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"she eventually chose to be with me" 🤦‍♂️ No, you guys never learn. She never chose u. U were the best option available to her at that point and she just settled for u which was reflected in her behavior later. And gold chain got destroyed? Manje??? Was it broken? Then just simply make a new one from it. Was it lost? Fir to bhai sahime vo apki hi fault h 💀

Bro, nothing is above your own personal health, mental or physical. Do whatever u need to do to get rid of any toxicity around you. Get out of this and start afresh. Get out while u still can. And be smart. Use your intelligence to make the divorce smooth.

Firstly, how did you get married without discussing financial matters? Anyway, there's no shame in wanting to separate from something that's causing you constant emotional and financial stress. Sometimes things just don't work out. Family overinvolvement can also be extremely detrimental to a relationship. But it also sounds like there wasn't much love between the two of you. And from the way you've described everything, you seem like someone who puts all the blame on other people without taking accountability for your own actions. Think about that. And .. Good luck with the rest of your life. Choose well next time.

Apart from protecting your mental health the most important aspect is to protect yourself from legal disputes and financial loss via allegations of mental torture , domestic violence and alimony claims. Ensure if you both want separation it is on a peaceful note and keep your guards and proof aside.

अब पता चला यूँही कहावत नहीं है, मर्द को भी दर्द होता है । Bro i live in Pune Meet me.... जन्नत की सैर कराउंगा तुम्हे।

If someone is giving importance and priority to a gold chain than respecting and valuing a relationship. That itself speaks volumes about the difference in wavelength End it soon Save urself. She has trauma bonded with u And it's no longer love. Like it's safer to be with a harmless person Than being in a Good relationship.

Dont worry for her. You are not here to correct/help every1. Discuss with ur lawyer and get her consent for a mutual divorce legally recorded before she changes her mind again !

You have started riding a tiger. You need to figure out yourself whether to continue tigress ride or get off without hurting yourself in process.

Remember to take back the jewellery and ornaments you and your family gifted to her. Don't just let her leave with your gifts along with her "streedhan". #justsaying

You may connect with me for, professionalcompatibility analysis,, that will get you to understand the underlying causes and how to handle these complications and get positive interactions between you two. It's entirely your call,, maybe it can help. Thank you for sharing, hope the venting out helps...

If you haven't given a thought to couple therapy, think about it. DM if you need any references from Pune in this regard.

You have a meeting with her and discuss this issue before taking divorce. Give her a chance

As a divorce attorney - Your Marriage CAN be saved. And perhaps a transformed love can ve re-discovered. You just need some genuine and properly routed intervention. Too elabprate to be written in a comment. We usually don't expect people from confessions posts to DM. Mostly because they're so engrossed in self-shaming that the end goal is mostly venting and not actually seeking a solution (As you already mentioned in your post too). But IF some day you DO choose to find a solution, feel free to DM. All the Best either way.

Good .. move on

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These things should have been discussed before marriage. She has absolutely no business to handle over her salary to her people and they're so shameless to take it. You both need to build a life together away from your respective families. Visit a counselor. She needs to use her own brain. You're not wrong but tell me something, how did the gold chain get destroyed?

Best luck Buddy

Son i don't know you,but as a mother my humble kind request is to pray seek God in your deepest trouble trust me our God is merciful loving God he will definitely give you a good peaceful happy n healthy n prosperous life.Rest assured of my prayers

God is seeing everything bro...u wil get peace and justice... Live for ur own parents now....

Tldr bro grow a pair

Hope you find the peace

Hope the burden of the load got less with this confession. It didn't work, it's over, so new chapter in life, new innings ..

अब पता चला यूँही कहावत नहीं है, मर्द को भी दर्द होता है । Bro i live in Pune Meet me.... जन्नत की सैर कराउंगा तुम्हे।

Don't marry someone who doesn't think for themselves. Both male and female. Everything will feel all good then someone will say a bad thing about you and they will change 180 degree.

BPD

Money earned by husband is for their family where as Wife earned money is for their fathers family. This is the worst part women doesn't understand that her family is now her husband. Support your father's family but should have a limit on it.

>> On the day of the reception, a gold chain that her family had gifted to me accidentally got destroyed. I was deeply upset and called her, expecting some emotional support or condolences. >> Really? are you 2yo crybaby? >> At the same time, she and her family expected me to bear all their expenses. If they planned to go anywhere or do anything, the financial burden was automatically placed on my shoulders. >> Looks like you have made them spend too much money during marriage. Destroying gold chain, and calling for 'emotional support' (or did you want another gold chain?). "अलेले.... तुटलं का खेळणं तुझं.... ललू नको.... आपण तुला दुसरं खेळणं घेऊन देऊ हम्म."

Please get out before y'all make babies. IT ONLY GETS MORE TOUGHER TO SEPARATE!!!!! DON'T ASSUME EVERYTHING WORKS OUT WELL IN THE END

If you are in hinjewadi. You can connect with me. N don’t worry.. its complex but easy.. .. we just need attitude to fight..

So she was dating someone else then bailed on him for you... And it started with "immense intimacy" ... And later it was a Sh!t show of lost chain during marriage... Then it's fights... Makeup S*x... Some more fights... Garbage understanding... Then her family and you becomes the main culprits... And she's an innocent soul... You know... What starts off with s*x and toxicity... lacking meaningful conversations or understanding, impulsive decisions, voluntary blindness towards someone actions is bound to fail right... See my only advice for you... Stop chasing around other people's toxic playthings and Grow a spine... After that maybe a pair of... you know what I mean... That's it ... Hope you become a man soon... 👍🏻🙂

Main issue with females is being a mindless feminist , n thinking that if a guy can give his money to his parents , why can't she ?? She will make ur life miserable Just wait n watch She's a selfish mindless lady who never valued you Is this really love ?? Pity

She bekongs to streets get rid of her

You chose a monkey and now blaming her. You should have learnt what happened to her ex boyfriends during courtship. You ended up where you began with her. Pray God that she leaves you peacefully and take a better decision next time. Or, you keep jumping like her and do the same thing with others. However, you will never be at peace and wellbeing. We get at the end what we do to others.

U written she slept on sofa and u both had sexxxx ....is it normal or else ...so nowdays no sexxxx bro....what is situation...अब पता चला यूँही कहावत नहीं है, मर्द को भी दर्द होता है । Bro i live in Pune Meet me.... जन्नत की सैर कराउंगा तुम्हे।

Sweet talk her into divorcing you or else she will make your life hell.

bro she is a gold digger and wants ua money and wants to treat u like an ATM or a credit card who she will use it till the limit is exhausted....save ua life n hard earned money rather than spending it on her...file for a divorce and get out of this marriage ASAP to save ua mental n financial peace