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You are 90s born but your thinking is 60s . She is stuck and you are writing confession 🤦‍♀️

🤷🏻‍♂️ Engagement period!??? You/parents were in a hurry!?? Didn't talk before marriage!? Atleast 6/12 months and one more thing you maybe physically 26 but mentally <18

you married a kid what do u expect 🤣😹 bro thought lets marry young girl i will make her bend to my wish as obedient wife...be happy she didnt kill u yet 😹😂 20 yr old arent kid no more they are out killing there partner scheming for money

What if she allege dowry? 21 is too early to have kids. Let the things be.

I don't Even feel bad. Like what did you talk before marriage? Did you even understand the girl? Just because someone said marriage and Got married now you are realising actual reality.

I dont understand.. you are a 90’s kid? But you were born in 2000 so you are a 2K guy like her na? There is no difference in era then 🤔

Most of the problem lies with you. Why would a 21y and 26y have a baby immediately? It's a arranged marriage, takes atleast 2 years to understand each other. You aren't settled in your career either, so what she asked is totally fair. Both of you should earn enough and have enough savings to bring a child into the equation. Your communication skills need a lot of work as well. And the expectations of traditional housewife is a little too much for anybody to bear at 21. Add the past of the girl into all this, the marriage was meant to end before starting itself. I think people think of marriage as a joke these days really! No wonder the divorce rate is so high.

I've lost all my vocabulary and English skills after reading this :)

From your side, you're doing your best, but from her side, she doesn't seem interested. If she is in another relationship, that could be the reason. You should talk to her openly and ask her directly about her feelings. If the marriage isn't working and there is no willingness to continue from both sides, then you can consider divorce after understanding the situation. In the future, before getting married, it's better to make sure both people are genuinely interested and willing to build a life together. That can help avoid problems later.

Grow up. If she can go 7 months without talking to you, I think your marriage is already over but if you want to make a fresh start with her, meet her ,talk to her and ask her what she really wants? If she is not willing to continue this marriage proceed with mutual consent divorce. And sorry to say but you have ZERO MATURITY to lead a happy married life. Put those condition on any girl and see if she is ready to get married to you??

Who is 21 again?

Then you go to court and apply for RESTITUTION OF CANJUGAL RIGHTS under SECTION 9 of HINDU MARRIAGE ACT, 1955 ( IF YOU ARE A HINDU ). Let her come to court and tell her reason. Order will be issued to her for cohabitation. If she didn't come to your home, then wait for one year from the date of obtaining the order. If she didn't come within that one year, the very next day go to court and file a petition to dissolute the marriage.

Both are kiddos and I think girl is more matured in this relationship

bahot Mann hai Gali dene Ka..😂 chauthe din arrange marriage me tumko soap lagane nhi aayi vo 😱😒..r u dumb? what kind of filmy sapne u r having..itna desperate ki within a week u r talking about kids? what is the matter with you.. starting me Jo mentioned hue vo toh issues hi nhi hein..Haan baad me when she told u ki she has someone else in her heart,that is the only issue from her side..n on that basis u can ask n discuss about divorce n if she doesn't want the divorce then pls o pls go for a marriage counsellor.. don't get blasted so easily 😂 aur Haan,galat kya boli vo,tumko bacche chahiye but do you even know how much sorted finances are needed to have kids,it's not easy to brought up a kids these days

Search blue drum in the house.....fielding set ho chuki hai bhai teri

Did you ask these questions to that 21yo girl BEFORE marriage 1. Do you love someone else? 2. Are you marrying me just because your parents are forcing you to?

Abhas english english ke ki bole?

I feel the problem lies within you. Give her time man.. She's just a 21 yo kid... Why do u want her to have kid so soon if she's not ready for being a mother yet? If someone forces you to cut one of your hand how will u feel? For women that's what having child can be. It changes everything of her body. What she supposed to do when u r threatening her within first month of marriage with divorce 🤣

I got blasted !!! 😂

You are unbelievable. Give her a divorce. But you spoiled her life.

21 saal ki to baachi hi hoti hai bri

Pls hv some maturity, don't behave like a kid, hv some patience! Let romance bloom naturally. It will. You are too much focused on having a baby as soon as possible & that very thought is becoming a burden on her! Try to understand the subtle things first, she needs peace, time & privacy. Pls don't bring parents & relatives in everything! Keep some things private between you two... every woman loves that kind of importance & priority. Having a past relationship is very normal. She's not wrong, trust her. She loves you... that's evident from her confession on this same page. Read her confession & you will understand her better. #C27707 Headline : He Was On Chapter 20, I Was Still Reading The Preface. Dated 9th July, 2 days after your confession.

