Gender: FemaleSubmitted on 20 July 2026 at 7:05 pm
I ruined my life trying to escape my toxic family
II start from childhood. My father left my family during my early age. During that age I don't understand the reason. When I get older now I understand my mother is the reason. My father left myself my brother and mother. My brother is elder he is not responsible from beginning. He stay weird always. My friends are supportive and helpful. My mother and brother have not taken steps for my marriage. He was telling he want to marry first. After his breakup he asked my mother for his marriage not for my marriage. I felt lonely. I faced many problems he never helped me instead he blame me. A marriage proposal came I liked him a lot same he also liked me. Both family met & liked everything went well untill family influenced fight came and he was very playfull. He loved me purely now I understand his love. Called off that marriage because of my mother's influence. After many struggle I find a match for myself and we made that marriage as arranged marriage like we met through matrimonial site. I liked him but my brother was not interested in that guy and avoided me. Both parents met and fixed marriage. I thought by marrying him I will get freedom from my family. But he is also bad personality like my mother and brother. My in-laws are my biggest curse. I found my husband is cheating me, my family is not supportive, now I live in trauma. I live with my husband for my baby. II leave my husband any time but my brother &mother is not supportive. I lost true love for my family. I need pure love. Do not trust parents, brothers, sisters. My life was spoiled by all who I trusted. Will my husband love me or shall leave him. I plan to rent a home and live separately using my savings with my baby. Share suggestions
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Anonymous26 July 2026 at 9:47 am
Trying to find 'pure love' is like chasing a rainbow. Are you sure you will be able to give 'pure love' to anyone. Even to your child? Or it will always be 'terms and conditions apply'?
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Anonymous25 July 2026 at 10:40 pm
First one is money. Emotions wont help here. Make sure you have a job and your child is 5 years old. Cause your child can go to school nd you can goto work without any issue. But living alone is also difficult. Make sure atleast your mother supports when time is bad. As a woman with child alone is very difficult in this society. Like dont abandon your mother completely just get in touch. As i said if you fell ill who will take care your child. Think clearly. Try to talk to him if he changes then fine if he cant change dont stay atleast you can live your life with your child happily. You can make your child's life happy
Anonymous25 July 2026 at 11:02 pm
I am also going through similar issues, but didn't get married yet
Anonymous28 July 2026 at 11:29 am
Who asks for marriage...first be financially independent then everything will fall into place
Anonymous27 July 2026 at 8:29 am
U need to find a job girl and make ur life better.....dont blame others for ur own mistakes.....take a stand and do something good for u n ur kid All the best
Anonymous26 July 2026 at 2:37 pm
Financial independence is the only thing that'll truly help you. I understand your frustration, but desperation to escape or find love often attracts predators. Become emotionally and financially independent. Otherwise, you'll keep ending up in similar situations, always looking for an escape. You don't need your family's support to get a divorce. Hire a lawyer, they'll guide you through it. And start planning to get a job asap.
Anonymous26 July 2026 at 12:15 pm
Apni life ki responsibility khud lo Ho gayaa victim victim khelnaa Yehi karnaa hai ya baaki ki life sar uthaa ke jeeni hai?
Anonymous25 July 2026 at 10:14 pm
love yourself and read some books, build skillset and learn empathy. It is good that you understood that not all parents deserved to be trusted with life's decisions. If you are earning well, living alone may give you some freedom to choose this time and your experience might help too.
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