Comments for Post #C27747

1. Is your roommate female? If so, why did you call her "they"? If not, why would he like your partner's intrusion? 2. Learn some skills that pay better than content writing and rent a separate flat.

If she's a good friend, sit down with her and have a genuine conversation about what the real problem is. Moreover, having a man over every night can make a roommate uncomfortable. She's not being entirely unfair. Try reducing it to 2-3 times a week. Spending time together outside office hours doesn't always have to be in your apartment. Go on dates, take walks, or spend time elsewhere. You could go to his place too. Don't lose a good friendship over a love interest.

She must be insecure by thinking about ur future compatibility with ur bf that u might take a new flat after the relationship goes well..

1. Talk to her. Ask her directly what the exact problem is. 2. Start looking to move out. Keep searching — you might find a room within your budget. 3. You and your partner can shift together. He must be staying in a rented place too. This isn’t only your problem. If your partner wants to spend time with you, he needs to be part of finding a solution too.

Your roommate’s demands are unrealistic. This is why it is important to discuss scenarios before you become roomies. If there wasn’t any discussion, then you both have a right to assert rights over the shared space, for which, I am assuming, rent is equally split. You mentioned an ex coming over in the past & staying overnight. It seems you are ok to become intimate with bfs. At 27, you have been intimate with at least 2 guys. Since, you mentioned that you wish to PRESERVE your friendship, it’s natural to assume you would associate longevity with bf also. If yes, stop sleeping around with men (bf). Instead focus on finding a worthy partner who would value you. Your roomie’s reservations about your bf’s stays, are a blessing in disguise…..that’s if you value yourself.

Your partner might be her ex. ( They know each other well)

Sir and discuss what the actual issue is. She is jealous or if u r asking daily then absolutely she has to object

Move out and live in a colive or smaller 1bhk together, it works out cheaper. Why cant you move out and what's the rent that you pay.

My advice after focusing ONLY on the "Financial" aspect of the post: BUY a house... Out my experience: COST of BUYING a house in Bengaluru, is CHEAPER than in DELHI, CHENNAI, PUNE or even COIMBATORE..... while the COST of RENTING a house in Bengaluru, is COSTLIER than in DELHI, CHENNAI, PUNE and around THREE TIMES MORE EXPENSIVE than in COIMBATORE.....

Just joke - Arrange one partner for your friend also, then she won't fight with you.

Try to make less noise when you and your partner spends time together in a room.

Jealousy, this guy either thought you as worthless somewhere in some corner of his mind all-along....or he loves you, which will raise its head soon.... Eitherways, why don't you go over to your partner place, to have peaceful, or even intimate nights....even if done half of the times, this way 50% of the problem will be over... Last not least offer him 10% more rent on the days he comes, and some chocolate , so he doesn't feel envious or jealous....no bigger disease in the planet than jealousy. On the day your bf comes, pls show him 1% extra affection as well, kaliyug hei...kisi ki khusi dekhi nai jaati

Shadi karke sath mei raho... kya kutta ka jindagi ban gaye.. ex partner .. common most stories...

1. Get married to him and find ur own place 2. Get your own place and then spend ur nights together !!

What kind of nurturing is happening every night ???💀

Share him

move out , live with your partner

Ameeron ke jojle

She is jelous.ask her to join in the fun

3 some?

Give a good time to him...sharing is caring.

What's the gender here. ? Are you the new add ons to the LGBT comm called binary or plus. They demand to be called them they etc.

Having someone come over to few times in a year is different than someone coming every single day. If I was your roommate I’d be irritated too! I’d won’t be comfortable coming to the home I am paying rent for and my roommates bf hanging out in the apartment everyday! Pls ask ur boyfriend to pay rent , looks like the apartment is being used by 3 people at the cost of 2!

What kind of nonsense is this....?

The scenes which are deleted from my life 🤣🤣

Problems which I want to have in my life

if you are inviting a man at a place where your roommate is also there,it is totally wrong and unethical.

Nonsense post

Probably she is attracted to your partner !

Leave your partner he would use you like a plastic spoon and dump you....and if you cannot afford renting one more house for your enjoyment then what the is your partner fit for ??????

Dene ki itni chul hai to you should live with him separate or go in their room/ flat or make a limit . Dusro ki chut m kyu paani lari ho

Get the f**& out of this city.. go back to ur hometown and try this... this is one of the reasons y bengaluru is getting crowded... u guys want to stay away from ur family for this kind of freedom.. to satisfy ur filthy needs, prostituion in the name of being open minded and live in relationships.. 😅😅 Y dont u get married to him and just leave the city.?. Morpever ur mom is also supporting... But I know u wont marry him... people understood what u want.. what u r.. yess.. we AREA JUDGING U... 😀😀 get a life, grow up.. idiots..