I really don't even know where to even begin, I'm a 31 year old guy dating a 25 year old girl. I don't even believe that we are dating at all now, I don't even know what we are doing. At the early stages of the relationship, she had accused me of cheating because I was friends with another girl and I had to apologise for something that I didn't do and ever since then, relationship has been slowly dying. I don't get much time to spend with her, like talk with her, on WhatsApp she ignores me unless she messages me first and she mostly ignores me, unless if she needs something and whenever I get frustrated and ignore her or confront her, she gets angry and then says she doesn't even need to be in this relationship and I end up apologizing, because I love her so much. I always tell myself that maybe its going to get better with time, because I prayed for this love, I asked God and this is what I got and I've been praying for God to make it alright. I'm the one who even loads her data and gives her money, but she doesn't appreciate me. I really wish I could just fast-forward everything to the time that she'll appreciate me and I won't lie, before she was okay, before she thought I was cheating on her, she was okay and she proved that I wasn't cheating. Maybe she saw how dumb she was thinking and shrugged and never came back. I really love her so much, I need this love to work, I don't know what to do.
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Too much age difference. Why you picked up so young girl for dating? Date in your own age range. Then you will have similar interests, expectations.
1. Avoidant woman (Based on the details u shared) May even be a slight co-morbid Narc- Will ignore u till u're around and suddenly lose her mind if she sees you moving on even to the extent of sabotaging your new relation if she finds out. Move.out, move on. If she doesn't "need" the rshp, she neither deserves it nor should be burdened with it. 2. Be careful not to be looped back by false promises (cz oh they will come if she fi ds u happy with someone else before she moves on) 3.Be careful not to end up falling to quickly for a love bombing Narc on rebound cz it's a common hazard to people coming out of avoidant rshps. Pretty sure she might be ghosting u or vanishin ng out on u for long periods suddenly showing up at her own convenience. You're already 31, don't waste the prime of ur life. Let her be. And when and if u see her with someone new, don't regret, be sure she's gonna be following the same patterns with him soon enough. Such things require steady and long psych intervention & don't go away overnight. ATB
if she does not trust you , its better to move on ...
She is using you as her ATM. Match her energy and ignore her double she ignores you.
Never beg for love. Just cut her off completely. If she doesn't understand you it's a pointless relationship. Love is supposed to bring peace and purpose in one's life. If it causes chaos and confusion please let it go. Someone better will walk into your life soon. She just doesn't value you.
Move on. Love can't come when someone pressure and make it happen. It won't work
Never in your life, beg for anything.... Never ever... If she doesn't value you and your efforts, just leave
Ok... Who's going to tell him?
Give respect to those who really value.... Otherwise, get ready for the consequences.
Why do you want this relationship to work when it is draining you completely?
Your relationship started going downhill in the early stages itself. It's not going to get any better from here. If she only talks to you when she needs something and ignores you the rest of the time, do you really think she loves you? If she did, then she'd want your time, care, and attention. If all she wants is for you to pay for things, but there's barely any interest or affection, you should rethink this relationship. Don't delude yourself into staying with someone who isn't in love with you and is probably using you. This is what happens when you fall in love based only on looks.
Another simp who thinks money can buy love. Ketan tried to do the same. God ain't responsible for ur stupidity bro
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