Maybe you're 26 years old, but your mentality is dwelling in the 80s or 90s! You just got married and hardly know your partner, and the first thing you could think of is having a baby?!? 😂 From your post, it looks like you're maintaining a diary for collecting evidence against her, so when the time comes, it'll be useful. You had no intention to get to know her better or spend any quality time together! How the hell are you going to live with her for the rest of your life? If you continue acting like this, you'll suffocate her and yourself too, which won't be good for either of you. The questions she raised about why you two shouldn't have a baby right now—those are truly valid questions! Having a baby is easy, but so much emotional and economical effort is required to have a happy family—I don't think you can provide that at the moment! Whether you divorce her and then get remarried again, the basic fundamentals will still remain the same. You need to start making a good bond with your partner. Try to get to know your partner, her likes and dislikes, and care about her. Don't treat your wife as a maid or just a baby-making machine otherwise your marriage will crumble, whether with your current wife or any other girls in the future. Try to value your partner's opinion too; just because she's younger or not working doesn't make her insignificant. She's your wife and partner, she deserves to be heard, respected, and loved. Give your 100% first, then judge the other person, not before!

Get a divorce and move on. That's the best thing to do.

Why to expect and restrict with baby mil gya baby ab ghar me kalesh krke

Kuch bolunga toh akela pela jaungaa 🤣 Full on comedy chal rha iski life pr

Bhai tera day 7 ka harkat dekh k aage padhne ka man nhi hua

Hey I found your wife's confession in this page or maybe you're the same person posting fake confessions well here is the confession: 📝 Confession #C27707 ✨ He Was On Chapter 20, I Was Still Reading The Preface ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 📖 Confession My Husband Thought Marriage Was a 365-Day Honeymoon Package ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 📖 Confession I'm a 21-year-old girl who got married to a wonderful 90s-model husband. Unfortunately, he had been preparing for marriage since the invention of Nokia phones. The poor man had watched every family serial, every romantic movie, and probably every "Ideal Husband" WhatsApp forward. I, on the other hand, was still mentally adjusting to the fact that I now had another human living in my room. By the fourth day of marriage, my husband confidently asked me to scrub soap on his back while we were alone at home. At the exact same moment, the neighbour kids called me to play badminton. Now tell me honestly... if a bunch of excited children call your name versus a fully grown man asking for premium bathing assistance, which emergency deserves immediate attention? He still remembers this incident like I abandoned him on a battlefield. Then came his Master Plan. Before our wedding flowers had even dried, he started discussing babies. According to him, if we didn't produce a child within six months, the entire extended family would hold a press conference asking questions. I simply suggested that maybe we should first save some money, buy a few household items, and figure out how to pay future school fees before creating future students. Somehow, this practical financial discussion became an attack on his self-respect. One morning I wore a blue dress. Five minutes later, this man proudly appeared wearing a matching blue T-shirt and pants with the confidence of a couple entering a television dance reality show. I immediately changed into pink. Not because I hated matching with him, but because I wasn't emotionally prepared to become the "colour-coordinated newlyweds" that every auntie photographs without permission. He also had serious concerns about my bike seating arrangements. According to his observations, every newly married wife in India apparently hugs her husband like she's protecting him from the wind. I sat normally because I wanted both of us to reach home with functioning spinal cords. Every speed breaker already felt like an earthquake. Romance can wait until the roads improve. Then came my birthday. This poor man waited until midnight just to become the first person to wish me. Very sweet... except I was in deep sleep after spending the whole day smiling at relatives. He woke me up looking like Shah Rukh Khan. I responded looking like an angry hostel warden. I wasn't rejecting his love; I was rejecting consciousness at 12 a.m. The first month was less about marriage and more about participating in the "MasterChef: Family Edition." Every day there was a review committee for my cooking. If the salt was less, discussion. If the salt was more, discussion. If I visited the neighbour, discussion. If I stayed on my phone, discussion. One day even a street dog entered the house and ate food. Somehow that also became my performance appraisal. When we finally started living separately, things actually became better. We laughed more. We talked more. I slowly realised that underneath all the overthinking was a genuinely caring man who got excited over the smallest things. He smiled whenever I smiled. He remembered tiny details. He wanted us to become best friends. He just forgot that friendship doesn't arrive by express delivery. Then one day my period got delayed. Before I could even process anything, this man had already imagined baby names, school admissions, engineering college, and retirement plans. I simply ate some papaya because my grandmother suggested it. Unfortunately, Sherlock Holmes found the papaya peels in the dustbin. From that moment onward, the dustbin had more evidential value than my own explanation. The funniest part is that people think our marriage failed because of one big incident. Honestly, it was a collection of thousands of tiny misunderstandings. He expected me to understand every silent expectation. I expected him to read every silent hesitation. Neither of us spoke the other's language. Looking back, I don't think I married a bad man. I married an overenthusiastic golden retriever who expected romance to begin immediately after tying the mangalsutra. I was simply a confused girl who needed time to become comfortable with a complete stranger. Sadly, while he was already reading Chapter 20 of our love story, I was still on the preface. If only we'd spent half as much time laughing together as we spent conducting family meetings, maybe today we'd be arguing about which colour to wear together instead of whose version of the story is true. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 💭 Every story has two sides. 💬 Read what others think and share your own anonymous opinion. 👇 Join the discussion: https://thecorporateconfessions.com/comments/27707 #Marriage #Expectations #Newlyweds #AnonymousConfession #TheCorporateConfessions

