Gender: MaleSubmitted on 16 July 2026 at 2:59 am
Hii i be very honest in this I am m26 no past relationships from tamilnadu working on remote for us health care earning 40lpa as PMO my biggest fear now is my family are now seeing alliance for me even though I have few female friends with me I want to know how to initiate and make Convo with a girl while on meet what kind of information we can share that i need clarity so i font have any previous experience . Because I want to lift my family to a very big stage. So that that chapter I have not read or experience yet so please guide me through your experience TIA
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Anonymous23 July 2026 at 10:04 pm
Females aren’t some different species. Talk to them like you talk to anyone else — be yourself. Don’t brag, don’t spend lavishly to impress. Be grounded and practical. Also, don’t put pressure on it by thinking “is she the one?” from day one. This isn’t something anyone can teach. You’ll learn it gradually as you go. All the best 🙂.
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Anonymous24 July 2026 at 6:33 am
Ask your female friends "what they talk about when they meet prospective grooms" if they are from same location and cultural background as yours, they will be able to help you better. Also you haven't mentioned whether you are going to meet girl in some cafe/hotel or your family going to meet their family. If you are going to meet alone then you need to discuss and agree upon all these points BEFORE marriage. It's not ONLY about money(from man) and chores+child-bearing&rearing (from woman) anymore. Atleast not for educated, earning women. They expect more from marriage than a 'provider'. 1. Your current salary 2. Wedding expenses 3. Future living arrangements (nuclear/with parents) 4. Do you want her to be always earning or is it ok if she decides to be housewife 5. Do you expect her to give all her salary to you or do you want her to share expenses of nuclear family 6. Do you want her to NEVER ever give a penny to her parents/ siblings 7. Do you expect her to do all the chores as well go out and earn as well as give her salary to you (which you will use for yourself & your parents) 8. How much meddling your parents are going to be, how much her parents are allowed If you still like them after all this discussion then also talk about 9. Sexual orientation, drive, monogamy, what if one is unsatisfied, online cheating 10. Do you both want kids? Can you maintain celibacy when wife is pregnant or you will (try to) cheat (online/offline) 11. Will you be supportive during pregnancy and during postpartum 12. Will you two be able to handle it on your own or expect either side of parents to help
Anonymous24 July 2026 at 2:43 pm
story story....which company pay u 40l for pmo role that too at the age of 26
Anonymous23 July 2026 at 10:01 pm
First tell the company name
Anonymous23 July 2026 at 11:28 pm
Yarra ivan....
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