at 8:17 pm
Please leave this girl
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 7:32 pm
What you need is a psychiatrist!! Are you a bloody idiot!
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 7:24 pm
Please give your MBBS seat to a more deserving person. You clearly aren't fit to be a doctor as you have the emotional maturity of a door handle.
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 6:04 pm
Leave her it's as simple as that
Anonymous4 August 2026 at 6:02 pm
Obvious from your story that she's a play girl & will never be loyal to you! It is more horrible that she asks for gifts from different guys in exchange of what.. we don't know!
Anonymous4 August 2026 at 4:22 pm
How much stupid can you be? This guy: yes
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 4:07 pm
Shame on you
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 3:04 pm
Karle shadi Tu hospital mein hoga aur ghar par wo doctor doctor khelegi Puri duniya bol rhi hai wo R hai Tere घरवाले bol rhe Wo ladki khud bol rhi wo R hai par tujhe wahi chahiye Isse acha to kisi kothe wali se shadi karle
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 3:01 pm
Tu marr ja bhai, sabke liye aur tere liye yehi sahi hain. Aisa dimag leke doctor maat ban
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Anonymous4 August 2026 at 3:01 pm
You are immature and not fit for marriage right now.
Anonymous4 August 2026 at 2:56 pm
Neither you nor she knows wtf is love. Get over it
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