1. Buddy, Emotions take time to develop, at 21she is just a genZ kid and it may take time to develop intimacy and romance and u r asking her to rub soap on ur back on 4th day. . Come on....u should have give it more time. 2. Why do u care for everyone will ask for babies, why don't u took some time to develop intimacy with ur girl..ur own wife... Why u want her to be a machine to develop babies. She is human first and she is just 21, wats bad if she want to enjoy Life first, wats bad if she want to see world with u , and why u care about relatives who may start asking questions about babies, wat about her feelings. 3. It's you who has to resolve mom and her issues, and marrying just a 21 year old girl, u have to be understanding, she may commit mistakes, imeveey family has different taste buds, some like more salt some less, it should not be burdened, but at same point , also in arrange marriages, 1st thing emotions to be developed, then baby steps to develop tastes. At 21 is she play with babies, it's good , she had a child inside her, who want to live life, maturity develops with time. You are matured here but doesn't seem to be 4. Day 31, she has to be careful, agreed, doors should be kept closed, but clashing of hands is totally wrong, but in this situation , living a little apart is good decision if things not improving. 5. When things were improving, still you are worried about babies more rather than developing intimacy and relationship with ur wife. U need to be more matured and more understanding here. Babies at 21, come on bro, ar 21 she is a kid, she still have 4-5 years to have babies, you are wrong here again. 6. She told openly ...someone in her heart not you.. if you have concentrated more on developing ur relation rather than babies, maybe you would have developed some place in her heart and answer will be different, she told u the truth in front of u, now u involved families in this. Obviously, she can't take blame on her, she lied, where u urself have to handle things, u involved familes. For now, if u want to reconcile with her, start doing things which may melt her heart and not ur relatives or families and dont even think of babies till she ready for it. Explore, what girls like, explore what can be done to improve relationship, at same point, don't agree to unjustified things, but take care of all little things. She is at her home, send her some cute gifts, celebrate her things, her birthday, and please don't wake her up, come on celebrate it when she is in senses, And u too should , enjoy life roam places with her like mountains, beaches, if she fell in love, she might give u best of environment and she will do things willingly, including developing relation with ur parents, it needs patience and time, baki if getting divorce, that's very sad.

Thank god that she didn't kill you. She is too kind it seems.

A kid will play with neighbouring kids only. Why did you married a 21 yr old kid

Dude she's getting drilled somewhere else.

Bro, you're a spoiled child. First grow up and then think of marriage. I laughed so hard at this 🤣

I feel bad for her marrying you 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Dei confessor neeye 2k dhanda

I agree regarding the savings...better get separated

i also got blasted reading this confession.

Abhi bhi time hai, mutual divorce le lo. Aise ghisi piti married life ka koi fayda nahi. Extramarital affair hai ladki ka.

सब बच्चे वाली बात पकड़ के बैठ गए, असली बात है उसको इंटरेस्ट ही नहीं था पति में। उसका कोई ब्रेकअप नहीं हुआ है। असली जादूगर तो पर्दे के पीछे बैठा है।

You both would had got married after growing up.

The biggest problem with the confession of this husband is to rush into having babies. First understand your wife; understand her likes, dislikes; understand her idea of love and romance. Make her comfortable with your presence. Once you both develop a good friendship then only start planning on having a baby. It seems you got married because the family wanted you to do so. But please dont have babies because someone else is expecting you 2 to have babies. Some things need to be ignored. You have done arrange marriage do you think you have known your wife really well? It is easy to part ways but the difficult part is staying together forever and loving each other forever in the ups and downs of life

Your mind has got confused watching SRK movies. Give some time for her to realize she is married and she is an adult. May be she has a past that she is still trying to overcome. I can relate your story to mounaragam movie. This is the problem when your wife or husband has only one past relationship. If it is more than one they will move on.

Marrying a 21 year old girl is a childish decision in arrange marriage setup ...you married a kid not a woman

Better you'll give her divorce but you'll some proof to show in court how she behave with you and with your mother and also as much you'll keep proof of it then you go for divorce

U r the problem here. First padhai toh khatam kar lete. No girl with ur kind of maturity, education wl respect u. Stop finding others fault. U shouldnt hv gottn married in the first place . First make ur wrth in the society. Then u settle with any girl. U screwed up big brother.

