Gender: FemaleSubmitted on 21 July 2026 at 9:39 pm
My husband promised I could work but now I am trapped
F.27 other state ki hu 1.5 year phele me ek Hyderabadi ladke se shadi kari thi .I have a one year old baby boy. Shadi ke time my husband promise to me ki aap job karo me meri education pura karta ho uske bad ghr me ammi ko bolke aapki ruksati krnge .shadi jaldi kare reason ye bataya ki haram rishte me nhi rehna emotional support ke liye kisi se baat bhi ho to halal rehna ye love marriage thi unke aur mere ghr wale ko nhi passand tha .ab masla ye hua ki shadi hote hi banda badal gya 🥺meri job chuda di ye bolke ki aap meri wife ho namehram ko nhi dekhna so mere sath raho bolke fir me unki baat mani job:chod di uske bad unko job nhi tha me help karii mere saving se pure unke upr fir uno unki padhiy chod diye ye bolke ki job kam manage nhi ho raha bolke .ayr fir uno change ho gye pura jo bole the shadi ke time sab ulta krne lage lazy koi goals nhi koi future planning nhi agr me kush boli toh khana milraha hai na ayr kiya hona bolre.aur mere baby ko ajtak ghr walo se nhi milye 🥹.ab ye hora ki mujhe vas kaid kare jaisa rakh liye na koi future na savings 😢 mentally emotionally bohut abuse karee bohut depression me hu.ek chez meri nhi sunte apne marzi bechlore life jaisa rehta waise jeete. Koi responsibility nhi utha rahe .ab ghr nhi jaa sakti me acpt nhi krnge baby ke sath yaha kush krnge bole toh baby ke sath koi bhi job nhi milri 🥹 allow nhi karee aur meri halat bhi waisi nhi ki me rent baby meri Kharche uthau .agr koi bhai ya behen meri ye Mushkil halat me help krna chahte ho toh plz help me 😭 .
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Anonymous27 July 2026 at 7:06 pm
Behen aapka qualification to nahi pata but try Karo purana wala job join karne ka. Nahi to atleast agar 12 pass ho to app pre school jao aur udhar try Karo. Job milega aur bachcha bhi sath rakh sakogi head ko request karke. I'm sure we ladies understand these problems and wo adjust karengi
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Anonymous27 July 2026 at 6:51 pm
Bahen, Help kya hona ?? Aap multiple issues ka shikar dikhre meku .. I am also from Hyderabad ... So I can better read your confsn in hydi Lang ... Aapke Husband aur aap k darmiyaan me kya issues hai clearly toh mention nai kare , isliye Aapka confsn samjhne problem hori
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Anonymous28 July 2026 at 6:16 am
Go back to your parents. Join your job back. Financially independent woman is NEVER a burden to anyone. If you can raise child on your own, well and good. If you can't, then give child custody to him. And build your own life. And NEVER EVER FORGET THE LESSON "loving a man' HAS TAUGHT YOU. I hope more girls learn this lesson from experience of other women, from past and present. And will ALWAYS REMAIN FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT and PRODUCE KIDS ONLY WHEN THEY CAN RAISE THEM ON THEIR OWN.
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Anonymous29 July 2026 at 5:06 pm
Go back to family and become independent aise aadmi se jaldi dur bhag jao
Anonymous27 July 2026 at 6:32 pm
If he's not even trying to support you financially and emotionally then leave him islye kehty hyn in lalllu panju bgrt lrko k ley lrkio KO jobs ni chorni chahye financially atleast independent rkho khud ko k agr Asi situation Ajay k bnda kutta nikl ay to khudko aur bachon Ko atleast 2 waqt ke roti khila sko
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Anonymous27 July 2026 at 7:33 pm
Divorce and ask for alimony with maintenance, find good lawyer in your city. This is the only way out, don't suffer
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Anonymous27 July 2026 at 6:58 pm
Ladki sayad hindu h, aur ladka muslim, kerela story 3
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Anonymous27 July 2026 at 6:27 pm
Don't seek any help from here.. yaha se koi aur hamdard banega aap apne weak moment ke wajeh se phir se trap hojate.. so lehaza aap rabb se help maango inshallah Allah will make a way..
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Anonymous29 July 2026 at 11:53 am
Mai bhi hyd se hi hu. Apku kaisi help hona bolo inbox kro.
Anonymous29 July 2026 at 12:00 am
1.5 year ki shaddi mei 1 year ka ek kid bhi h bahut achhe.tmhara job bhi nhi rhne diya ye to kaafi halal baat Hui. Time h bhaag jao madam whan se
Anonymous28 July 2026 at 11:36 am
Love jihad ase hi hota h bhn
Anonymous28 July 2026 at 12:01 am
Share your resume
Anonymous27 July 2026 at 6:27 pm
jab banda job par nhi tha aur padhai kar rha tha to kyun apni job chhod di. aur jis bande ke pair jameen par nahi hain unse shadi karna hi kyun tha wo bhi family walon ke against?
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