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My girlfriend fears an honor killing if her family finds out

28M Been in a relationship for the last 1.5 years. We both met after a bad breakup for both of us. I helped her through her low times.We both prepared for govt exams. After becoming close, I took her for consultation and I forced her to take care of herself. Everything went well and then somehow we fell in love. . But the thing is now she stays alone because of her job Nature and she doesn't want to confess this to her parents or neither wants to continue the relationship. Breakup is one thing but survival is another. I gave her so much time to take a decision. That is either come with me or try to give up the relationship and stay with them. She couldn't decide and the relationship continued. I got a job recently and they are looking for alliance in my family and now I forced her to take a decision or convey to her parents. Initially she told she will convey to her parents . But later, She told she is scared to tell this to them and she wants to live in isolation. she fears they might go to the the extent of killing her(honour killing). Her own relative was killed this way so iam sure they might go to that extent.Knowing these things we shouldn't have got into the relationship at the first place. But , it's all fate. She won't harm herself but I for sure know if she stays this way something will happen to her she has so many health issues which only I know. Finally she said she will not live much and if possible come and see me after my death. Her words and this thought traumatized me to the core. From her side no one knows about the relationship and if I inform anyone they might convey it to her parents. Should I leave it as it's her life and her decision or should I risk informing it to her friends. I struggled to make her come out of the bad breakup but now she is struggling from depression because of me...