It's hard to believe though

Ur brain is removed and gave for rent ??? She is given subtle hints, open hints , direct message and open slap... And still ur balls haven't dropped

Your marriage is highly incompatible.. better get divorce as early as possible which saves both lives..

Mutual divorce lo aur aage badho

U got married at perfect age and I think she’s being unreasonable asking a 26 year old to have his own house. She’s not interested and is inventing reasons not to be with u. It has been less than a year since u got married so get annulment.

Its too early to get a baby. But still, you should build your career first and what she said that she has someone else in her heart, I think you should think about it and left her. You have a bride future ahead so don't waste your valuable time with someone who doesn't value. And one thing, past does matter.

Anyhow if Husband-Wife do not meet upto Six months....legally it is divorced....so chill Day 10 : Better at time of marriage itself had clearity..she do not like you ..but anyhow she want her own life to run on her own rules own choice....😅😊

When did Playing with neighbours kids is wrong ???? Maybe, you are the problem.

Tf is wrong with u guys? When she has clearly mentioned there is someone else in her heart, what's the need to even attempt reconciliation? Bhai itna despo kya hona? And why everytime village or panchayat has to interfere? Take ur own decisions, divorce her and start ur married life again. Stop cursing urself. You are neither cursed nor having bad luck. Just make the right decisions.

Just be with her spent quality time honeymoon ghoomna different places

You are the red flag

Sorry to say, people with this kind of mindset and immaturity get married and then expect to have a happy married life. How is it even possible?

Throw her out and live peacefully very simple, she won't fit into marriage with anyone...let her family realise it when she is divorced multiple times by 30 just wait and watch u dnt need to do anything... divorce her that's all...good that u dint have baby else she will say that as reason and take ur money

She can never love you. Divorce her.

The readers have been blasted with this epic post 🤣🤣🤣 bhai tu soap laga why r u writing stories here 🤣🤣 You are immature weirdo.. please divorce her

@highlight Oh my God....... The so called Feminist ( only psedo Feminist) are saying that the girl is just 21. If that girl is just 21 and not mentally ready for the marriage, then why the hell did she accept for the marriage....? In case, If her acceptance was caused by her parents, is it that guy's mistake.......? Marriage is a commitment to both the party.

U r wid toxic person who didnot want peace and happy life, better to get divorce and live ur life peacefully coz u will not get any respect and love from this person. She still live wid her past

Girls have a problem then no need them to get marriage ....why putting taboo to marriage....stay in parent house....thay can do whatever they like..😅😂

Please don't approve such long stories it's boring to read

Are you a 10 yr old with no brain?

Are bsdk pehle english toh Sikh le dhang se

U married a 21 yr old kid, likely some pedophile traits u r having , but expecting her to behave like a 26 year old woman with a fully developed frontal lobe 🤡

Bhosdi ke case kar ... Accha sa matlab senior advocate in high court .

Like seriously. On day 7th you asked her for a baby. Man you need to grow up first to save this marriage. Stop being momma’s boy.

I think your mentally unstable and immature. If your not happy dissolve the marriage clearly she not in to you.

That girl got trapped 💔, please divorce her. & You do educate yourself before getting into a relationship in future

Faak her bro, what’s your dilemma? Are you brain dead . Give her divorce and throw her out of your head and move on .and you are still asking for advice here. What a shame

U have no right to live this life u just go back to ancient period first then blame like this coward!

Tera bachpan gaya nhi aur tujhe baccha chahiye? Go for marriage counselling.

Looks like she’s more mature than you are! You seem like mumma’s little boy with no brain of yours.. I pity the girl!

Low IQ guy. Bro she’s not yours. Never was. Leave before you get the blue drum treatment.🤣😂

You are the kid and thinking marriage is like in movies … Not you , girl is cursed

How on earth can you marry a very young girl of 21 and asked her to start making babies? As per her( which you haven't refuted) you have no balance nor home and you already want to have a family? Without any doubt, he problem is with you. You sound too immature for your age. Not rubbing soap, not sitting close, not twinning in blue! Divorce and let her free. She will find someone sensible.

She is practical about baby planning and she is more practical so you are not able to handle her .. better to leave her and give divorce because you think she is working asset not a human being.. in every instance or situation I'm not seeing any compatibility between you too and you are not mature for marriage as well idiot

Looks like you stopped growing after you turned 10. Please leave that woman alone and never marry again. Looks like you need a maid, baby machine and slave not a partner.

U r toxic

Sorry to say you are not ready for marriage at all you are behaving like teenager ...How do you expect her to adjust from day1, What kind of mind set you have ? Sick What I suggest is take 2 weeks leave, go to her parent house ..ne there for 2 weeks with her and try to adjust without complaining ...You want to make her mom at 21 ? You need to mature before accepting a girl in your life ..you r not 90 ..you are in 60s