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You mentioned that .. you are looking for the person who was not involved in physical relationship earlier. And you said "I know it doesn't sound right" ... Bro it's your life , you should ask what you wanted . Don't go with flow ,if you don't want to accept some baddie thats your choice. Verna comments mai bahut aunties aake faltu ki dialogue mareygi ... But it's your choice . So go with your choice and search for rightfull girl . But yes be cautious. As you hav seen many confessions .

Dude, you ask what you want vs what you get. You weigh options and settle for what works out for you. People get triggered or angry, it's upto them. You have a choice and you go by yours and let them go by theirs. There's no compulsion here.

As you were physically pure and have principles, then there's nothing wrong, rather you deserve it.

When you meet someone for marriage, be upfront about what you want in a partner. Still, if someone decides to lie, it’s hard to catch it right away. Put yourself and your career first. The right person will come when they’re meant to.

There's nothing wrong with your expectations, especially if you fit the bill yourself. There's no double standard here. It only becomes a problem when you start shaming people you meet who don't share the same values as you. So don't worry. Just be mindful that people can sometimes lie about these things.

Don't feel bad for asking for it. It's okay to want a person of your choice if you have moral values

Add “Virginity test” mandatory for the girl in your profile !

Logically it doesn't sound good? So you are not even convinced about what you want... Try to spend time only on your self improvement and self enhancement ie upgradation of your skills and exposure.....forget the rest of the things even the world....all will fall in place thereupon (including these nascent thoughts and perspectives)

why u feel logically is doesnt sound good...if u feel so then why u expect it...either u expect or dont say it is not logical...honestly logically ur expectation is perfect no harm...so go ahead with ur expectation and marry a person like it

You done masturbation with imagining someone right before? No one virgin either mentally or physically

Bro relax you will get the right one..... There are lots of people have preserved their purity. Just try to figure out red flags before and doubts.

See bro you mentioned logically it doesn't sound good.... This is a stupid understanding... Please don't have this mindset... V!rgin or Non-V!rgin is a subjective term... It's a choice, bottom line is respect and honour... Base of all relationships start with 3 key points 1- Respect, 2-Honesty, 3-Acceptance ... If any one is missing it's bound to fail or you'll end up abusing yourself and feeling that you made a mistake later on in life... And you'll do nothing... Cause you can't do nothing... Then it becomes a infinity loop of adjustment and compromise... This is what majority of society does... They'll rush for the decision of marriage and then say it was a mistake... Ask any couple 95% or more will say they're unhappy... Cause they accepted it as something they have to do and compromise on their choices... So advice is DON'T DO IT... Remember it's not a few months or few years game ... You'll make someone your partner for life... So if you can't respect this person and can't tolerate her past... Just don't make that choice cause anyone or any family member is telling you too... Cause you'll end up screwing yourself up and possibly the person at the other end as well. Remain single, die single if needed... But don't compromise... And don't think of stupid things like someone to talk to someone to show care and sh!t cause later on this will all go away... You'll become bitter and disgusted, then that persons past will haunt you and you'll only kick yourself over your choices and hate everyone who influenced you or suggested you to go ahead. Hope you make the right decision. 👍🏻🙂

See had you been involved with someone yourself and then gone looking for a Virgin, it would be hypocrisy. BUT since you yourself are a virgin (as your post seems to portray), it is only fair that you find someone who is as equally experienced or rather inexperienced at it so you may grow together. The issue however in both cases is physical incompatibility. God someone made women better at adapting to, and learning, physical intimacy. Whereas guys... well from what our clients mostly share from experience is that... Touch Matters. If she doesn't like your touch (and yes it happens despite being married) the chances of her still going out to look are much higher and vice versa. So as long as you're learning from HER about what she likes in bed and not from Sins or Khalifa... the chances of your marriage surviving would be higher. (Had a case like that too, where a Virgin prince started showing his princess adult content hoping she'd become Khalifa, but then she started expecting HIM to be like Sins & Stones and that's where it started falling apart) ... So... keep it realistic and build together. As for Virgin girls... yea that's gonna be a tough one but your best bet Is a certain strata and region of the country (But I don't give that advice for free). So All the Best. (P.S.: 2 Very Important things tough - 1. STOP thinking of Virginity as "Marital Purity" and more from the PoV of experience and growing together, your outlook at things will not only change but the whole relationship dynamic can improvenin most cases; 2. Online might be the worst place to look for a virgin. Even if she says she is, it would most probably be a lie).

Bhai sach sach batana, u didn't get a chance to get involved completely in ur previous relationship or it was ur choice?💀 Ngl, seen many guys who never got a chance into it and then have out of the box expectations from their partner. And be open for everything, why u need to indulge only in work? Maybe I will get the right if u don't have a rigid mindset and actually follow the logical approach. The only thing is - accha aadmi bano bhai, marriage ke chakkar me ch#tiya aadmi mat ban jana. There is a difference between the two 🙃