Are there any Women, who like to Dress up Modestly, as per their own Choice!? I (30M earning 30LPA) am looking for a Suitable Life Partner through the Process of Arranged Marriage. My Preference is Educated Urban Upper Middle Class Woman, working in a Metropolitan City (just like myself). But I am quite particular about Clothing. I believe that, unlike one's Skin Colour, Clothing is a deliberate choice made by people, about how they want to present themselves in Public. I believe that Clothing Choices do tell a lot about the Individual's Personality (NOT Character). I grew up in a Metropolitan City in an Upper Middle Class, Well Educated Urban Family. My Taste in Clothing is quite Simple, as per the Occasion & I give higher Priority to my own Comfort than to others' Impression. And even though, I travel around quite often, I don't Post my Photos on Social Media. I'm looking for a Woman who has a Similar outlook towards Life. One who can dress up modestly, for her own Comfort, without putting on too much Make-up. Who feels comfortable in her own Skin, without the need to seek Attention or Validation from others. But most Women, I've met are too Fashionable & Showy, who wear revealing clothes & like to post their Photos on Social Media. I might be Judging them, they have the Right to Live their Lives, the way they want to, but I have politely Rejected many such Women. I have been called 'Misogynist' & other unpleasant words, just for citing my Preferences, respectfully & I have also been asked to try & become more Open-Minded. But, simplicity is what attracts me, intuitively & my Heart is not willing to accept any Woman who is Ostentatious. I have also come across some Girls from very Conservative Families, who Dress Modestly, not out of Choice, but because their Families are quite Strict. Some of them have confessed that they had secretly worn Bikini on Beach Trips & Skimpy Clothes in Parties, without the Knowledge of their Families. I don't want such a kind of Woman, either. I prefer a Woman who is Well Educated, brought up in an Urban Upper Middle Class Family, is Financially Independent, having the Freedom to do whatever she wants to... But still, chooses to Dress up Modestly (as per the situation), does not Drink, Smoke, Party, does not Post every moment of her Life on Social Media & is a Virjin, by her own Choice, true to her Personal Values... just like Myself. But such a Woman seems extremely Rare, in this Generation. Are there any such Women around!? If I find such a Woman, I'd encourage her Dress up Kinkily, Drink & even experiment with different things, but only when she is alone with me. I would also abide by the Boundaries, which she would set for me. Please suggest me, whether my Thinking is Wrong or Outdated? Are there any chances to find such a Woman, in this Generation?
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I'm sure there are women who match all of your preferences. I know many. It also depends on which metropolitan city you're searching in. In my opinion, you're more likely to find what you're looking for in the South than in the North. And if you're being called a misogynist, maybe you weren't being as respectful as you think you were. There's nothing wrong with having preferences. The way you express them, and not judging or shaming women who have different preferences, matters too.
If you analyze this write up very closely you will discover two important details ... One is the selective use of colloquial abstract representation of normative words owing to the distinction in regulatory and derogatory affirmative relations to binary sentences. The second is that even I don't know what I said above and you have just wasted 20 secs of your life.
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Was okay until I read u want her to be kinky only for u🤣
In 'self arranged marriage' situation 1. A man and a woman both have right to put forth their criterias clealy and 2. The other person has to agree to them willingly Don't worry about what others are saying. You continue your search. You will either find woman who fits those criteria or you will give up on some criterias or you will give up on marriage. All outcomes are fine...
A woman is not an object for you to dress her up as you wish. You are not looking for marriage, you are looking for control.
You are definitely outdated...you certainly need an upgrade in your mentality... After mariage or even before, you can allways influence & change ger mindset a bit...but why waste time on this so much, these are not the most imp things which will bind & help keep the mariage together, in long term, not even medium term....so your perspectives are too short term...
Yes women still left .who like to dress up modest and according to their comfort.but now a d days I see most men are interested in women who are sexy.
You brother, like many of us, will remain single. But there is nothing wrong in having preferences.
When you saying you want kinky thing for you but not visible to others .. That shows you love the showing of body 😂 .. so why have double standards .. Woman love make up .. it's 2000 crore market today .. every woman wants to get validated by not Men but By woman her friends , her mother and her father that she is looking stunning . Indian woman and Indian dressing is more revealing than western . A piece of saree and blouse reveals more than shorts or t shirt 😂
Better u remain unmarried U are a controlling person and no girl can ever be okay with that Who are u to dictate what clothes and what make up she uses ?
Yes, possible. But rare in this Z generation. I hope you can find one. But dont force her to wear a bikini or drink. Some women don't do that even when alone with their spouses. There is nothing more beautiful than dressing up modestly , respecting the cultural values, and following simplicity and leading a private family life!!
I am already married to this kind of a girl. Alhamdulillah 🥰
You need someone from a beauty pageant. Remember the woman you are seeking those women are independent as much as you have so many expectations they equally have the same. A man doesn't describe his ideal soulmate in detail this is how women judge you. Seems you lack a lot in that department be matured when seeking a soulmate character and personality is not judged on appearance. Good luck
Clothing line wali pakdloo ...upper middle class😂😂
I wish you a very happy married life with yourself 🌹 😂
But do you drink & smoke?
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While reading your post its like i am reading choices of my best friend, she is just like the girl you are describing, if intrested DM me
Bro, you need a doll, not a person.
Ping me/send me a connection request if you would like to revamp your financial life.
One thing for sure ur confined mindset tell lot about ur character. I will not even recommend girl to such person.
And why such woman would wear kinky stuff for you ?If someone is remaining modest in tosays generation, dont you its freewill she is following , not yours? Respect human being no matter wheatger you like them or not
Interesting point. Bitches in name of freedom always have revealing clothes to wear unfortunate 🤣
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